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Archived questions from: January, 2018 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Three dates in and she does't want to kiss!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2492 days ago

29 January 2018 (M) - So I met a girl through Tinder and we went out for dinner. I'm 30 and she's 27. We hit it off really well. We talked for nearly 4 hours. She had a pretty bad cough though, and I didn't attempt any sort of physical contact except a brief touch of the ...

Partner has been cheating with my best friend for the past five years.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2467 days ago

29 January 2018 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2009 till now we still ...

Could my body after weight loss be turning men off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2493 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - I'm a little worried about this. So, i used to be quite large, about 84 pounds overweight and lost most of my weight the last few years. I'm thin but not as toned and obviously have a little loose skin on my stomach in particular, especially the ...

Is his interest in this activity normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2495 days ago

28 January 2018 (F) - I'm not sure if this is an issue, but it's been on my mind. I have a wonderful boyfriend. I love him to death. We're pretty sexually active, and I can't help but please him. It's just that despite all the sex and oral we do, he's always asking to ...

He seemed so into me, said he had no wrong intentions... Then why did he ghost me after that evening of no sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

28 January 2018 (F) - I commute to work and every Friday, as I'm waiting at my bus stop, a young man would come and wait for the bus as well. We would exchange polite nods of the head, smiles, "good mornings" and then both of us would retreat back to our cell phones, ...

My attempts at sex were horribly painful. How do I make things better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

28 January 2018 (F) - Uhm so about two years ago me and my friend lost our virginities to each other. We were both drinking but regardless of being drunk it was insanely painful for me. We tried so many times because I thought I was being a wimp but the pain was ...

Her confession, while turning me on, makes me angry and I feel betrayed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

27 January 2018 (M) - Where do I start? My wife and I have been married for close to 17 years and have 2 young daughters aged 10 and 8. We are a happy couple are most probably enjoying the best period of our married life. My wife is hot and still looks amazing......

I want to know if I am crazy for wanting him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

26 January 2018 (F) - I had been with my ex boyfriend for 10 years, we were both leaving in the same city. We met in University . He is 32 and I am 27. After finishing his degree he had been looking for a stable job for a while, he was lucky enough to get two job offers ...

Should I tell my fiance about my fantasy of letting him have sex with others?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2493 days ago

25 January 2018 (F) - Hello. I have a 35 year old boyfriend he is very handsome and active. He looks younger than his age which is a bonus. I love him so much and we have great sex since day one. He has introduced me to his family and friends and recently we got engaged. ...

Ideas for sex with a submissive man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2501 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Hello! It's been a long time since I've been here. I've across a few new things. First off my boyfriend and I of 3 years broke up the day before new years. It's been hard. We've had sex since then. Honestly, we still love each other to death but ...

Should I ask him if he's ever had sex with her?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2497 days ago

18 January 2018 (F) - Hi guys! Quick question.. I've been having a sexual relationship with a man for almost a year. We used to work together but we now both moved on to other jobs right after the first time we had sex. So here's the thing- Right before we had se...

Apart from these issues my boyfriend is great.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2504 days ago

17 January 2018 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for four months now. We get along really well. He use to be a well known player in our town. The sex is alright. He likes it better than me. Hence the fact I've had better lovers. The two issues I'm having are this: ...

Why did he block me? Was it because I didn’t have sex with him?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2502 days ago

17 January 2018 (F) - Hey guys.. I randomly met this guy last week and as soon as I saw him, I liked him. He seemed shy and I could tell he was into me but I knew he wouldn't ask me out, so I did. He took my number and he asked me to dinner on Saturday. Well he knew how ...

Should I be open to casual sex to gain experience?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2502 days ago

17 January 2018 (M) - I am a 25 yr old male with a problem in dating/sex I cant figure out. I am finishing medical school this year. I put in a lot of work/long hours to get where I am. I go to the gym try new hobbies etc. I was shy in high school,got better in...

He communicates okay, apart from when I suggest we hang out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2510 days ago

12 January 2018 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for a total of two months, we met on a dating app and have gone on one date since then, I even met his grandparents lol. At the very beginning he was eager-- calling, texting, you name it frequently and now after ...

