How Does The Dumper Feel After Dumping You?
Q. I was dumped three months ago, not really on bad terms; I just didn't see it coming. I frequently see questions from those dumped; pleading for a way to help the pain to stop. They need comfort and a shoulder to cry on. They feel wretched and ...
A. 6 August 2013: thank you for this, you brought me comfort. i appreciate it.... (read in full...)
How can I have a relationship when she is still in his life?
Q. Hello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'm going through a situation and I'm trying to get some opinions. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months now. My problem is that he's still friends with his ex, ...
A. 29 July 2013: this type of stuff really sucks and still even kind of confuses me. it sounds like he is probably not completely over her. for me, i feel like you can not truly love someone until you are completely over the last person you loved. and if he... (read in full...)
I'm dating my ex again but I'm just not sure what to read from her actions
Q. Hi, I came on here a few months ago, because my girlfreind dumped me after her dad got into a tragic accident and was left very badly hurt and needing help 24/7. It has been 4.5 months since the split, and we have recently been meeting up again. W...
A. 29 July 2013: *sigh to be honest, as time goes by, think about what you truly deserve. think about it, seriously. you should really talk to her about how you feel about you two and make it clear about what you want from your guys' relationship. if she can'... (read in full...)
Anger overcame our love
Q. I was with him for 3 years. We loved and cared for each other more than anything. But now every day I hurt and I cry and I'm so sad to be without him. This initial break up happened about two months ago and since then we've spoken, yelled, ...
A. 21 July 2013: Thank you. ... (read in full...)
I'm dating my ex again but I'm just not sure what to read from her actions
Q. Hi, I came on here a few months ago, because my girlfreind dumped me after her dad got into a tragic accident and was left very badly hurt and needing help 24/7. It has been 4.5 months since the split, and we have recently been meeting up again. W...
A. 21 July 2013: my situation is still in the works. it's been really hard and i'm not sure what's going on anymore...i think at this point we just need time and space from each other because it seems as though every time we talk now it just gets out of hand because ... (read in full...)
I'm dating my ex again but I'm just not sure what to read from her actions
Q. Hi, I came on here a few months ago, because my girlfreind dumped me after her dad got into a tragic accident and was left very badly hurt and needing help 24/7. It has been 4.5 months since the split, and we have recently been meeting up again. W...
A. 20 July 2013: i would just take things slow. it's confusing at first but i reckon if it all works out in due time, it was meant to be and your true feelings and connection will come full throttle.
i went through something similar, and my best advice is to just ... (read in full...)
Amazing passion with my sexy neighbour, then the ex pops up again
Q. Hi I desperately need some advice as in a real mess ! I dated Jon three years ago for about a year. I totally fell in love with him but became frustrated that he seemed to lack interest in me and the relationship seemed very one sided. He broke up ...
A. 20 July 2013: it sounds like things with jon are never going to change and it seems like every time you get involved with him again it just ends up being the way it's always been - a mess.
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His ex keeps in touch. Should I be worried that my Bf sends texts to his ex sometimes?
Q. I saw a simple "hi, just dropping you a text to see how you're keeping" text on my boyfriends phone. We had been talking previously the day before about knowing phone numbers by heart and he mentioned a couple of his exes in his list! There's one ...
A. 1 June 2013: i don't think you should worry, but i also think you should probably talk to him about this. i personally think it can be a hit or miss situation. you'll never know how he really feels about her or anything at all unless you ask him and talk to him ... (read in full...)
How do I accept I can't be with her?
Q. Hello Dear Cupid, I don't know if this is the right place for this but I really need to write this as I really don't know what else to do? So I've read a few stories on here and this may sound like the usual broken heart, but I feel my stor...
A. 1 June 2013: hey there,
i feel like i'm going through a somewhat similar situation and i'm just as confused as you are. i feel like i'm never going to give up hope on him and i. but what i think i'm slowly realizing is that you need to make yourself happy. t... (read in full...)
My boyfriend saves pictures of beautiful women he knows
Q. My boyfriend (we'll call him Jim) saves pictures of beautiful women he knows onto his phone (he gets the photos off Facebook and online). I've known since I met him that he likes being seen with attractive women - the overwhelming maj...
A. 10 May 2013: This is difficult. I'm kind of going through the same thing, I mean...relatively. In any case, I've had a problem similar to this with my boyfriend and we talked about it the first time almost a year ago. I told him "if you truly love me and want to ... (read in full...)
We broke up but I want to remain close friends
Q. Hello everyone, To make it short and simple I want to start by saying my boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 years. We've had our ups and downs in the relationship but always knew how to steer it back on the right track when things were goin...
A. 26 August 2012: A lot of people have made some good points on "being friends with an ex" so I won't get into that.
What I will get into is that if you really see a future with this guy and love him and want to make things work, talk to him. A lot. Have the most... (read in full...)
