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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: ok. so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year. i give oral to him almost every day. i enjoy it. although sometimes he asks too much because i dont want to, and he just guilt trips me into doing it. but i just want something in return. he has never told me that he doesn't like giving me oral, he just never does it. that last time he gave oral to me was about seven months ago, when the last time i did it to him, it was last night. when i told him that i want something in return, he laughed. and so i finally said that i wont give him any unless he gives me some, he agreed. now he is saying that its my choice to not give him oral. he is basically saying that he will suffer by not receiving oral as long as he doesn't have to give me oral. how can i change his mind? i just want SOMETHING! i feel neglected because he hasn't done anything in so long. we have sex on a regular basis. but that's about it. how can i get some pleasure for myself? Reply to this Question Share |
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