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writes:this one is quite long...sorry.ill start from the begining. i am in a long term reationship and after about 1year and a half, things werent soo great, lots of arguments, etc and he really didnt pay me any attention ant more. i really loved him but just didnt want to be there so i ended up seeing a guy from work and fell for him. was stuck in the middle but still both of them wanted to be with me even tho they knew about each other. found out i was pregnant and the guy from work didnt want to know really and my boyfriend really supported me, i have the baby now and we are happy but just found out the guy from work has now been seeing a married girl and has been with her since before i gave birth. its obvious he never cared about me or the baby, i just cant get it all out of my head. especailly when the other girl was gossiping about me as i had an argument with the guy from work over him not caring and now i find out that she isnt soo innocent, i mean she has kids and her husband has just left her because of the affair. not even sure if im writing this for an answer...just had to get it off my chest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): does your bf know this kid is not his??
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009):
Get a paternity test for the child before this saga of lies and lovers grows another controversial chapter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni had got him out of my head untill i went back to work and heard about the other girl, i just really needed someones opinion as i cant really talk to any1 about it. i know how lucky i am to have my lovley man standing by me with my beautiful little baby. thanks.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (13 December 2009):
The work guy is the type they call "assassin". There are there to pick up vulnerable women so they can offer them false comfort in exchange for sex. They target women in relationships because they enjoy the thrill of stealing forbidden fruit. But once you give them any kind of responsibility they balk. So my advice is forget the guy. You used him, he used you. You had two men vying for your attentions and it was a huge ego boost for you. Now you are facing reality that this fantasy doesnt last forever. You are lucky the guy you are with now is standing by you so dont focus your energy on the other guy. Him and the married woman at work are going to break up soon; he's an assassin! He won't commit! Forget him!
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