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male
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51-59,
*ss534
writes: Hi,My wife and I have been married for almost 17 years. We have three great boys. The relationship has had arguments in between, but I think it is normal. Lately, I have not felt like making love to my wife. It's not that I am having an affair; it's just that I don't feel like it. Sometimes my wife seems to pick on me about various things and later she has wanted to make love. How in the world would I make love after with her after she we have had a disagreement? This morning I thought we were enjoying a cup of coffee in the backyard, but then she fought with me and told me that she is not old and if we go on like this, not making love, it's over. Right now, I feel like that would be just fine with me. But I do love her. I just hate when she does that.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (4 July 2009):
 you need to tell her u love her and that ur sorry u dont make love to her becoz ur just not feeling in the mood. maybe she will dress up provocatively one nite and create a better atmosphere at home for u to get in the mood!
either way be honest with her, tell her u love her, thats the main thing.
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