Am I being conned online?
Q. -This was in a cam chat- So I met a guy online and he seems to be into me and I'm into him. Usually when I meet guys on cam all they want to see is my body which is pretty normal I think. But this guy first asked to see my eyes (since I usually...
A. 12 April 2012: you have to be really careful when speaking with people online, some are genuine and maybe his cam did honestly break however, some people are going to lie and pretend to be someone they're not. try and find out if he has profiles on other sites ... (read in full...)
Do I move on and always wonder what might have been, knowing that it will hurt me or do I wait and see what he says?
Q. Ok so basically at new years me and this boy were both very drunk and ended up kissing, nothing else happened. Neither of us mentioned it again. A month ago, one of my friends had a house party and me and the boy were amongst a few others staying ...
A. 12 April 2012: its just the way he keeps giving me mixed signals, i ask him to make a choice and he says he doesnt want a relationship, yet a few minutes later he'll be saying he doesnt know. i guess its the feeling that i know we would be so right for eachother ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be this in love without meeting someone?
Q. Help! for nearly a year i have been talking to a turkish guy online and i can honestly say that i really like him. Hes so lovely and although i have never met him in person, im sure i will like him. he is really like my dream man and he honestly ...
A. 8 June 2011: i know & i have had so many dreams about meeting him and i really would like too. And already he has been waiting around a year for meand hes aware that theres another year to go. but im worried that when i tell him my parents dont know, he wont be ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be this in love without meeting someone?
Q. Help! for nearly a year i have been talking to a turkish guy online and i can honestly say that i really like him. Hes so lovely and although i have never met him in person, im sure i will like him. he is really like my dream man and he honestly ...
A. 7 June 2011: he is emailing me yh, but its not the same as seeing him for 4 hours every night. i would love him to come, but he thinks that my parents know about him, which they dont. :/... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be this in love without meeting someone?
Q. Help! for nearly a year i have been talking to a turkish guy online and i can honestly say that i really like him. Hes so lovely and although i have never met him in person, im sure i will like him. he is really like my dream man and he honestly ...
A. 5 June 2011: and also, many times he has said that he wants to come and visit me, but i have to keep putting him off because i havnt told my parents. if they knew i had been talking to strangers online, they wouldnt be too impressed, well, maybe just the fact ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be this in love without meeting someone?
Q. Help! for nearly a year i have been talking to a turkish guy online and i can honestly say that i really like him. Hes so lovely and although i have never met him in person, im sure i will like him. he is really like my dream man and he honestly ...
A. 5 June 2011: Thanks for all of the advice everyone. hes 25 and im 17, well 18 this year so the age gap is 7 years. and although that sounds big because of my age, when put into context i guess its pretty normal. he really is lovely to me and yeah, i have sort of ... (read in full...)
My turkish man wants to be with me! Should I marry him or not?
Q. I went on holiday last year to turkey for 8 weeks. While i was there i met a wonderful man. We became really good friends and soon found myself falling for him big time. He told me he felt the same and we soon became an item. We stayed in contact ...
A. 22 March 2011: hey :) well, ive been talking to a turkish man online for over 8months now and although ive never met him, i know exactly what hes like. yh, hes controlling and gets jealous easily but he treats me well. ive seen his family, yh only online, but ... (read in full...)
Crushing on teacher but concerned about his family
Q. I have a crush on my teacher I dont want to ruin his life with his wife and daughters. everytime i see him i want to tell him my feelings. how do i get ride of these feelings for him? do i move classes? please help and give sugjestions....
A. 12 December 2010: when growing up, its normal to develop crushes on teachers, you admire them as they are older and you find qualities in them you like. its totally normal, and most people develop crushes on teachers throughout their education. however, its important ... (read in full...)
Am I underweight?
Q. Hi. I know this is not a medical site, but I'd just like some opinions from regular people. I'm a 24 year old female. I am 5 foot 6 and weigh 8 stones. Is this underweight? If so, is it very bad? Thank you....
A. 10 December 2010: Yes, according to BMI you are underweight. anything under 19 is. however, bmi isnt 100% accurate. the best thing to do would be to go to the doctors, they can do waist to hip ratio and also the pinch test. once they know they can advise you on what ... (read in full...)
Why is my chemistry teacher avoiding me?
