Is she just being friendly or is she interested?
Q. I hope someone can give me some advice. I know I sound pretty inept about it, but it's been about 5 years since I've really dated someone. There's a girl who started working where I do recently, our work is such that we only see each other...
A. 18 June 2017: In most workplaces, it is absolutely normal for people to socialize, and I have yet to work in a place where nobody ended up dating. So it could be either way.
Hard to tell if you guys spoke only once. It's a judgement call and it can be hard to ... (read in full...)
Is ejaculating in a woman's mouth more degrading than on her face?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years now, and really want to ejaculate in her mouth, she can't stand the taste. She wants me to ejaculate on her face, but I feel that's degrading....what do you guys suggest....?...
A. 28 October 2014: It is NOT degrading and part of a healthy sex life. It's actually quite disrespectful for a woman to refuse this to her partner. I would never date a woman who wouldn't want. ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me (other than being a pig for treating my wife this way)?
Q. Feels like I've fallen in Love for the first time in my life...but i've been married for over twenty years... It all started about five years ago (im 41 years old now)...my wife and I had been becoming too distant...it was more than the two of us ...
A. 5 August 2014: Dear LostinLoveBraz,
What happened after your last post?... (read in full...)
My husband is very particular about how he likes oral, is this normal?
Q. Hello, I have written in before and gotten excellent advice. My last posting was about a week ago about my mom objecting to the way my husband and I treat each other. We have three kids (biological), 8, 5, and 2, and have the adoption of an 1...
A. 29 April 2014: That's amazing! I have the exact same fetish... minus the knee pads! Your husband seems pretty normal to me. Lucky guy he is.
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She says porn is cheating, but she'll pull out her vibrator right after sex!?
Q. I made the mistake of not deleting my internet history after watching porn one night recently, and my wife discovered what I'd been up to. She was annoyed about it and said porn counts as cheating unless we watch it together. At the time I didn't ...
A. 1 June 2013: 1- Watching pornography is not cheating. I'm always amazed, browsing this site, at how much this is a problem for some couples. It's fantasy, it's not real! How can something that is NOT real could be cheating?? As long as your viewing habits are ... (read in full...)
Why do I turn off and feel sick just when I feel like I'm just about to orgasm?
Q. Hey, I'm 18 years old and I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend. I'm finding it hard to get into sex. We've now had sex 6 times, it bled the first 2 times quite a bit and then it bled a bit more on the 6th time (is that normal?). The ti...
A. 7 June 2012: Being distracted during sex is not something unusual. I'm not saying it happens to everyone (honestly, I don't know) but it happens to me from time to time. It can be caused by the environment (is there noise? do you fear someone will come back ... (read in full...)
Do drunk people mean what they say?
Q. Hey everyone, So, I need to talk to someone and I have absolutely no one to confide in. This might be long, so thank you in advance for reading, I appreciate it so much. Me and this guy have been a "thing" for over two years, he's asked me to...
A. 31 May 2012: Depends of the drinker and depends how many drinks he had. Some people are more introvert, are not comfortable with emotions and will find it easier after a drink or two to tell things they otherwise have difficulty to express. And some people, even ... (read in full...)
B/f proposed to me but I'm unsure since he seems addicted to porn
Q. My bf of 2.5yrs has asked me to marry him. I know most women would be absolutely giddy with happiness, yet I told him that I needed to think about it. Earlier in the year I walked in on him jacking off to porn. When we first started dating he told ...
A. 24 April 2012: So many people on this site seem to have a problem with porn, I can't understand why. Once again, this topic... Watching porn is a fairly common 'hobby'. True, not everybody enjoy it, but it's very common and, for some reason, it's still somet... (read in full...)
How can I get my study partner in the sack?
Q. Here is the situation there is this girl, she is my classmate and she lives not far at my place, she asked me to study with her for exams just like we did last semester, but the thing is I'm attracted to her, and I told her couple of times how I ...
A. 5 November 2011: Wait until he dumps her. Then she'll feel lonely and it will be much easier to convince her hehe You need patience. And also another girl in the meantime. Your chances don't look very good if she has a boyfriend and is happy with the relation... (read in full...)
After he walked out, I joined a dating site and when he found out, he dumped me!
Q. Me and my boyfriend (ex now) had an argument,and as normal he walked out. The day after I joined a dating site. Only a day I know, but we was not together. He has found out and now dumped me. Its the longest we have ever broke up. He says he does ...
A. 5 November 2011: If he found out, I wonder what he was doing on this dating site in the first place. I understand his frustration when finding out, but he was there looking for girls too, he just didn't set up a profile.
You being on a dating site should not be, ... (read in full...)
Did I handle the conversation badly?
Q. Hello, I really need an external opinion about this situation and if i handle it badly. I met this guy one month ago and i really like him. We went to a party and we finished in bed. But i left leaving him surprised. I knew he was asking ...
A. 5 November 2011: I agree... and disagree with the previous posters. They are right when they say he would have contacted you if he was that interested. At the same time, I don't think it would be a mistake on your part to ask him for another date. I would text him ... (read in full...)
