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writes:i dnt kno what to do with my life sometimes i think is it worth me living!ive been through a lot of stress this pass year and even though ive cut certain people out of my life the ones who cause me to be depressed and hurt they're still gettin to me.i was set up by a bunch of girls a few months back (ex best friends)they did beat me up and filmed it aswell i was depressed for a while but then went to the philipenes for a month with my best friend who lives there and came back and everything was okay againonly now things are startin to heat up it seems they are planning to put the videos of me onto facebook, myspace and youtube! i simply couldn't deal with that public humiliation and wouldn't know what on earth i would do with my self!ive got a couple close friends but thats it its a cycle that needs to be broke! and i thought it was but obviously not! i feel extremley depressed and dont kno what to do !they planning to humiliate me publicly which i just wouldn't be able to handle coz im not that strong so if i feel like this now god knows how im gonna feel when people are coming up to me tellin me they've seen the footage!!i dunno what to do............................................................................................................
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advise guys it's helped alot but
when they set me up that was the beginning of august! and its now bloody december an they're planning to put it up now! will this ever die down...............???????
like me an the girls who did it have many mutual friends some i still talk to some i don't but everybody!! will see this and its just embarrasing like its sooo horrible i just want every one to get on with they're lifes but they're not.
i dnt kno kno what to do or who to turn to i really dont!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): Wow girl! Hang in their it will eventually calm down. And even if they do air that video, they will have to deal with criminal charges. The better character usally wins babe. Please dont feel ashamed as you have done nothing wrong. I understand where your coming from tho i really do on the whole depression thang. No matter what hold your head high.You deserve too!!! much love
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): I am disgusted and outraged that you have experienced this in England - a once great country that is clearly going down the pan.
There is no way you should have been put through this and do not ever ever again accept being beaten up and filmed and blame yourself.
Being threatened in this way is a criminal offence and you have already been physically assaulted which is a criminal offence. If this act happened in school these people should be expelled. If it happened outside of school then perhaps not however either way the police should be involved NOW.
I know this seems like a big step but I doubt you will be their only target or 'victim' of such a cowardly act. For the sake of others, if not for yourself, be the bigger person have the courage and be brave and stand up against these people. They do it because they can get away with it. If your child was suffering this fate what advice would you give them? Take that advice for yourself.
Please report this incident to the police and do not underestimate the seriousness of what they did to you. Have some self-respect. In these situations of bullying then things can escalate into much graver situations all too quickly and we see them on the news.
Please keep us posted. We are right behind you.
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reader, tux  +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Let them put it up on Facebook/youtube and such and sit back and wait for the charges on them to start flying from the police.
You should not feel ashamed or humiliated because of being ambushed and beat up by a bunch of so-called friends. You should have gone to the police to begin with. This was assault and battery plain and simple. I'm sure the laws in England are similiar to ones in the U.S. You can't go around beating up people for sport.
You have a couple of choices.. I would probably go to the police. Let them know they have a video of it. Or you can just wait for them to post it on youtube and then goto the police with them supplying you with the evidence.
Do not feel ashamed or embarrased by this. If anyone thinks about you any different in a bad way because of this.... They are not exactly the type of people, i'd like to even hang around with.
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