Any tips for first time beautiful sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I are in love. We have not done it but will. How can I make our sex good, beautiful, enjoyable, and a wonderful experience for both of us? ...
A. 13 April 2009: I don't know if you mean you're a virgin or you just haven't with him, but anyway. First time sex is not always beautiful and sometimes not enjoyable, just a warning. It can be painful and you can be nervous, but if you take things slow and ... (read in full...)
Single and loving it! Any ideas to make it better?
Q. I am nineteen. I have been single for four months and four days now and have not had sex in that long. I have recently masturbated for the first time ever (about a month ago) and I have to say, I really enjoy it. But are there any techniques and ...
A. 13 April 2009: Obviously fingers are useful, but there are several other things around the house you can use. Hairbrushes, etc. as long as they are clean, and protected is good too. Just make sure you're careful and have fun. You can message anyone on here if ... (read in full...)
Scared of masturbating, but I want to take it to the next level
Q. I'm a 13year old female and i'm scared of masturbating because I think i will hurt myself. I cum easily by watching lesbian porn but I want to take it to the next level, what should I do? ...
A. 11 April 2009: I don't think it is likely you will hurt yourself unless you do more than you are comfortable with or do something wrong, which is unlikely as you should just be following what feels good for you. Just mess around a bit and find out what you like, ... (read in full...)
5 days late ... could I be pregnant?
Q. I kind of had some sexual activity with mu boyfriend. He had protection and he didn't really "go in". I was suppose to get my period 5 days ago and still nothing! is it possible that im pregnant?...
A. 11 April 2009: You were fairly vague as to what you guys did together, but it sounds like if you used protection and everything it is unlikely you are pregnant. Your period can be delayed due to stress, among other things, and so that could be one cause of it. ... (read in full...)
I think I was abused when I was younger. What do I do now? Help!
Q. Hi I was abused when i was younger, and for a while I was OK but nowadays its really been getting me down, I've been crying all night and stuff and I am scared to go to sleep sometimes because of the nightmares, though most of the time I don't rea...
A. 10 April 2009: I think you should see someone professionally or even a school counselor if you wanted. I know that's a hard situation, I'm sorry you are having to deal with it. You can message any of us on here for more advice if you need it. I hope you can find ... (read in full...)
Sexually abused by my brother... what do I do for the best?
Q. Hi, I'm Heli and I'm 13. I was sexually abused when I was younger, by my brother who is 3 to four years my senior. I have told a few people about what happened, but I've never told them who it was who did it to me, because I still live with my ...
A. 9 April 2009: DrPsych's advice is good, I suggest you do find someone you can talk to, either your GP or an adult counselor you feel comfortable with. This is a hard situation, and I'm sorry you have to go through it. You also can message any of us on here if you ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to make me feel guilty for not having sex with him?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for over a month. Im 19 and he is 23 and we were friends for about 2 months before we got together. We havent done anything sexual yet but he always wants to and says that he cant help it because Im so sexy. Last nigh...
A. 7 April 2009: In my opinion that is a short amount of time to date someone, let alone know someone before trusting them to do that with you. I think that he is not being sincere and it sounds as though he is just trying to get one thing from you. It's perfectly ... (read in full...)
First time sex. Next step?
Q. Okay, heres the story, me and boyfriend of 7 months have decided to sleep together and I am a virgin, he isn't, my question is once you know we have slept together, what do you do, my mate says you should go to the toilet, why? I just thought ...
A. 6 April 2009: After you sleep together you can either stay and cuddle or hug or whatever you want. Most people end up going to the toilet just to clean up a bit and sometimes after doing stuff they do have to use it also. You can always come back and hug and ... (read in full...)
Why is sex with my current boyfriend so painful when it wasn't with my ex?
Q. right well basically, I'm 16, (17 in 3 weeks) and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months, he's 20, so he's almost 4 years older than me, but that's irrelevant. :) I was 14 when I got my first real boyfriend, and we were together for 14 ...
A. 6 April 2009: You will just have to take time to get used to it again, and to his size. It is probably just some nervousness along with not being used to it. Use a lot of foreplay and be sure to be VERY relaxed and it should get easier to do. If you need any more ... (read in full...)
Did my aunt's boyfriend rape me or did I betray her trust?
Q. Just over 2 months ago I was at a party at my aunt's house. Everyone had left before 1 o'clock in the morning but I was sleeping over. My little cousin was asleep upstairs and my auntie had been drinking so she went to her bed and left me and her ...
A. 5 April 2009: You were most definitely raped! There was absolutely no excuse for what he did, in any situation, no matter what you did. It was his fault, not yours, and you didn't betray anyone. Please try to find someone you can talk to, an adult about what ... (read in full...)
My friend gave a blow job and now I can't help but be disgusted by her!
Q. Ok, so here's the deal. Recently one of my friends gave her bf oral sex. I asked her over text and she ignored it. Then, rumors went around school so everyone knew basically. Then I found out it was true because she admited it. Shes only 12 and im ...
A. 4 April 2009: Also, you should talk to her about it and tell her how you feel rather than just acting strangely around her. Then she'll at least understand more perhaps. hope that helped some. (Sorry for posting twice).... (read in full...)
My friend gave a blow job and now I can't help but be disgusted by her!
Q. Ok, so here's the deal. Recently one of my friends gave her bf oral sex. I asked her over text and she ignored it. Then, rumors went around school so everyone knew basically. Then I found out it was true because she admited it. Shes only 12 and im ...
A. 4 April 2009: I would just try to get past it. It's something between her and her bf, and although she's really young to do that, it's still her choice. I would just try to focus on the other things you like about her, she's still your friend :).... (read in full...)
