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51-59,
*risey
writes:Was Dumped last thursday by text message, am hurting so much ! I havent contacted her, onlyl got a bland short email from her with her Meal choices for our groups Christmas meal. Her mother is going into hospital tomorrow, should I text her tomorrow just to say hope it all goes well, or leave it to no contact competely ?? :(
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reader, darc  +, writes (1 December 2009):
 i suggest send her a message and wish her well. she must be having a lot of pain more than you are. you wouldn't know. sending her a message will at least give her an impression that you weren't like "any other" guys out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): let it go,i knw how u feel am sory man.
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reader, annoymess +, writes (1 December 2009):
i think that she may just have dumped you because shes upset about her mother going into hospital. she mmight not know what she wants. maybe she has cheated on you but she feels guilty about it and doesnt want to tell you so she finished you because of her guilt. things like this tend to happen. just dont not keep in contact with her. i think you should confront her and ask why, then she will feel on the spot and just tell you.dont just leave it cos you will wonder why the real reason is all your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): Hello. You dont say how long you were together but im guessing it wasnt long. Rejection is horrible and nothing will stop you feeling a bit blue. Just be the bigger man so to speak. Send her a short text back, wishing her mother well and that keeps the lines open for a civil chat at the Christmas `do`. Onwards and upwards, dont let it get you down. She just wasnt Miss Right.....but Miss Right is out there somewhere. So best foot forward. You wont want to be down in the mouth and caught up in self pity when THAT LADY breezes into your life or she might just breeze straight out again. All the best and have a very Happy Christmas!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 December 2009):
I'm afraid you were dumped, and she hasn't contacted, so you'd be better leaving it completetly and moving on. Don't say anything to her. I know it hurts, but the more you try to stay in contact, the longer it will take you to get over her.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (1 December 2009):
 If you have met her mother, and have spoken with her, (the mother) then a short text or email hoping all goes well would not be out of order.
If you havent met her, or your contact has been minimal I would leave it alone
Sorry you are hurting, and you wont want to hear this, but let time do it's stuff, stay cool and dont drink too much at the group's Christmas meal, dont be the first to leave early, but you can be the second one to go
take care
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