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Archived questions from: September, 2020 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Do I leave her because we only have sex every 3 months?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1518 days ago

27 September 2020 (M) - In a relationship over three years sex only once in three months ,she know i want it but she comes up with all these excuses , and women wonder why men cheat, am tired of doing my self, so am i suppose to tell her , i need sex , or am going to get ...

How does everyone else handle not having a sexual partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1516 days ago

26 September 2020 (M) - Early 80s, separated, living alone, still masturbate regularly, usually to porn, but not as often as the good old days. Keeps me sane out out of jail! Many out there in similar situation? How do your handle it all, ever tried Bi? ...

I'm in an arranged marriage. How do I ask my future wife if she is a virgin like me? Its crucial to me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1516 days ago

26 September 2020 (M) - I'm 25 years old and I'm still virgin. I had a lot of chances to lose my virginity but I saved it for my future wife. Because I want to have a married life with 100% trust in each other. Now I'm getting married to an unknown girl whom I just ...

Am I wrong for feeling it was a dumb comment at a very bad timing after all the stuff shes put us through?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1520 days ago

25 September 2020 (F) - My boyfriends ex made it a point to be the center of attention the first part of our relationship. To the point where i was about ready to leave him despite that he wasnt really to blame for it. Though there was about 2 times he lied about ...

Can men be balanced in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1524 days ago

23 September 2020 (F) - Can men be balanced in bed? I have only had either dominating or submissive guys. The dominating ones are selfish, controlling, insecure and eager to have sex. Submissive ones are a bit too nice and overly slave like, wanting to please you badly but ...

Wife discovered the affair, now I am working on my marriage but can't forget my mistress.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1522 days ago

22 September 2020 (M) - I am in agony so I guess I have come to the right place. Long story short. I was involved in a long term affair with a beautiful and caring woman. My wife discovered the affair recently and demanded I stopped all contact with the other woman, whi...

I'm in a sexless marriage and my husband doesn't want to try to make things better

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1528 days ago

16 September 2020 (F) - My husband of over 30 years can no longer get an erection. He's struggling with a fatherless father and an overbearing mother. This seems to have him stuck in a rut and in this rut all his life. Not sure why he just can't get over it but he just ...

Dating a escort and need advice

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1525 days ago

16 September 2020 (M) - So I recently started dating a escort who I had seen a few times. We really hit it off well and I knew after the first visit it would be hard not to fall for her, come to find out she wad feelings for metoo just not quite as strong at the time. We ...

My husband is in complete control of our sex life and will withhold sex from me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1528 days ago

16 September 2020 (F) - bit of a strange question but i’m not the most tactile person in the world so would appreciate some other ways to respectfully get my point across to my husband. i’ve been with my hubs for 17 years nearly and he’s such a amazing dad and husban...

My married bf gave up the best sex with me to go back to a sexless marriage. How is that even possible?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1533 days ago

15 September 2020 (F) - I'm hoping to get advice from all of you wise people because I have no idea what's going on. My married boyfriend left me. He said he's going back to his marriage because his wife found out about us. We've been together for several years. I...

Why is my married boyfriend emotionally torturing me? He keeps leaving me and then coming back!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1532 days ago

13 September 2020 (F) - Why would the married man I've been involved with keep leaving me and coming back? He left me in July and came back. He just left me again. He said he loves me and that's why he has to let me go. Cause he can't stand seeing me suffer cause I want ...

Why does he say weird things in the middle of sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1532 days ago

10 September 2020 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two months. Just recently we started to get intimate. Last night was the second time we’ve had sex and I’m not sure if i should talk to him or if it’s just sex talk. Before having sex my boyfriend told me ...

I'm not comfortable dating a woman who doesn't share my views on sex. Should I cancel the date?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1542 days ago

4 September 2020 (M) - Dear cupid, I decided a long time ago to remain celibate until marriage. I am not religious, it's my upbringing. Sex outside marriage whether premarital or extra marital is taboo. I been talking to a woman who has shown interest in me, and decid...

Bf masturbated to his female friend, considering leaving him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1543 days ago

2 September 2020 (F) - my bf of 6 months has a hot female friend that posts sexy fb photos everyday showing her body and posts flirty comments on my bf's profile. they have been friends for a decade, still go out from time to time and are still in touch. they have never ...