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writes:Early 80s, separated, living alone, still masturbate regularly, usually to porn, but not as often as the good old days.Keeps me sane out out of jail!Many out there in similar situation? How do your handle it all, ever tried Bi?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2020): I find your post pathetic, immature, naive and dumb. You clearly wanted to boast about being old, unwanted and needing to masturbate a lot. Big deal. What is there to boast about there? Being unwanted? Not being able to turn on your wife or what?Then you stupidly talk as if everyone here has to make do with diy too! What a cheek. Many here are far more desirable, normal and nice than you and have a great sex life. They have a partner who wants them because they are nice and loveable and normal.Then you try to get us to talk about our sex lives so that you can masturbate over our lives. How sad and pathetic. Spend some of your pension on paying for sex.And stop pretending you have morals. People with morals don't go onto websites and try to rope others into giving them sexual jollies. Pretending it is about advice when it is about how it is the only way you can get satisfaction.There are women who will email you regularly if you pay them for sex emails, you won't get any off of me.Even if you offer to pay for them.Women who need to do that for a living are as sad and pathetic as you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2020): I find your post pathetic, immature, naive and dumb. You clearly wanted to boast about being old, unwanted and needing to masturbate a lot. Big deal. What is there to boast about there? Being unwanted? Not being able to turn on your wife or what?Then you stupidly talk as if everyone here has to make do with diy too! What a cheek. Many here are far more desirable, normal and nice than you and have a great sex life. They have a partner who wants them because they are nice and loveable and normal.Then you try to get us to talk about our sex lives so that you can masturbate over our lives. How sad and pathetic. Spend some of your pension on paying for sex.And stop pretending you have morals. People with morals don't go onto websites and try to rope others into giving them sexual jollies. Pretending it is about advice when it is about how it is the only way you can get satisfaction.There are women who will email you regularly if you pay them for sex emails, you won't get any off of me.Even if you offer to pay for them.Women who need to do that for a living are as sad and pathetic as you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2020): What makes you think you are sane?Your wife did not want to be with you - what does that tell you?Please do not try to kid yourself that everyone of around your age and male is the same. I know a lot of people in your age group who have terrific sex lives with a real live person.But there again they do not refer to them as pussy, they have more manners and more respect for their partners.Their relationships are not just about having an orgasm and having a convenience, I am sure that if that is how they were their partner would have separated or got a divorce from them too.It is not easy to find a new partner when you are old, it is impossible to find a new one when you only want them for sex - unless, of course, you forget about investing money on dates and spend money on women who sell sex instead. I can understand that for someone like you that would be expensive and not worth the expense hence you only have yourself. That is not just because of your age it is also because of your attitude.Many women who are around 80 miss sex if they are widowed or divorced, but most of them are also moral andpicky and not easily pleased and would never bother with a sex only or married man or even old man scenario.I know of one lady of around your age who only dates men of about fifty.I suspect that part of your problem is that you want much younger women - women you have not got a cat in hell's chance of dating or sleeping with, women who would laugh at you. Women who are so desirable they could get younger men - not just any younger man but a desirable one with manners, brains, money and personality, and would never need to think of older men, let alone older married men.You see it is always much easier for a pussy to get a c**k than a c** to get a pussy, there is this supply and demand thing, which is why pussy's can insist on being paid and still get loads of attention. Your wife would find it far easier to get sex than you would, despite her age. Her nicer personality would help too.
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reader, johnB39 +, writes (30 September 2020):
johnB39 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI confronted the old 'going outside' question and came down against it. Felt that if I felt bad about her doing that, then i could not either.
Many take the opposite view.
Maybe I am lazy but the idea of spending time and money chasing pussy and often failing, is another minus to it.
So now I am married to my right hand and I have formed the opinion that most men of my vintage are the same.
Thanks for your reply.
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reader, johnB39 +, writes (29 September 2020):
johnB39 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did not make myself very clear, but my wife is suffering from a mental condition and she insisted that we "live independently" and that we do in 2 homes in a gated community here in Australia.
I faced the moral dilemna of 'going outside', but given that we still manage to maintain a civilised relationship I rejected the possibility.
From what i can gather many or most face the same question and the answer varies but a lot seem to take my path.
You perhaps?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2020): If you are fit and active physically and sexually then why don't you date a lady. It is easy. There are several dating websites and facebook through which you can find a suitable lady or join groups that interest you. You never know what you find there. TBH I think you are very lucky to be active at your age not many men of your age are as active as you.
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