How do I get a boyfriend? I'm nearly 14 and want one!
Q. Ok well, Im 13 turning 14. Im in 7th grade, when I really should be in 8th but I went in school late. I have never had a real boyfriend. And when I do tell guys I like them, they don't like me back. My mom says its just because guys arent into girls ...
A. 4 April 2009: Trust me, it'll happen :). I know guys can be dumb (I'm one of them, I know these things) and sometimes they don't respond how they should either. But you'll find one, just let them get to know you and everything. Flirting is always helpful I ... (read in full...)
Can the gynocologist tell if I've been sexually active?
Q. I'm going to a gyno tomorrow to get an exam, for me to get Birth Control. I'm freaking out because my mom told me to be honest with the doctor and I am but I'm not a virgin and my mom would freak if she found out I've been sexually active. She said ...
A. 31 March 2009: Please be honest with your gyno, they cannot tell your mother anything you tell them not to say. You can have your mom out of the room if you want, but it's important t be honest with them. If you need to you can message me but I'm sure you'll be ... (read in full...)
Could anyone possibly tell me why sex didn't hurt the first time but hurt when I did it again today?
Q. Last weekend, I lost my virginity to a guy that I'm deeply in love with. Well, it didn't hurt the first time we had sex (We did "Doggy style" then had regular sex) but just today, we had sex again (Yes we used protection) and it seriously hurt. He ...
A. 29 March 2009: That is probably why yes, foreplay is very important to making it feel good for you. You need to be wet enough and turned on and relaxed for it to feel right. If he does it again, make sure you do stuff before hand so you are turned on. If you need ... (read in full...)
Is there a good reason for people to find out you've had sex?
Q. is there a good reason that people have to find out u've had sex? because i want to have sex with my bf, he wants to have sex with me, but we r concerned about getting caught and him going to jail since he is 18 and im 15. but i thinks its impossib...
A. 27 March 2009: I know you don't want him to go to jail, and that you care about him and emotionally attached to him. Unfortunately, what he's doing to you is very wrong and I want you to know that he doesn't control you or have to have the power over you. You need ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend being disrespectful?
Q. Today my boyfriend was talking to his friends and they were talking about me and saying how much of a baby I am and then he was talking about our sex life and stuff like that and my boyfriend was just sitting there and laughing and thinking that it ...
A. 25 March 2009: Definitely it's disrespect, completely. Tell him to quit it because no one deserves to be treated like that, especially not by a boyfriend/girlfriend. It's also rather rude to make private things (sex life) public and make fun of anyone for anything ... (read in full...)
Thoughts about sex, early experiences?
Q. I know it is several years too soon but there are things I think about almost constantly. I am a freshman in HS and have never had a boyfriend but when that time comes and I am willing to have sex does the BF remove some of my clothes or should I? ...
A. 24 March 2009: I'm glad you realize that it is still pretty early on to be thinking about seriously doing that stuff. And I hope you remember that when you do do it, that you should use protection. Anyway, there's no real 'right way' to have sex, I mean, you... (read in full...)
Is this a good gift idea?
Q. Hi, im 15 anf my gf is 14. Next week will be our six month anniversary, and i wanted to get her somethin special. We recently took some pictures together and i really like this one where we were passionately kissing, it looks so romantic. So i ...
A. 24 March 2009: I think that's a great gift idea. I have given girls pictures before and they seemed to like them. Pictures can be very meaningful, good choice :)... (read in full...)
Yesterday I was working and my boss had sex with me, he's 70.
Q. I just need to let this all out, it feels like a huge burden to carry and I feel so upset, dirty and alone. Okay, I am 17 and at collage, I have a Saturday job in a small family run shop nearby. Yesterday I was working and my boss had sex with me, ...
A. 23 March 2009: I agree, please report him immediately! It is illegal, no matter the person's age, to force someone into doing sexual things that they don't want to do. I'm so sorry this happened to you, and if you feel comfortable with it you may want to talk to a ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend refuses to wear condoms!
Q. my boyfriend refuses to wear condoms and I'm afraid i might get pregnant if he doesn't my friend told me about different woman condoms would you suggest woman condoms if not what can i do...
A. 21 March 2009: I'm glad we could help, let us know how it goes.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend refuses to wear condoms!
Q. my boyfriend refuses to wear condoms and I'm afraid i might get pregnant if he doesn't my friend told me about different woman condoms would you suggest woman condoms if not what can i do...
A. 20 March 2009: If he can't respect you enough to wear them if you want him to, then don't sleep with him. He's your boyfriend, but that doesn't give him the right to just do whatever, and you don't deserve that either.... (read in full...)
Why is my mom so strict all of a sudden?
Q. There's this guy (Yeah, really original). Any ways, he's ten years older than me, he's 26. His parents are really good friends with mine. The biggest secret I have kept from my parents was not telling them I had started dating him when I was 1...
A. 20 March 2009: I think that although they may seem okay with you dating him, they probably are extremely nervous about it. The age differnce is probably something they worry about, and maybe also wondering what else you haven't told them about either.
I sug... (read in full...)
Its really bothering me that she doesn't want to talk to me
Q. So the past few days, umm monday tues and tonight, have been awkward, she usually calls me at night, we usually tlak every night, but the past few nights i text her yo su should callme, and she ask why? and for what? and idk why shes being liek thi...
A. 19 March 2009: Enjoimx's advice is excellent. Space is something that she needs right now, and maybe you need it too to see things a bit more clearly. She may feel pressured by you calling, even though you just want to talk, to her she may not be sure what she's ... (read in full...)
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