Q. im really confused. i've had a teacher for about a year now, he teaches me chemistry and i really like him! hes so funny, kind and willing to help you to understand even if it means making himself look stupid. i noticed that hes been looking at me ...
A. 6 December 2010: things seemed better today. i saw him in the morning and he stopped and we spoke for about 15mins so i was late for a lesson. i then had him teach me, and i had to move to the back as the desk had been moved and i could see he wasnt happy with his ... (read in full...)
What if someday I turn into my abusive father?
Q. I feel like I'm typing to a damn therapist or something but here goes... When I was younger I had an abusive dad. He would whip me continuously with his belt whenever I misbehaved. Looking back though, I never really did anything that bad. He use...
A. 4 December 2010: it sounds like you have been through a really difficult time in your life and its good that you are aware that their personality may be reflecting onto you but you are wanting to change it. Also, its good that you are thinking about the future, ... (read in full...)
A severe injury broke my hymen and my boyfriend won't accept this, even though I've never had sex!
Q. i had never slept with anyone neither had sex but still i lose my virginity due to severe injury doing gymnastic but my boy frend is not ready to accept this can any one plz tell me whot to do because i dont want to lose him i really love him....
A. 4 December 2010: a hymen can get broken many ways before someone has lost their virginity. it can happen by riding a horse and like you said, injuries. Maybe try and make him aware of this and also, find out if he really trusts you. relationships are built up ... (read in full...)
Why is my chemistry teacher avoiding me?
Q. im really confused. i've had a teacher for about a year now, he teaches me chemistry and i really like him! hes so funny, kind and willing to help you to understand even if it means making himself look stupid. i noticed that hes been looking at me ...
A. 1 December 2010: i want to know whether he has feelings for me, surely its not normal for teachers to put their arms around you and wink at you?
... (read in full...)
Why is my chemistry teacher avoiding me?
Q. im really confused. i've had a teacher for about a year now, he teaches me chemistry and i really like him! hes so funny, kind and willing to help you to understand even if it means making himself look stupid. i noticed that hes been looking at me ...
A. 1 December 2010: i know he is watching me because my friends tell me. also, when explaining things to the class, we all look at him, but he only looks at me. today we had a practical inwhich the marks go towards our final grade. he wasnt allowed to help anyone but ... (read in full...)
Under arm sweating problem!
Q. i have two qustions to ask number 1 i have really shaky hands even when i am calm and warm my hands are there shaking constantly and when i am nervous my hands get very very shaky and i find it very embarrassing and i judt don't know what to do...
A. 30 November 2010: the best thing to do is to go and see a doctor, about both problems. the first one might be nothing to worry about but you could be lacking minerals in your blood, a simple blood test should show this. with the sweating, i saw this problem on ... (read in full...)
Why is my chemistry teacher avoiding me?
Q. im really confused. i've had a teacher for about a year now, he teaches me chemistry and i really like him! hes so funny, kind and willing to help you to understand even if it means making himself look stupid. i noticed that hes been looking at me ...
A. 30 November 2010: now im even more confused. things still arent right between us, he still ignores me and breaks the eye contact. today we were doing a practical and i was working with a couple of friends, he was sitting at the front of the room. i was putting my lab ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when my girlfriend said "she came"?
Q. What does it mean when a girl says she "comes". My gf said it during sex and I was wondering whether it just meant she had orgasmed? Also, how can I make her orgasm more during sex? It rarely happens. ...
A. 28 November 2010: it means that she got wet basically and therefore, orgasmed.
every girl orgasms different amounts but just try different positions and things... (read in full...)
My periods have never been regular!!
Q. ive been having periods for around 5 years now and im still not in a regular pattern. sometimes im on at around the 28day stage however other times its about 50days. is this normal?...
A. 28 November 2010: PCOS?... (read in full...)
Is my cousin interested in me?
Q. hello cupid. i have a question :- Is my cousin interested in me? so here is my story :- for the past few days, whenever am online on fb he is always chatting with me and he usually sometimes call me names like :- beautiful and sweetheart. ...
A. 28 November 2010: its a difficult situation as hes your cousin. yeah, he calls you beautiful, but hes your family so its impossible to say either way. just be yourself around him and dont make the first move, at least you are aware that he may have other feelings. ... (read in full...)
He calls me princess.
Q. Hi I've met someone online and i've been talking to him for about a year now. It was 3 months ago that he asked me out. Thinking nothing of it I said yes, thinking that we would never meet. But after this 3 months of going out with him he is the cu...