Is there a way to make up for our different dimensions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2509 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - I had my eye on a guy at work for quite some time. He’s my age, works out a lot - has a great smile and easy way about him that I liked. But most of all, we have great chemistry. In fact there’s always been some sexual tension between us. A ...

I want to ensure my well being through this process.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - Seeing this guy who is older than I am. Very casual and open at first. It's been about three or four months and we both are kind of surprised we are still seeing each other, and that the relationship is progressing. I stay over a lot, we have the ...

His email to his brother hurts more than his affair

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2498 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 3 years in January, he cheated on me with someone I knew in October. In our bed When I was away for 2 days. When I came back he acted like nothing had happened but I knew in my heart and then my friends told ...

Will he break up with me because I don't like giving head?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and things seem to be going well. However he keeps asking for a blowjob which I'm not keen to do. I've tried it with him for a tiny length of time but really really dislike it. I've told him this. ...

I think he's cheating and we had unprotected sex!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - I posted a question few weeks ago about this guy that I’m seeing, a 46 years old physician divorced with no kids. From the beginning I made my dating rules clear and told him that I don’t want to have any physical contact or intimacy if he is seeing ...

How can I have sex without feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2516 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - Why can’t I handle intimate relationships? When I get intimate with a man it’s like my power and common sense go away I feel so weak and vulnerable. I look at my ex”s pics on social media after a year and a half and I see him with another woman and ...

My LDR wants me to talk dirty but I don't know how.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - Hi, I had my first boyfriend recently, but it's a long distance relationship.. so we video chat.. However, he has no problem dirty talking, but I never done this; so i dont know how to talk dirty to him.. It was kind of weird the last time cause he...

Why does my girlfriend not allow me to perform oral sex on her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

6 January 2018 (M) - My GF and I have been dating for 3 years. Our sex life is very good and frequent. The question I have is she will do anything in the bedroom with me except allowing me to go down on her. I have asked her many times as to why and she said she doesn't ...

Did my friend hook me up with a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2514 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - I am confused and need help to make up my mind and deal with my dented ego. A very good man friend hooked me up with his bestie. He knows us both very well. My friend is a very decent guy, he knows me since I was 11 and would not hook me up just ...

Should I confess to my drunken night?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2514 days ago

5 January 2018 (F) - I went out last night and got really drunk. A guy grabbed me and started kissing me and feeling me up and without thinking I started kissing him back. Then he said he would help to get me home safely but he got out of the taxi too and we ended up ...

I am worried about oral sex and hygiene

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2514 days ago

5 January 2018 (M) - I've been in a relationship for a while now. She's coming over for the weekend. This will be the first time we'll be alone together in a private place. We've talked about being physical and we're both ready for it. I want to please her sexually. ...

I'm a virgin but I want to have casual sex with him. How do I ask for him without coming across as cheap?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

3 January 2018 (F) - So, I work with this guy and we get along well together. He not necessarily physically my type but his personality os great. He is funny and makes me laugh and even when we get on eachother nerves we still laugh. I feel comfortable and at ease with ...

Boyfriend wants sex on demand, what about what I want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - I love my boyfriend we been together nearly a year but he always wants sex in the morning and I just don't and if I don't have it when he wants he gets into a strop all day and just walks off and if we go out he will just walk miles in front of me ...

I'm worried about the looks I will get if I buy condoms

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - Hi all, Recently, I got together with a guy and well, our relationship has been moving fairly quickly. I absolutely okay with how it's going. So, I was just wondering, he will coming to visit me at my own place (I live near my uni campus), and lik...

I get an erection during foreplay but lose it during sex. What do I do about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

2 January 2018 (M) - Every time I try to have sex with my girlfriend i instantly get hard during foreplay but as soon as I am ready to have full sex I lose my erection I don't know what to do I love her very much and want to please her sexually ...

I hate that my gay friends have been with girls before

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

1 January 2018 (M) - i feel weird cuz all my gay friends have been with girls before or some sorta connection. I feel dumb and alone. At dinner last week we were talking and all 4 of them had sex or girlfriends at some time except me. in lgbt movies its the same thing ...