Why did she lie? I need help!
Q. I am embarassed to be here writing this today as its something I never ever anticipated doing, but the truth in the matter is I need answers and help! i first met my gf 7 years ago,however back then she was with someone and we just got on as f...
A. 25 November 2010: See when you toss out these large moral expectations before you get to know someone, esepcially someone with a troubled past, it puts pressure on them.
My ex had a very crazy life filled with anything and everything the would have made me run for ... (read in full...)
Will she end up coming back to me? How long will it take?
Q. Will my girlfriend of 5 years come back? I have been with this girl for about 5yrs now and just last week she told me she wanted to end it and have time to herself to figure out what she wants, next morning wake up to her wanting me to stay. a ...
A. 25 November 2010: You both obviously have lots of attachments. She has to love you to have spent the past 5 years with you, and that might be why she's kind of iffy and back and forth because she probably doesn't want to hurt you Mate.
Thing can get stale af... (read in full...)
Three years since we split, how can I erase the unwanted memories?
Q. My ex tried to contact me on Facebook. I didn't add her as a friend because every time i hear from her it brings me down for days. This time however i saw that she has a new surname and its really brought back some unwanted memories.My question is ...
A. 25 November 2010: There is only one cure I've found for this time of thing. One day you will meet someone who will have your heart banging off your ribs it beats so damned fast.
In the meantime, when you felt so deeply for someone it's impossible to make your hear... (read in full...)
I thought we were great together and all of a sudden he's not responding
Q. So I met a guy 2 weeks ago, who I hit it off with really well. We met at a bar near my school and hung out the whole night. He had said he was surprised that I even spoke to him, and that he normally never went up to girls as he found most girls at ...
A. 25 November 2010: It's funny how this happens, and it happens to everyone. And then one day you realize you are on the opposite end of it for whatever reason.
It's hard to answer because so little is known about him. Does he have any baggage he's carrying... (read in full...)
I caught my housemates bitching about me being gay - I can't forgive them. Help?
Q. I currently share a house with two girls. We’ve known each other for two years and through out those two years we’ve always been best friends. We’ve been through a lot with each other and I’d like to think we’ve there for one another at different ...
A. 25 November 2010: Some of my best friends are lesbians. We've chatted about sex, but it's not something I really want to hear about anymore than they want to hear about the nasties I do in my bedroom. You have to understand I can talk about dicks till the cows ... (read in full...)
I want this to be our flat not his childrens
Q. my boyfriend and i are moving into a one bed flat together soon - our first home together. he has three kids and has a family photo on his wall currently but i want one of me and him in our new flat. i don't get on with his children and want it to ...
A. 25 November 2010: Don't move in with him. In fact you need to break up with him before you cause his family havoc and ensure the next guy you date doesn't have children. You show no signs of wanting anything to do with his kids. You should let him know this ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't like kissing after oral sex
Q. Hello dear readers: ok i have a sex issue, i'm with my gf 1year and 4 months....and every time in bed i want to make some kunilingus and make her happy she doesn't want it she told me that every time i do it well she likes it but then we kiss and ...
A. 24 November 2010: Doom I meant oral sex. One day you stop and think and say, "she hasn't licked my lolly in months!" It was kind of a joke though. Kind of. lol Although, if you love giving it back, that should keep her happy and returning the favor. Guys can ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't like kissing after oral sex
Q. Hello dear readers: ok i have a sex issue, i'm with my gf 1year and 4 months....and every time in bed i want to make some kunilingus and make her happy she doesn't want it she told me that every time i do it well she likes it but then we kiss and ...
A. 24 November 2010: Doom I meant oral sex. One day you stop and think and say, "she hasn't licked my lolly in months!" It was kind of a joke though. Kind of. lol... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I love him or wait for him to say it first?
Q. ok so i have been seeing this guy for a few months and i know for me it was love at first sight. i just felt connected to him somehow. anyways we moved in together already and things are great. only thing is that i am having a hard time not telling ...
A. 24 November 2010: If he weren't so afraid of calling you his girlfriend, I'd say at this stage it wouldn't be a scary event. A few weeks or maybe a month of dating is a bit soon but months.... And he won't call you his girlfriend? Exclusive or not, what is he ... (read in full...)
Do guys enjoy intercourse if a vagina is too wide?