I am not sure what to do?
Q. I'm so torn... I've been dating this girl for three years, and things are great, except when they're not. For a good part of our relationship, we spent countless hours fighting about stuff that, in my opinion, shouldn't have been issues in the fi...
A. 4 November 2011: This honestly does sound really troubling. My advice is if you really love her and really want to be with her for the rest of your life then don't let her go. It sounds like you really do love her. Though you say you feel trapped...letting her know ... (read in full...)
Why do I push my boyfriend away?
Q. Recently, I've been really depressed. I end up withdrawing into myself when this happens, because I'm afraid to ask for help, or to confide in them deeply. My last really depressive episode, I broke up with my boyfriend because I desperately need...
A. 8 June 2011: I think what you really need to do is get into a serious one on one conversation with him and tell him about all your problems. Vent yourself to him. Then, after that, he will understand where you're coming from. Not only does it take just one ... (read in full...)
Help!!! I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating.
Q. I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating. Lately he has been distant, says its more work related. We don't speak as much as we used to. Last week as we were texting he called me "Judy" my name is no where even close to th...
A. 30 November 2010: It's tough to say. You've really got to talk to him about trust issues because this is what sounds like is going on. You obviously aren't fully trusting him right now, and that needs to be worked on.
You need to step back from this situatio... (read in full...)
She has me so confused!
Q. im really confused i gave my girlfriend some time to think becuase she told me that shes unsure shes happy being in a relationship. Ive given her sooo much space in the last couple of days, but she will tell me she loves me all the time if we dont ...
A. 28 October 2010: I agree with the first response where it mentions how people can be scared of love because of fear of loss. Love is a battlefield.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he's going to leave me for someone else
Q. I've been in a fantastic relationship for a year now. He's absolutely wonderful and treats me so well. But I am quite insecure. He's never done anything to hurt me or make me think he'd leave me. He even called me the love of his life the other ...
A. 27 September 2010: I think ones insecurities subconsciously will make the other lover insecure about themselves in the relationship also. At least from what I've experienced anyway. You have to be sure of yourself, be confident. Be happy and make sure you've got ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend being cold and distant, is it related to stress?
Q. Hi everyone, thanks for taking time to read my question. Ok, so um I need help like urgently. The best relationship I ever had is about to collapse and I want to do something before it's too late. Here's the situation, I've been seeing this gu...
A. 27 September 2010: There are a few things to consider. Try to understand what he's going through, and school is stressful, remember that. He may be just loaded with school work and sometimes when someone is in a situation like that, you just need to rest and in some ... (read in full...)
I'm tripping, right? How do I learn to relax and not worry so much?
Q. Am I worryin bout nothin? My bf calls me daily (2x a day sometimes) and the other night..on thurs we were talking n he had to call me back. He never did (sometimes he falls asleep so I figured that's what happened) anyway - I didn't get a call the...
A. 19 July 2010: First off, you need to trust him. Second, you need to be 100% sure about your feelings towards each other and third, you need to call him and be honest with him! Ask him why he hasn't called you and let him know how you feel about it.... (read in full...)
How do I change our sex life so that it's amazing every time?
Q. Just yesterday my boyfriend and I were really aggravated at each other. So, as we were laying down I asked him why he was mad at me. He began to explain why, and on top of the first reason there were a few others. When we were done talking, ...
A. 6 July 2010: Aw. Thanks everyone, this really helps me out. I'll be seeing him tomorrow and plan to take all of your advice.
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The intimacy in our relationship has all but gone completely, what should I do?
Q. i don't know what to do .we don't talk or rarely in sleep in the same bed . if it wasnt for a few i love yous and kisses you wouldn't even know were a couple please help...
A. 5 July 2010: You HAVE to talk about it. Get down to the nitty gritty and make you you don't leave anything out. MAKE SURE he talks about it too. If you never talk about it, nothing will ever get solved.... (read in full...)
Ex-girlfriend has moved on, though I just can't, for some reason....
Q. So here it is...yet another guy who for some reason cannot get over what happened with his ex-girlfriend... I stress that it's not that I can't get over her, or even that I want her back just that I cannot get over what she did...it makes n...
A. 5 July 2010: You have so much more time to get over it. I think, sometimes, the only option for people in situations like this is to move on and keep forgetting. That should be your motto. Get rid of everything that reminds you of her, change. Change is good. ... (read in full...)
Why is he ignoring me for so long?
Q. I am in a ldr(long distance relation)for about 5 years. My bf is angry with me for getting him in trouble at work by being I admit annoying and over texting him. I realize I was annoying, and didn't consider his job but I believe I just miss him and ...
A. 5 July 2010: Figure out the problem, talk about the problem, then figure out a way you can fix the problem. Communication is key in a relationship if I've ever learned a lesson.
Also - It sounds like he's being a big douche bag, kinda. Ignoring someone ... (read in full...)
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