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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Is it ok to kiss a guy on the mouth the first date or will he think I'm a whore ? Thanks for any input you can give I have an upcoming date with this guy I have only met once and he is really cute. So naturally I want to kiss him lol ! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, appliance +, writes (24 September 2009):
It's ok! Don't hesitate!
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reader, Lib1 +, writes (24 September 2009):
I had the same question after I shared a passionate kiss that ended up turning into a serious make-out session on my couch, in the hallway, in the elevator, in the lobby, and at the front door. We kept dating and eventually all the guy wanted from me was sex.
I say passionate kiss is okay but maybe not as far as I went. And if it does go there... ask yourself why. Maybe he is wanting one thing but with some cuddling benefits.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (24 September 2009):
Yep, I say it's OK to kiss passionately, ardently, earth-shatteringly in a first date.
Wow, how I envy this guy, and he hasn't even been kissed yet.
Oldersister, you're a bad girl.
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reader, DLover +, writes (24 September 2009):
Of course it's ok !
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): no he definitly wont think your a whore, but he might be worried about whether or not he should kiss you. he might think you are if you like had sex in a public washroom or something, but not kissing lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): well in my opinion nothing is wrong with a passionate kiss but it depends on the signal you want to send some people take it as you want to get sexually involved like that same night
but if you dont want that then give it sometime like the 2nd or 3rd date or something by then you should have gotten to known him better and then know you can do that
hope it helps best wishes
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reader, caddy_girl10 +, writes (24 September 2009):
Go for it girl! He won't think your a whore, most likely he wants to kiss you too! So just go for it. I wish you the best! Feel free to message me :)
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