A. 27 November 2010: i understand what you are going through as i myself have met someone online who really does take my breath away :)
like you, i hope to meet them soon and it really is lovely when they say such meaningful things to you. just be yourself when you talk... (read in full...)
Why am I so envious of them, when I should be happy?
Q. Hey, to cut straight to the point, in school i have a close circle of friends (we are all bisexual) and for the past five weeks two of them have been going out, we'll call them A and B, A being the female and B being the male, and I have been really ...
A. 27 November 2010: you are only young and in time you will learn to control your feelings. just continue being yourself around them and soon maybe they will realise that they like you too, but be careful having such strong feelings in your close group of friends... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have feelings for two people?
Q. Is it possible to have feelings for 2 people? One is my boyfriend (who I love to bits) and one is another guy I met a few months ago (who I'm starting to fall for) Nothing has happened between me n this guy although I would like it to but won't do...
A. 27 November 2010: yes, its perfectly normal. at a young age, you are learning what sort of things you want you want in the future. maybe if you are feeling such strong feelings for the other man, you should have a chat with your boyfriend and make sure things are ok ... (read in full...)
I'm 28 and no girl in my life, am I normal?
Q. Dear All, I just wanted to know one thing is it normal not to have a woman in life even when you turn 28. I must am not that bad looking (not to say that it makes any difference). It’s a fact that never had girlfriend. I must admit I do get attr...
A. 27 November 2010: theres nothing wrong you with you. everyone meets people at different stages in their life and maybe it will just take you a bit longer but do not worry :)
you will find someone soon enough... (read in full...)
13, pregnant and don't know what to do...
Q. hi I'm 13 and pregnant, I'm scared, dunno what to do and not sure who the dad is! Only my best friend knows, not sure what to do... its been 2 months now I'm scared HELPPPP...
A. 27 November 2010: the best thing to do is tell an adult. this just needs to be someone you trust. maybe a teacher, family member, family friend? then you need to sit down and seriously think it over, but you must tell someone other than your friend... (read in full...)
Is fingering supposed to hurt?
Q. I got fingered for the first time the other day and he went right in and it kinda hurt but in a pleasurable way, is this normal?...
A. 25 November 2010: yes! its perfectly normal. also, as it was your first time you were bound to be abit tense. its fine and gradually you will get use to it... (read in full...)
Why does my male gay friend want to touch me now, closeness or what??
Q. Hello! I am female, with a male friend who I've only known for about a year and a half. We've grown very quickly in a year because we were both interns at the same company and had to move to a new city. We both happen to come from the same ho...
A. 25 November 2010: ok, well gay men are normally more attached to female friends. this is because they feel like they can fit in more, be included. chances are, he values you as a really close friend and he really feels like he can be himself around you. also, if you ... (read in full...)
Are we on a break?
Q. Said she needs space, does that mean we are on a break? Do I still text her and say happy thanksgiving?...
A. 25 November 2010: needing space could mean a break or it could mean continuing your relationship but just not being together all of the time. talk to her and see how she feels, but listen to her :)... (read in full...)
My brother says I'm hot! Is he the brother I used to know?
Q. So my brother has returned home after getting his degree from college. He's sticking around, so he can get his life in order. It's been a long time since I've last seen him. We've been pretty much on neutral grounds as we grew up. We weren't really ...
A. 25 November 2010: it sounds as though he now just has alot of confidence and is in a good mood. if you are uncomfortable with it, tell him. hes your brother at the end of the day, he should be accept what you think and say.... (read in full...)
I ignore her because I don't want to look like an idiot
Q. I already accepted the fact that I was in love with the same gender. We got really close and I fell in love with her. I talked to her everyday on the phone, she'd hug me most of the time. with some things happening, I changed my ways because of her. ...
A. 25 November 2010: so, it seems as though you really like the girl, you are just scared of what other people might say/ think?
its perfectky normal to feel like that but its important for you to remember to just be yourself and if other people are worth it, they will... (read in full...)
Does he love me as much as he does his child?
Q. Please help me understand. I'm 20 years old and i'm wondering about things in general to do with parent-child relationships. I read on here yesterday that its a diff kind of love and you often see on here parents write that their children are the...
