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Archived questions from: September, 2015 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Why do I put up with this? We both like jazz. But why do I stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, here's my dumb question. I have been with my boyfriend for almost four years. In that time we have had our ups and downs. I have never asked him for sexual fidelity, which means that he is pretty open with me and doesn't feel like he ...

Been divorced for ten years and happy now. But now my emotionally abusive ex wants to come back and live with me since the death of her partner. How do I refuse my ex-wife's request?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

24 September 2015 (M) - I have an ex wife who was continuously unfaithful to me and was abusive, she divorced me about 10 years ago. I have been much happier since our divorce. We have a daughter together who is now 17. She moved in with me about a year ago after confid...

To love? Or to live? Or to leave? That is the question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of seven years is seriously ill and this alone brings heartache because his life is inevitably shortened. I have offered him to move in with me but he likes to keep his own place and it does make financial matters easier to handle. H...

It feels like he's distancing himself from me. How can I improve my relationship with my bf who has PTSD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has PTSD from the war and he is hard to deal with. He gets mad at dumb things and always thinks I'm mad at him when I'm not I'm just chill or quiet or relaxing or thinking. If I talk too much he gets irrational especially in fr...

She's trying to steal my man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Ive been in my relationship for a year and a month. I've fallen in love with my boyfriend and we have no problems except his best friends fiance diana is also in love with him! When I come around she gives me the dirtiest looks and she ...

Boyfriend admitted that he's attracted to another woman but says it ends there and has no feelings for her. Do I believe him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend (not sure what to call him right now) have been dating for over a year now. We have had our ups and downs but have a lot of love for each other. I just broke up with him last week because I found out that 8 months ago he had a crush o...

Is this what men are really like in their thoughts and feelings?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - I have only had one bf before and I'm just really confused if it is my lack of experience or in fact, what men are. My new bf been with him for over a year. We live together and he tells me how I'm perfect and how much he loves me and wants to be ...

How to deal with boyfriend's best female friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

14 September 2015 (F) - We have been together a bit more than a year. Half a year ago we had hard time in our relationship (broke up for a few weeks). No serious reason: we are two stubborn people. My boyfriend has a female friend (for 3-4 years by now) with who they sha...

I am absolutely dreading going to the mutual friend's wedding because my ex will be there with the other woman. I feel like the loser and she will be gloating and all over him :(

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

14 September 2015 (F) - Dear Cupids I was seeing a man for a few months and we were getting on really well and his behaviour towards me showed that he was really interested and keen. He said that I was fun, interesting, and pretty, and we had some wonderful times ...

If she loved me then why would she have a baby with a man she no longer cared for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

13 September 2015 (M) - I worked closely with a female supervisor at my office. Very quickly we both fell in love. But she was married to a co-worker, who I got on with quite well. It was difficult because it was a small office and I'd just started there and knew if things ...

What could or should I do? Isn't life too short? Does her response offer me any hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3388 days ago

12 September 2015 (M) - Right, there's a girl that I like, she's been dating a guy that I've been told was messing her around. She put it on the line to him and said that she doesn't want to be messed around any more and his reply was 'I do like you' so I don't know if h...

Is it wrong to want more experience?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

11 September 2015 (F) - Is it wrong to want more experience? Hi. I am Amy and I am 20 years old. I have been with by bf Ken for about 8 months and we have been having sex for about 6 months. Ken is the first adult man I have ever had sex with. He is 25 and has had othe...

Should I go for it and have a threesome with my boyfriend and girlfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

11 September 2015 (F) - Need open and none judgemental advice people. I have a boyfriend and a gf. They both know about each other and they are both ok with the situation. The reason why I have two was I met them both within a week of each other and was "dating" like you ...

Am I losing my man friend to this new woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3390 days ago

10 September 2015 (F) - I have a very dear male friend who I have known for about a year now. He helps me a lot with jobs around my house and we go out together for days or evenings. About 6 months ago he asked me for a relationship and I said no, I don't fancy him ...

How can I get over this silly, school girl crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3390 days ago

10 September 2015 (F) - Hi there. So I think my friend has feelings for me, and it's kind of a sticky situation because he's not only my friend, but my boyfriend's friend as well. I'm in a happy relationship of 3 years with a wonderful guy who treats me well. He has a b...

I've been dumped before but this time is different!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3392 days ago

7 September 2015 (F) - I can’t believe I’m writing in, but my situation is desperate! I’ve been in relationships before that have lasted far longer than the one I was recently in. I’ve dealt with rejection and being dumped by guys I really like and got over them but this...

Craig's list. Should I trust his explanations? Or is he talking BS?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3394 days ago

6 September 2015 (F) - I'm going to provide a lot of background to this, but my questions are ultimately: - Is what my ex said all just BS? - How common is this problem? - Have non-married couples recovered from this successfully? - Is this issue really related to por...

Does he just want sex or could we be friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3395 days ago

5 September 2015 (F) - So I've asked similar questions, but now there's more to it. So I lost my virginity to a guy who was a co-worker, at the time when I lost my virginity we were no longer co-workers because i had quit due to some family issues. I don't think it m...

I know she's just trying to annoy me, so how do I move past it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3395 days ago

4 September 2015 (F) - Do I have a right to be angry? I fell out with a girl who started dated a guy who was once after me. Me and this guy never really got past first base - although I would've liked to - but just wasn't pushy enough like her. To cut a long story sho...

I know the crush is wrong, so how do I get over it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3396 days ago

4 September 2015 (F) - Hello! So, my issue is my boyfriend's friend. I have a bit of a crush on him and I feel like that may be reciprocated. My boyfriend and I have been together for years and have a life together, so I'm not going to leave him for someone else, but I ca...

Now I find that he's separated, not divorced. Is it reasonable that I'm now anxious about our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3394 days ago

4 September 2015 (F) - About six months ago I worked with a guy that I really liked but I just got out of a relationship, not ready to date yet :( Well we recently reconnected about two months ago and started seeing each other which at first was really great! Super co...

My boyfriend doesn't know that I seen a text he sent to a friend where they were discussing a 3 way!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3396 days ago

3 September 2015 (F) - Hi, Me and my partner was in bed and he was texting his friends in a group chat on 'WhatsApp', I glanced over (we've all done it) and his friend said "I think I was in love" to which my boyfriend said "Yeah, I think you was" (this is about their ni...

My ex wife completely messed my life up. How do I move on from something like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3397 days ago

3 September 2015 (M) - I am a 28 year old male who was married to a woman for the last 5 years and have a 3 year old son with her. I found out she was cheating for over a year with my best friend that Ive known since elementary school. I was upset but tried my best to...

Should I ask him to choose or ask him how he feels about his lady friend now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3397 days ago

2 September 2015 (F) - I met a man through friends about 4 months ago and we started seeing each other as just friends. Our friendship seems to be growing into something more which is lovely, as we get on really well and it's obvious that he likes me very much. Each t...