Does giving blowjobs make a girl a whore?
Q. If I like giving bj's does that make me a whore...? I give my bf plenty of them cuz in my opinion I find it fun, my friends say that girls who do it a lot are dirty... and even though I try to ignore it, it always comes back... is it bad for a girl ...
A. 2 September 2010: Oh certainly not! Oral sex is part of a normal and enjoyable sexlife. There's nothing "slutty" about it.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have a passionate kiss on a first date?
Q. Is it ok to kiss a guy on the mouth the first date or will he think I'm a whore ? Thanks for any input you can give I have an upcoming date with this guy I have only met once and he is really cute. So naturally I want to kiss him lol ! ...
A. 24 September 2009: It's ok! Don't hesitate!... (read in full...)
How can I get a flesh light?
Q. I'm a 15 year old male and have been masterbating since I can remember. I am getting sick of my hand and would like a flesh Light. Any tips on how to get one?...
A. 24 September 2009: I don't know if it's legal for teenagers to buy sex toys like a fleshlight. I think it depends of which province/state you live. I'm pretty sure most stores will never sell it to an underage person though. Even if it's illegal to sell to underage, ... (read in full...)
I told my wife I would leave if my MIL moved in with us!
Q. my wife and i have been together for 6 years now. ever since we've been together either her sister, her brother, or her mother is living with us. we've been by ourselves for 5 months out of the 6 years of our relationship. her mother is 41 and she ...
A. 24 September 2009: If you put up with that for all that time, you're definetely not a selfish man. As a married man, you have the right to enjoy some time alone with your family, your wife. I understand that she loves her mother and wants to help her, but maybe the ... (read in full...)
Should I let my boyfriend watch porn?
Q. Me and my partner have been together for 3 and a half years and have recently moved in together. We found it difficult at first but now we are getting back to how we used to be. But there's one thing that really bothers me about him - he watches ...
A. 19 July 2009: Wow! Just came across this post and I'm apalled by the number of long replies it got so far and by how bad many women here reacts to men watching pornography. As a guy, I feel the need to give my opinion about it.
First, to the girl who posted t... (read in full...)
Should we come clean to just the twin and try and get her to keep it quiet or should be say nothing?
Q. I've decided to come out now (at least on here), but me and my cousins around chirstmas ended up having sex for the first time, and then again about a month and a half ago. Now before you all get going on how it's wrong and illegal... it is...
A. 23 April 2009: Personally, I don't see anything wrong with that... but I remember discussing that matter with friends a long time ago, and some people think it's wrong, others not. Your family might not react very well to the news, and I think you're both aware of ... (read in full...)
I can't make any sense of a relationship.
Q. Ok, so I took a job in Dubai. I met an Asian girl during my 1st month there. We had a date, but then lost contact, then bumped into each other again. I have a problem with girls, I often get like anxious. I talk to lots of girls and take lots of ...
A. 23 April 2009: wow... what a story! she seems like a total nutcase
but she obviously chose the guy she was with in the first place, and distance propably didn't help your chances
the guy who replied just before me had been rude in his answers... but I'm not ... (read in full...)
Is she a total slut? Or just desperate for attention?
Q. So I've been seeing this girl recently who I really like and who really like me back. We are in a semi-serious relationship in which we are pretty devoted to eachother but not entirely yet. I'm finding out increasingly that we may not be the best ...
A. 23 April 2009: Well, I don't like to qualify people as "sluts". She does what she wants. If you're with her only for sex and you don't mind if she has sex with other people, take advantage of the situation. But if it's a more serious relationship or an exclusive ... (read in full...)
Catholic girlfriend denying me sex!
Q. I've got quite a dilema. I don't even know where to begin. I'm atheist (24 years old) and I have a uber conservative Cathlolic girlfriend (20 years old). We've been going out for 8 months. I love her and she loves me but there's a major problem ...
A. 23 April 2009: If you can get married because you're an atheist and she's catholic, how is it going to be differend 5 years from now? Did she expect you to change your mind about religion?
If you really really want to get married with her, I'd suggest to prop... (read in full...)
How did he move on so fast after all we've been through?
Q. Hi, I am in desperate need of insight into a situation. I was with a guy for 2 years, he loved me dearly and then overnight it was over. He went from wanting to marry me to needing time to figure himself out within a week. What does this all me...
A. 26 October 2008: I can't tell for sure because I'm not in this guy's head, but maybe he's going through lots of stress and is really afraid of something. If he told you he wanted to marry you and everything, maybe he thinks now that he's not strong enough to fulfill ... (read in full...)
I promised her oral sex...would it be tacky if I backed out?
Q. Help... I need some advice soon. I am a 25 year old married woman. I have been married about three years. My best friend since freshman days in college is a woman my age and married just about as long. In fact, we were each others Maid of Honor ...
A. 25 October 2008: I think it's wonderful... as long as the husbands don't know! What is so wrong with that? Your husbands don't know about it, and they're not there when you need them. It doesn't harm anybody, so go for it! Plus, if one of them learn about it, I t... (read in full...)
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