A. 25 November 2010: yes, the kind of love is different. he loves his daughter because he has made her but he loves you because of who you are and yh, he may not write down that he loves you as much but think of it this way, he has the choice on whether or not he wants ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to still feel scared of your parents when you've been on your own?
Q. Hi, my bf and I really want a baby - his family are thrilled whereas mine think I'll be throwing my life away if I get pregnant. I'm 20, my partners 21. I'm too scared to start trying because of my parents reaction. My mum said she wouldn't be ...
A. 25 November 2010: of course you are normal. its common to feel like you have to do things just to please your parents and if its not what they want then you feel like it shouldnt be done. however, its important that you realise this is your life and your parents must ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I told her so, or just be supportive?
Q. my best friend has recently split up from her boyfriend. they started off as close friends then their relationship developed. to start with, i really didnt like him and i told her this. she was fine with it and was pleased that i had told her. i ...
A. 24 November 2010: thanks :)... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I told her so, or just be supportive?
Q. my best friend has recently split up from her boyfriend. they started off as close friends then their relationship developed. to start with, i really didnt like him and i told her this. she was fine with it and was pleased that i had told her. i ...
A. 24 November 2010: she knows that i am always there for her and i really dont want to loose her as a friend, its just hard to watch her going through so much pain... (read in full...)
He kicked me and I'm scared now I have to be in class with him every day
Q. im 14 and the other day me and my boyfriend (who is also 14) were walkin to school and he was with all his mates and he whistled at my freind and calle her a slag and i said he was a pr*ick and walked off but he grabbed my arm and pushed me over but ...
A. 24 November 2010: he was just trying to act 'cool' around his friends although he needs to learn that thats no way to treat a girl. you should sit down with him and talk because it sounds like hes different around you compared to how he is with his friends and thats ... (read in full...)
Old man perverts and clueless teenage girls...
Q. Hey I'm a 17 year old boy from Australia and I have a problem. It's pretty strange I guess I see teenage girls walking down the street in mini skirts and their bodies hanging out which is their choice I guess but thats not the problem. I see...
A. 24 November 2010: i think its seriously sweet that you feel this way and it just shows that you are a genuinley caring person. although i dont think you should let it stop you going into shopping centres and things. try to find other things to take your mind off it ... (read in full...)
I don't like my body
Q. I feel so much hate, it's tedious and has me so unhappy. And it's for something so stupid! I have really small boobs and some cellulite. My ex, who's the only guy I've had sex with, the only one who's seen me naked, commented on both things without ...
A. 24 November 2010: every girl has issues with their body and the ones who act confident are normally the ones with the most. its all about accepting who you are and yh, he may have said that he prefers bigger boobs, but he was still with you and surely that counts for ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I told her so, or just be supportive?
Q. my best friend has recently split up from her boyfriend. they started off as close friends then their relationship developed. to start with, i really didnt like him and i told her this. she was fine with it and was pleased that i had told her. i ...
A. 24 November 2010: i dont want to just tell her 'i told you so.'
and i dont want to always be right. im there for her and i support everything she does 100%, i just feel like i could have helped her avoid all of this pain and so part of me feels guilty... (read in full...)
Why is my chemistry teacher avoiding me?
Q. im really confused. i've had a teacher for about a year now, he teaches me chemistry and i really like him! hes so funny, kind and willing to help you to understand even if it means making himself look stupid. i noticed that hes been looking at me ...
A. 24 November 2010: no, im on here for people to tell me if im reading the situation correctly or not... (read in full...)
Why is my chemistry teacher avoiding me?
Q. im really confused. i've had a teacher for about a year now, he teaches me chemistry and i really like him! hes so funny, kind and willing to help you to understand even if it means making himself look stupid. i noticed that hes been looking at me ...
A. 24 November 2010: yeah i know what you mean but it seriously isnt just a crush. today i was him watching me constantly yet as soon as i looked back at him he would look away. i think now he's realising that i know he watches me. i just need to find a way of letting ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend said I'm a 3 or a 4 in bed!
Q. I've been going out with my girlfriend for about year. We get along well, and she's made it clear she wants to get married to me. But, she recently made the comment that I am a "3 or a 4" in bed. The way she said it, it was quite clear to me some...
A. 24 November 2010: if shes rating you 3-4 out of 10 and still with you then she truely does love it. you may not be able to fufil her every desires in the bedroom , but she loves you for who you are and thats whats important... (read in full...)
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