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I want to use a vibrator but it hurts so much!

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Question - (4 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay so im a virgin and i dont masterbait very often and when i do i just use my hands but today i disided to see how big my hole was (idk it was a random thaught). So i started to slide the vibrator in but about an inch in it began to hurt worse than anything i have ever felt.....so my question is, how do i make it so my first time doesnt hurt like that? Or do i just have to deal? thanks X

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009):

I think a big part of it depends on how relaxed and turned on you are. If you just did this out of curiosity, but wasn't particularly in the mood, then it will be uncomfortable. Next time you want to try something like this, try and make sure you are really relaxed first. And just take it slowly. x

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A female reader, chuwariwaps Kuwait +, writes (4 July 2009):

chuwariwaps agony aunthey,you are a virgin,that why it hurts. it hurts more when you tried it further. worse it may you experience bleeding just like having sex for the first time

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009):

just stick to your hands or if you're gonna use a toy, use it on the outside...the clit

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