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writes:I am thew women that dated the commitment phobic guy for 2 1/2 years and broke up with him 7 months ago. How do I interpret this mans response? We got together this weekend and kept it platonic. He told me before he came out he is trying to figure himself out to be the man I am looking for. He emailed me when he got home and said he had a wonderful time at our house. In addition, he said he is trying to find out what his issues are and the cause of them. I emailed him back and said I had a great time etc. I also told him (I have a date tonight which I do and to wish me well) He replies, I do wish you well because you are such a terrific person. And that he thought of me and my daughter all day today. What does everyone think of his response? I really want to find someone to commit to...thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou are so right Rhytyhm and Blues. It was nice to get together and all but I am not going to respond. I am not ready to be friends and he is not helping himself. The date was just OK, but atleast I tried. I know you are looking too. Are you having any luck? It is so nice to have this support network. You have no idea how much this site means to me. If you ever need advice please email me too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): I think he is behaving with politeness and respect and giving you no signs that he is going to change his mind and commit to you. What exactly is he doing to figure out his issues? Therapy? Because if he can't figure them out by now on his own, he isn't going to. Hope you have a good time on your date, no pressure though, just have some fun.
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