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writes:Well like I really like this guy and he trusts me with all of his secrets and I trust him with all mine. I told him I liked him and he said cool. I just heard he was single, but not for long. Him and his ex gf keep going on and off but I really want to ask him out. The thing is I don't know if I should. Please help! Should I ask him out or not because aren't the guys supposed to ask out the girls? I really need help!
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (2 December 2009):
 Who is the person that makes up all these unwritten laws?
Supposed to? What does that mean? Nowhere in the Bible does it say that you can´t ask a guy out, you wont go to hell for it. It´s not a crime, they cant arrest you.
Go for it, life is too short to wonder: What if?...
Good luck :)
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (2 December 2009):
Who is the person that makes up all these unwritten laws?
Supposed to? What does that mean? Nowhere in the Bible does it say that you can´t ask a guy out, you wont go to hell for it. It´s not a crime, they cant arrest you.
Go for it, life is too short to wonder: What if?...
Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): I have been in a relationship for over five years with a woman that asked me out. You may never know what it could have become if you don't!
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reader, RodrigoViz  +, writes (1 December 2009):
Hey there, well yeah that situation is kind of sucky. I am going to say what I think putting myself in that guys shoes. As you have said, he probably has his ex gf in his mind a lot, he probably doesn't know that he has something good standing in front of him. What i THINK you should do is just put everything on the table, tell him that you like him (you already did) that you would like to go out and hang out more because you believe something nice could come out of that, that you two guys should give it a try.
If he doesnt seem to be interested or maybe has his mind somewhere else, just leave it there, dont be pushy or insist, that is the worse thing you can do in my opinion. Just let it be, you will at least have peace because you did whatever you could do, try talk to him less, look for him less, make yourself less availabe. I am not saying he will go and chase you right after, but maybe it will awake that thing that all we men have, always wanting what you can't have or at least is harder to, and maybe he will realize he does like you too. I am not saying this is how it will play out, but you dont have much to loose!
Great things never come easy! (So true)
I am in a different/not so different situation, I would like your advice too! thanks!
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reader, doom  +, writes (1 December 2009):
 Well, i have a question to ask you....does he like you as a friend or he likes you more then a friend?
Cause you can give hip a little idea to drink a cofee in the city, and it doesn't have to be a date,and you'll see when you're togother alone))
good luck
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