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Archived questions from: 8 December, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How can I control my controlling behavior?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - ok... i have a bad problem. ok im young like high school young and so is my bf! we have been together for almost 10 months and i really think that i love him and he loves me to! but my problem is that i am verry controlling and i dont like it w...

How can I trust a partner who cheated? I can't get over it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - My wife cheated on me.. we broke up, I filed divorce we got back together before it was final. 2-3 years later she was in the same room with a guy that shot himself (her bro in law) and she got into a deep depression left me, I moved out, took kids, ...

Is it possible to turn gay or is he just confused?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hi, My husband as recently landed the bombshell on me that he is gay. We have been married for 8 years and have two children together. I don't know what to do or think. Is it possible to turn gay? I know as a fact that he dated women before me and h...

My marriage is very unhappy and abuse is going on - should I stay or go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Warning: this is a rather long read, but i need to let it all out, i don't have anyone with whom i can talk about this or as counsel, so this is cathartic and will hopefully give a better picture of what's going on. I have been married for 5 years, ...

I tell myself he wouldn't invest this much time to cheat on me, but I can't help thinking it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - Hello, I am currently in embarking in my first real relationship, and it was going absolutely swimmingly for the first few months. To start out, I was a closeted gay male when I met this person. He slowly helped me build my confidence, and helped m...

Is this kind of behavior acceptable in a serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend went out for his guys night out, but I looked at his tex messages and found out that he invited over one of his female friends an later he tex her again saying that saw her at the bar make him nervous like a little kid, I guess he was ...

He lied about being a virgin when he met me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - i have a huge problem, i found out my boyfriend of 3months who i love so much lied about being a virgin when he met me. he said he had slept with 3 people before me one of them being a girl who he lives with in his student accommodation which i was ...

I'm having a hard time not getting upset over his online flirting.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - theres this guy i have been with for 13 years, and i really love him. We are having problems right now and I really want things to work out with us. He Flirts alot online! and it drives me crazy. He lies about everything, to the girls he flirts ...

He didn't tell me he had another child until after I had his!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I've been engaged to my fiance for 2-3 years and we have a 1 year old son together. After I had our son in 07, a few months later, I found out he had another kid that was 11 years old at the time.I still want know why he hasn't told me anything ...

It turns out that my new wife has had a lover for the past 7 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - I have been married for two months now. My wife have her own man and have sex, spend together, enjoy the presence her partner for the last 7 years, of which I have no single idea of her such relationship. She too denied having any relation with any ...

While I know it is none of my business, I am upset she slept with someone else when we separted temporarily

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and half and, about two months ago I thought I fell out of love with her after moving to uni. To see if this was true I decided it was best we went on a break. She lives about four miles away in other ...

If he cares so much about me, why does he want to date other people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hi please help me if you can, I am 43 and have been divorced for 3 years. Last year I met a man who was 40 and we were together for 8 months. Things between us ended when he admitted that he was still using the internet to meet other women and ...

He wanted a "loose relationship" but now was a committed one, should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hi All, I have been involved with this guy now for 3 months. He initially didnt want a committed relationship, he said he wanted a "loose relationship" and so we decided to be just friends. Now all of a sudden he wants me to be his girlfriend....

I was beat up and filmed, I don't know what to do as now they plan to humiliate me publicly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - i dnt kno what to do with my life sometimes i think is it worth me living! ive been through a lot of stress this pass year and even though ive cut certain people out of my life the ones who cause me to be depressed and hurt they're still ge...