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writes:My boyfriend and i have been together for over a month. He broke up with his ex in January not sure the reason why. I met him in February and by the third week of March we were a couple. Today while in the store with my boyfriend we saw his ex.So at first it seemed like he wanted to avoid her. They eventually crossed paths and he said “hey” and she said hey and he went back to shop. My boyfriend and i had separate things to get so we were grocery shopping separately. She went down an aisle he was on and she started talking to him..They started talking so i continued to do my shopping while they were talking. After a couple of minutes i glance over towards them and he started teasing her a little. My boyfriends ex was pushing her basket and he would grab the end of her basket then releases it and start laughing. I went to the aisle nearest them and he was bringing up their old memories and heir little inside jokes.He then told her randomly “you need a longer T-shirt “ she said “ why is there something on my butt?, is my underwear showing or something” she starts looking down. and he said “na“ and started smiling while kind of signaling to her butt size/they was her butt looked in the pants she had on. (he didn’t directly say her butt size/shape but i could see where he was going with what he was saying) He asked her some job she had applied for and what was the status on it. And basically they were joking on each other the entire time we were there.He asked her about her glasses and she said she wears contacts now and he said “oh you’re just trying to show off that face”. The whole time we were in the store he would randomly say things out of the ordinary to her to get her attention or say her name and just say something completely random that he could’ve kept to hisself. And right as she was leaving the store he walked behind her grabbed on her hair and yanked it...
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (27 May 2018):
 This immature bloke dates young girls for good reason: they don't have the experience or confidence to stand up to him. They feel flattered by his immature teasing. Someone his own age would dump his sorry ass if they caught him having this sort of contact with his ex. You, however, don't have the maturity to do this.
It is pointless anyone giving you advice because you will still do your own thing. You will not dump him until you are mature enough to realize what you are dealing with and that you deserve better. I hope you reach that maturity soon.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 May 2018):
 Your story seems to change every time you make a new post. I thought you had decided to finish with him?
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reader, LovelyLo +, writes (24 May 2018):
You're worried for a reason!!! Listen to your instinct this old flame is still lit!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2018): I would put "jerk off" hereBut it's too short!They don't allow me to dislike this kind of man so much! Apparently I should understand his side of the story. Ok. He has a girlfriend and he's yanking his exes hair and remarking on her butt size. Oooooh sorry! Is that not bad! Why not remark on his current GF's butt size? I mean - it matters - right?That poor ex.You poor girl!He's playing both like a fiddle!New girl/old girl!So old/ so yawny!He is a scummy scum scum bag.Wants his cake Wants to eat eat eat it!And secretly inside, you know this!But carry on with your delusions that he cares about you or cared about you. He doesn't. It hurts. Yes it does, but you are not alone. Trust Me on that one!PS. I care about your butt size and her butt size and his and My butt size more than you could ever understand???!!!!!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 May 2018):
 Honestly, OP
Asking the same question OVER and OVER doesn't change the facts.
Except for the fact that YOU seem to change.. like now it's no longer you dating him 10 days after their break up.... And that in this new post you gloss over the fact that he left her for you.
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reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (23 May 2018):
I was going to say exactly the same thing but N91 beat me to it!
What is your actual question? What should you do about his behaviour? Why is he doing it? Because both topics were covered in the posts that you made before.....Or are just posting to get things off your chest?
Now, it's fine to post as many as you like, if it helps but don't expect different and magical answers if you simply didn't like the answers you received before.
Pretty much everybody said that it seemed that your boyfriend is not completely over his ex which is why he behaves like he does. Are you hoping for a different answer?
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reader, N91 +, writes (23 May 2018):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-does-it-seem-like-my-boyfriend-is.html
What happened to breaking up with him?
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