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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Guys please: Considering that I'm a 20 year old virgin, the question is, am I doing something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - I am 20 years old and still a virgin. I should also start by pointing out that I'm not fat or ugly, in fact I'm blonde with big boobs (both of which are real), a small waist and really good skin (I swear I'm not super up myself). I've dated (bu...

Is 5 sex partners by age 21 ok?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

29 October 2012 (?) - Hi. I am curious whether it is ok/normal for a 21 year old boy to have slept with 5 girls. I am a 20 year old virgin and my boyfriend admitted he slept with 5 girls previously. I shouldn't have asked about his past, but I was curious and didn't want ...

Am I over reacting? Can I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a rough start to our relationship. We started out rocky...but we did dated and we've been together for 2 months (6 months prior online). I wasnt really honest with him, I was a virgin and we both had sex (he was a virgin...

Is it strange for a good looking 24 year old girl to be a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - is it strange for a 24 year old , good looking girl to be a virgin? Some of my friends laugh about it and have told their guy friends who then called me the virgin mary. I like the way I am and am proud, why do others think it strange?? They think i ...

Is my Bf implying that he's a virgin? He changed the subject when I asked.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I were speaking about sex when he said "I can't compare my performance to anything? When I asked what he meant he changed the subject? So peeps my question is what are your thoughts on this? I automatically thought ...

Just lost my virginity, what can I expect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - Hey guys, soo me and my boyfriend had sex like less then a week ago. It was my first time. I was just wondering if their are any post-sex like "symptoms" I should know about. I've been pretty sore and I don't know if that is normal I also heard ...

What should I do? Forgive him and love again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - So here it goes: I ended up hurting this guy (by lying to him online about my identity, etc)....and in turn, I felt awful (just awful) and I wanted to make things right. However, what I did was virtual, it was just online. I finally confesse...

He's turned on by the idea I'm a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - So me and the guy i've been seeing for quite a while brought up the conversation of sex the other day. It was interesting because he's slept with 6 girls and he was surprised I hadn't slept with anyone. In fact, he said that he found it sexy and ...

My culture is uncompromising about virginity before marriage. BUT I am not a virgin. What can I do? I cannot tell him, as the shame is too much.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - hi..i had a relationship with an boy i was loved him deeply... Nearly 14 months back only once i had sex with him.. he was not loving with me just wanted to enjoy sex with me we broke up... i was really hurt at that time.. i met with a boy...

What do I do now? I lied and told my boyfriend that I wasn't a virgin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - So this is the problem, this guy I really liked we met on a night out and instantly hit it off, we were attracted to each other so much and i don't know how this came out in our conversation but we ended up talking about how many people we slept ...

Still a virgin. Is this normal? It’s not sex that I’m looking for, just some companionship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 October 2012 (M) - Hey guys, I have a question regarding virginity. I know is a question that’s probably asked a lot, but I wanna know if what I’m feeling is stupid or normal. I’ve just turned 20 and I’m still a virgin. I’ve never been kissed, never had any interest...

I'm a virgin but afraid because of sports that I don't have my hymen

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - Hiii dear cupid..my question is that it is possible for a man to know that the girl is a virgin or non-virgin..i havent done sex ever in my life but i participated in many sports nd games..i belong to a muslim family nd it is very important for a ...

All these years later my husband refuses to believe he was my 'first'. What do I tell him? The truth is he was my first, but he will not believe me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - The day I lost my virginity I was 15 but on my period and now my husband thinks I was not a virgin because of that and I really never knew what losing my virginity was Now I am 32 years old and am still married to him now how do I tell him I was a ...

Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

13 October 2012 (M) - Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...

I'm 29 and never had sex but should I do it now with my B/f?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

12 October 2012 (F) - Hi So this is a little embarassing for me. Im 29 and Iv never had sex. Iv been with my boyfriend 3 and a half years and hes waiting for me. I know he really wants to do it (as he has before many times before me) Also he has said to me he really n...

Is there any way to confirm when I'll be ready for sex? I'm feeling better about it but I am still unsure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - So I was talking to my friend yesterday about relationships and sex. She's done more stuff with her boyfriend than me, but like she totally understands how I feel. She told me to just have fun and if you trust the person you're with, that I've noth...

Advice please? First time sex for a 24 year old virgin. Is it as painful as some say it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Ok so I think ive found my 'one' we've been going out for a while now and are coming upto a point n our relationship where we both want sex. However I'm scared this would be my first time. I really like this guy and want to take our relationship...

Is this bad? "Virgin" girlfriend has kissed 80 guys!! What does this say about her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 October 2012 (M) - Is it bad that my girlfriend is only just turned 20 and has kissed around 80 guys. She says it's nothing bad because she's still a virgin, so it's not like she slept around, but that kissing was harmless fun. But what do you guys think? I find it...

My boyfriend has had sex with 100 girls. Am I just the next one in line?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

8 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend confessed to having nearly 100 past sexual partners. I'm still a virgin, which makes it a shocker for me. He told me that before he turned 21 (his bday is next month) he wanted to go above 100, but said he would stop at me. He wanted me ...

I'm ready for sex but g/f doesn't want to take my virginity

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 October 2012 (M) - Hello everyone, I've been with this special girl for 3.5 months now. I'm crazy about her and really love her. I'm a virgin, she's not (3 previous sex partners). I told her i was ready for the next step. She said I dont have to look forward to it no...

What makes her seem sexier now that I know she's a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (M) - Men help me out here, I don't know why I find the girl i'm seeing sexier after she told me she was still a virgin! It's strange that she's now a lot more attractive to me than before, sure before I liked her a lot and found her so beautiful, but now ...

I'm a 27 year old lesbian and I'm a virgin. But what if I don't find that "special someone" I've been waiting for? Should I have sex with my guy friend ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - I consider myself to be a lesbian, but I feel like I'm at a crossroads. I am still a virgin, and I was planning on saving my virginity until I am in a relationship with someone who I feel I am ready to give my virginity too. The thing is, I'm ...

We recently gave our virginity to each other but my boyfriend wants to wait before having sex again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, My boyfriend and I (we are both 24) recently lost our virginity to each other. We talked about it together vaguely for about 2 months before, and seriously for about a month before we had sex. We have been seeing each other for a...

How do I deal with this? My Bf is constantly implying how much better things would be when we go all the way

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - hello everybody. i'm in a great relationship for about eight months now - thing is, i'm a virgin, and my boyfriend, who is older and more experienced is not exactly sensitive about it. i mean, he doesn't do anything i'm uncomfortable with, but he's...

My cousin has a Gf. And he and I flirt a lot. I am still a virgin. Should I agree to sex with him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hi guys! Hope you can help me. I am a shy type of girl but i do flirted with my first cousin. Its my 3rd time to meet him last january. He's from jersey,he lives there, he's d same guy i wrote here last 2010 http://www.dearcup...