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Archived questions from: May, 2018 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Been dating for 4 years but an old flame has returned, and so have the feelings.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2401 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, I've got a serious relationship problem I really need some help with! I have been with my boyfriend for four years. He's caring, kind, affectionate and I really do love him. However, our relationship lacks passion and we have little s...

Would I be a complete cow if I don't help my ex boyfriend with his drug problems?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2401 days ago

30 May 2018 (F) - My close friend has recently let me know that my ex boyfriend is going wild with drugs and alcohol and that he is worried about him. When I was with this boyfriend, I managed to convince him to only do drugs every so often and just weed, nothing ...

My boyfriend's ex wants to meet him for coffee!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2375 days ago

29 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend asked me if I would be okay if he met his ex for coffee. His ex reached out to him wanting to catch up while she is in town for some official business. My boyfriend's ex ended their relationship a year ago and is currently seeing ...

My sister’s husband is my ex from high school and he is rude to my boyfriend! And my boyfriend is frustrated by this and that he has to deal with an ex of mine!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

29 May 2018 (F) - Hello my sister is now married to my ex boyfriend. We broke up in our early 20s. I'm not trying to make myself out to be God's gift to men but he was fixated on me since high school. Flash forward to 2008 and they get married. My sister has isolated ...

Should I tell him I know he's been texting his ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

28 May 2018 (F) - I have been kind of talking to this guy and hooking up with him for a few weeks now, and one night we were sitting at this bar and his ex girlfriend walks by and I noticed he was staring at her for a bit. Now I only know it’s his ex girlfrie...

Why am I never a man’s first choice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

27 May 2018 (F) - Hi good people, I’m feeling a bit down today and was hoping you might be able to offer me some advice or even just words of comfort. I’m 32 (33 in July) and I’ve been single for 3 years now. My previous long-term relationship was rocky and I’m de...

Should I lie and say the baby is his?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

27 May 2018 (F) - Ive made a mess but now ive got to grow up and sort it out. Me and my 'ex'boyfriend had a break , we didnt say what each other can or cant do and if we were going to get back together. I had a feeling he was seeing someone else but just left him to ...

Is the relationship doomed before it has begun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

25 May 2018 (F) - I met a guy a few weeks back in a bar, we instantly hit it off and have been talking ever since. He knew who I was as he went to school with my older brother so we know a few of the same people. I was talking to a friend about him and she asked hi...

Me vs his ex, is his behavior a red flag?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - To keep it short, my bf was showing me some pictures of him, and when he was going through different albums I happen to see an album cover which had the picture of his ex wife,besides this picture they send text messages to each other/communicate on ...

My boyfriend's over-friendly encounter with his ex has me worried

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for over a month. He broke up with his ex in January not sure the reason why. I met him in February and by the third week of March we were a couple. Today while in the store with my boyfriend we saw his ex. S...

Recently there is a lack of trust from both sides!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

21 May 2018 (F) - I'm in a relationship and have been with the boy for 6 months. We had a very good start to our relationship other than a few anger issues he had where he would get too angry too easily. Beside this it was pretty much perfect. Recently he found out ...

Why am I having dreams about his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

20 May 2018 (F) - I had a dream of a bull chasing me to the edge of a river and when it was about to hit me I close my eyes and on opening I am at my boyfriends house and her ex is seated on the chair. So I ignore and go straight to the bedroom to drop my bag then I ...

He broke up with my but regrets it 1.5 years later. I still love him, but what is the right thing to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

18 May 2018 (F) - My ex and I are high school sweethearts and each other’s first love. We had been together for a decade and the last 4 years were long distance. I thought he was the guy I was going to marry and spend the rest of my life with;unfortunately he ...

Why does my husband look up his ex after we argue?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - Anytime I have a really big argument with my husband, the next day or day after I check his internet history. I did this once years ago as I felt paranoid after the fight. I really really hate arguing, it freaks me out. So the first time I did it, I ...

Am I playing myself for a fool with this older guy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend is 8 years older than me. I met him in early February while he was non exclusively dating a 21 year old .I met him in a little store near my house and one thing Led to another and now we are a couple. When i first initially met him he ...

Why does it seem like my boyfriend is stringing along his ex ?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 2412 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend is 31 his ex is 21 and I’m 23 , my current boyfriend of two months left a girl he was dating in February to be with me. He told me he complained to her about standing up to her family and she never did it and how her family didn’t even ...

My ex said hurtful things about my body. I'm self conscious and my get up and go has gone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2419 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - I I hope you guys don't mind me asking for advice. I have been feeling low since splitting with my ex around 5 month ago, I have lost my get up and go and I work and then come home and that's it or I go to bed and fall asleep crying. My ex said I ...

How can I stop thinking about him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2419 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Hello! I'm sorry if this is not the right place to vent, but I feel like I can't talk to anyone about something that is bothering me so much right now and just need to hear others' thoughts. I fell for a guy who is a good/long-time friend of mi...

How can I change my life after a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2421 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - I have broken up with my partner of 6 years. It turns out we both want different things in the end. I've broken up with her so many times that the grieving and then getting back together is just exhausting. It feels like there's no end. I'm pretty ...

My boyfriend says he wants to get back together eventually

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - Background story: My boyfriend and I broke up in what initially was in good terms last month. We were together for 7 years, we were fighting too much and became so busy with our own lives that maybe we drifted away. We figured maybe we needed time ...

My ex-girlfriend's confession has re-opened old wounds

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - My girlfriend of close to 3 years split up with me a couple of months ago. It felt like a total blindside because I never saw it coming. I haven't taken it well. I've dealt with significant anxiety and depression since. I had asked extensivel...

My ex is hanging around me and my new boyfriend and its causing problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2419 days ago

11 May 2018 (F) - Hello there! I wanted to ask advice about the current situation I'm in. A couple of months ago, I broke up with my ex, whom I'll refer to as M. We had gone out for a while. but during the relationship, M didn't spend any time with me, always chose ...

My boyfriend and his ex are "best friends" and keep saying that they love each other!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2421 days ago

10 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriends ex is starting to make me have uneasy. Feelings. They were only married two years and had no children together. She did bring a two year old little girl into the marriage. They fought all the time and she wanted out and filed for ...

I'm tired of my ex's manipulative behavior

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2426 days ago

4 May 2018 (F) - What should I do? I was in a long term relationship and got dumped the other month, I got lots of abusive texts saying disgusting things about me and then the next I was getting texts saying miss you and love you, I replied and got ignored for days ...

If he still plans to move then what is his intentions with reaching out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2429 days ago

4 May 2018 (F) - My ex and I broke up a few months back due to him accepting a job offer in a different state. He hasn’t moved yet but we had decided to break it off at that time because there’s no point in prolonging the heartbreak. He reached out a week after the ...