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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Feeling unfair in a first relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Im having my first relationship ever at age 22 but my boyfriend (who is 23) had a long relationship before me which lasted about 5 years and the reason they broke up was because the girl broke it off, not him. We have been dating for about 3 mont...

How do I make sure my friends don't judge me for having sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Okay before I begin please dont judge me. I know a lot of you are going to and I dont come here to be judged I come here for advice. Okay so my boy friend and I are both the same age and we were both virgins. We both decided that we were ready an...

A virgin dating a player. I'm scared about having sex with him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm dating a well known business man of my city,and even before I knew him I'd read about how he's a player and is not really looking for a relationship,I never ever thought for the life of me I'd date him some day!so when I got into...

My girlfriend lost her virginity at 16 and it makes me extremely jealous of her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for months now, she is my first proper girlfriend and the first person I have sex with, I am 22 and she is 20 , she lost her virginity at 16 and it makes me extremely jealous of her , I cant stop picturing her ...

I feel embarassed that I'm still a virgin

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (?) - I'm a senior in college and still a virgin. It's not for religious reasons so much (although I am a faithful person), but I've always felt you should lose your virginity to someone you really love and have a future with. I've had several serious ...

Why did it hurt when I had sex for the first time yesterday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Hey everyone I lost my virginity yesterday to my boyfriend of six months and he was a virgin too, I'm 17 years old and I don't regret it at all. Ok so when we first started doing it, it was kinda awkward but later we got it right. And we used a c...

Is it fair to expect any future girlfriend not to have more experience than me and to not have dated a "bad boy" then?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

20 January 2013 (?) - I am very inexperienced, and am still a virgin at 19. I want a girlfriend who will be loyal, loving, beautiful and giving. I have some confidence issues when it comes to girls. The few compliments I ever get, other girls tell me about a girl talking ...

Do I get out of my troubled relationship now or stick it out till August?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - Hello, I've been dealing with some issues lately and I've decided to turn to the internet for help. I've been dating this guy for nine months as of the 17th of January. Let's call him Ted (that's not his real name). Ted and I have known each ot...

Since I am a virgin, is this normal that I cannot face ever having sex for the first time with a woman unless she is a virgin too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4329 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - I feel like it's not right to date a woman who already has dated and had sex with another person. I can't imagine having sex with her if someone has already had intercourse with her. I'm thinking and hate imagining that i'll be somehow touching...

My GF doesn't want to lose her virginity until we're married, but that won't be for 10 years! What can we do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

12 January 2013 (M) - I have been together with my girlfriend for nearly a year. We both never had sex, we only experimented with foreplay etc.(Basically everything but just the most vital part, sex) She told me she will only be willing to do that once we get m...

He's 39. Is he likely to lose interest in me, now that he's found out that I'm a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4329 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - I'm 22. I've been seeing an older guy for some time now. He's 39. Despite the age difference, we connect on various levels. He's an amazing guy and I want to get to know him more and more. But here's the thing. I'm a virgin and I'm pretty sure ...

I'm not sure if first time sex felt right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

10 January 2013 (F) - So I had sex for the first time last night and I have some questions, I apologize if this is a little explicit... I didn't feel any pain when he entered me, thankfully- my hymen was already broken through fingering and he knew what he was doin...

Should I be reading books on how to interact with women or are there other successful strategies? I'm a virgin.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

9 January 2013 (?) - Is it worth reading books like "The Game" by Neil Strauss or similar pick up methods with women? I'm a virgin who has only had one girlfriend. I am going back to college in two weeks and want to be able to get girls interested in me because my co...

Lack of experience and concern about my size is holding me back from forming relationships.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

6 January 2013 (M) - I am a virgin and I am interested in sex and relationships but I am afraid because I am in experienced and i have a small penis. The internet forums I have been on I have seen women talk about not being able to stay with otherwise great guys who...

Is my boyfriend addicted to sex? Will he cheat on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

5 January 2013 (F) - It will be our two year anniversary on march 25th. On our year anniversary i lost my virginity to him. Other than me, he's only had sex with one other girl (or claims so).. and i believe him since he was basically horrible and quick in bed, haha. ...

No GF, I am a virgin and I failed college. My self esteem is at an all time low. How can I gain confidence?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

4 January 2013 (M) - I am finding it very hard to like myself right now. I flunked out at college, I am a virgin and I have never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. I have accomplished nothing and feel that I never will. I will be turning 22 in a few days and I don't ...

I like a girl at college. I feel she likes me too but it's complicated. Has she given up on men or just not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (M) - There's a girl I've known for about 4 months. She is 2 years younger than me. She's in college with me. I talk to her regularly and we do share stuff with each other as well but lately i've realised that I am seriously in love with her. The th...

To everyone on this site, and especially the person responsible for this website: Thank you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

4 January 2013 (F) - This is for every single person on this website: I am glad to see that there are still caring people out in this cruel world. All of you are so caring of people you don't even know. People that may be miles and miles away from you. People that...

Should I stay with my current boyfriend or return to my playboy ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F) - I met this guy over the Internet. We started talking and we ended up falling head over hills for eachother. As we started to become more serious we started to be open about our relationship. I told my friends and then my family. My family disappro...

I lied to my ex and lead him to believe that I wasn't a virgin. Should I tell him the truth now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 January 2013 (?) - Hi cupids, I was always ashamed of being a virgin and had promised never to tell whoever I lost it to. Everyone thinks am experienced. I lied to my current ex boyfriend about my virginity. I always acted like I was not a virgin and he noticed he ...

I lied to my GF about how old I was when I lost my virginity. Should I tell her the truth?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

2 January 2013 (M) - Basically me and this girl have been having sex and now are getting more serious. She asked me when i lost my virginity and because I was embarrassed i lied and said when I was 19 when really i had lost my virginity at the age of 23 with my ex girlf...

I'm 20, I'm a virgin, and I'm ALWAYS horny. Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (F) - I'm 20 years old, I'm a virgin and I'm horny ALL THE TIME. This only became recent, I have been masturbating for a few years now, maybe 2-3 times a week, sometimes I'd go weeks without doing anything. But at the beginning of December, I was see...

How much porn use is too much?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

1 January 2013 (?) - How much porn use is too much? I am a 19 year old virgin and am single. I have only one ex where I did not use any porn for most of the relationship until the end when we broke up over distance issues (college). It's been about 5 months since our...

Two months together but not "official" yet. Is he up to no good? I want to lose my virginity with him. Can you give me advice please?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

1 January 2013 (F) - modnote: OP - People will ask so please advise in followup why you cannot obtain Birth Control in US?? Hi all, and Happy New Year! So I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now... we're pretty much a couple even though there isn't any o...