Q. I am not sure if I should have intercourse with my boyfriend because I think my vagina is too wide. I had 4 kids, one was a c-section and 3 vaginal. I'm worried that is too wide for him, not sure because we haven't had intercourse yet. Maybe ...
A. 24 November 2010: You are being entirely too self-concious of yourself. That is no reason to hold back on sex anyway as doing so would surely not make for a happy man.
Don't forget, guys have to fret over their equipment too. Just saying. If he has a little p... (read in full...)
I couldn't wait for him to come out of the closet!
Q. So I'm gay and there's this guy that I like. He is actually my house mate, and things are kind of weird. over the past 2 months, I thought that he had been hinting to me that he was gay, or at least unsure of his sexuality. I have never really ...
A. 24 November 2010: Coming out is as we know, a very complex screwed up process. There's sexuality, emotions, dealing with the existing relationships, lots and lots of fear, uncertainty.
I think his moods and drinking are more about him than they really are abou... (read in full...)
I'm straight but attracted to men, why?
Q. Hi there. I am confused about some things at this stage and I need some help. I am 22 and I have a mixed feelings about sexual likings. Recently, when I feel hot or in the mood, I am getting thoughts to have sex with men! I have such feelin...
A. 24 November 2010: So about a year ago you started getting sexually excited about guys but nothing emotional.
If its becoming so dominating, maybe you should experiment and see if you like it? Did you experiment growing up? Most people usually do when they hit... (read in full...)
Condoms in the cupboard
Q. Found condoms in boyfriends cupboard...expired 2009. He said used with wife in 2004 then forgot about them. Ive Been with him since 2005 Does that make sense? ...
A. 24 November 2010: I once found condoms in my partners travel sack he takes everywhere and was really vexed! But um, they too were expired and had probably been there before me... Relax.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't like kissing after oral sex
Q. Hello dear readers: ok i have a sex issue, i'm with my gf 1year and 4 months....and every time in bed i want to make some kunilingus and make her happy she doesn't want it she told me that every time i do it well she likes it but then we kiss and ...
A. 24 November 2010: Would you kiss her after you blew your load in her mouth? What? You don't like your sperm sloshing in your mouth? :-)
Everyones comfort levels are different, you just have to respect it. If she's giving your oral be happy. That usually ... (read in full...)
Did he really set this trap for me?
Q. Was it wrong of me to read my boyfriend emails. this is what happen my gut told me something was wrong with our 2.5 year relationship. I asked him and he said nothing and I was overreacting. I let it go for 4 days and knowing his passwords (which he ...
A. 24 November 2010: I have done this myself in the past. Your gut feelings are not usually wrong. And I know all too well it's not about being a snoop or freely breaking trust, it's about silencing the fears screaming in your head.
Have you done anything to make ... (read in full...)
She told me she likes me but is back with her boyfriend, what should I do?
Q. i am a 20 year old college student and i like this girl that i have really gotten to know in the past few months, she has a boy friend but she told me that she likes me. she broke up with her boy friend but is now back together with him. i am ...
A. 24 November 2010: Ever feel kind of depressed, so you go and buy something to cheer yourself up?
Maybe a video game or a movie. It's a good temporary distraction from what had you down, but the thing you were depressed about is still there.
Unfortuna... (read in full...)
Is it normal for me to be in such pain after my first time?
Q. hi well i had sex for the first time today..it didnt hurt but now after im really really sore my legs and everything...is this normal? i know they say it hurts the first time and in the process it didnt not really it was like a bee sting but now im ...
A. 24 November 2010: It is normal, and there are lots of factors that can have you feeling this way. I hate to use the expression, but popping the pith from the cherry is a good one. It's kind of like that actually, and luckily it's not something you'll really have to ... (read in full...)
He freaks out about little things
Q. So i have my own apartment and my boyfriend keeps telling me he wants to move in with me. i love that he wants to and honestly cannot wait considering we have been together for 3 1/2 years. but the second i didnt pick him up (he doesnt have a car) ...
A. 24 November 2010: It's obvious that you want to live with him. Not a doubt in your mind about. You're concerned about why he's playing this game... Oh wait, yes, he's playing a game and isn't sharing in your certainty. You know the answer, it's just not one you ... (read in full...)
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