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writes:Here is the situation there is this girl, she is my classmate and she lives not far at my place, she asked me to study with her for exams just like we did last semester, but the thing is I'm attracted to her, and I told her couple of times how I think of her but she kept telling me that she has a boyfriend. But I really like her and I don't think I will focusing on just studying with her. I want to show her I'm serious and hopefully convince her to go in bed with me. She really is hot please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIs it okay for me to tell her how I feel about her?
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reader, appliance  +, writes (5 November 2011):
Wait until he dumps her. Then she'll feel lonely and it will be much easier to convince her heheYou need patience. And also another girl in the meantime. Your chances don't look very good if she has a boyfriend and is happy with the relationship.
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reader, lakers_lover09  +, writes (5 November 2011):
Haha all of us guys have,been there man. Trust me, dont do it. Us guys gotta respect each other! Never chase another man's girl knowingly. Im in university too and ever girl I see I think is the hottest in the world ...and then I see another hottest in the world lol let this one go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2011): dude, give it up. you`re going to make yourself look like a desperate jerk.. and then she might even decide to tell her friends about it and then the rumor mill starts and suddenly tons of girls think youre some sleezy guy trying to get girls to cheat w/you. She respects you and thinks of you as a friend, why do you need to ruin that? You are no serious, you are just thinking with your penis. You have a lot of maturing to do.
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reader, KittieS  +, writes (5 November 2011):
 She has a boyfriend, end of story until they split up.
Perusing her when she is basically saying no to you, because she's in a relationship will only achieve her getting very annoyed with you. One of my work collegues who I liked as a friend (who is married) is doing it to me and I now go out of my way to avoid him and think he is a complete idiot (midly put)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2011): I agree with "aunt honesty" You shouldnt keep persuing her if you what keep her as a friend.
And think maybe friends is good if anything happens in her relationship you'll be first in line to be there for her. ;)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 November 2011):
 Give up now. She has a boyfriend you need to respect that. She looks to you as a study partner and nothing else. If you keep at this girl you will just drive her away. She is in a committed relationship, you need to accept that. She is not willing to cheat on her boyfriend and I say good for her. If her presence is going to effect you maybe it might be best to study on your own. If you can handle just being friends well that's good, but you need to accept that it is only going to be friends and nothing else.
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reader, spanishquerida +, writes (4 November 2011):
She has a boyfriend, so don't. Simple.
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reader, todsucht  +, writes (4 November 2011):
 she has a boyfriend so your going to try to ruin what they have so you can have fun, if you ever get a girlfriend then you cant really complain if they cheat on you, because that's what your trying to get her to do."I want to show her I'm serious and hopefully convince her to go in bed with me." this shows that you are not serious, relationships do not revolve around this, it is a perk."She really is hot" irrelevant.I may not have been able to firmly grasp what you were trying to say, this is just what i got out of it.i feel like a jerk for saying all this.
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