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Archived questions from: 27 July, 2009 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

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Marriage problems: Help and advice

I love him but he shuts down when I mention sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I'm not really sure who to turn to so I guess I came here. I'm 21 years old and I have been married a year and a few months, but I have been with my husband a year before. So about 2 1/2 years together total. When we first got together we just...

He walked out on me and doesn't want to be found!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - My husband walked out on me over 2 weeks ago... I had no idea why, so I got the police to look for him. They eventually found him, but wouldn't tell me where he was, as they said he didn't want to be found. I feel dejected, depressed, empty ...

What would you do if you found your 40 husband in bed with a girl age 18-21? Help me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - What would you do if you found your husband who's 40 in bed with a girl between the ages of 18-21? The girls blonde, young everything he would like and i even found texts on his phone where he told her she was hotter than me, and would prefer h...

I fear my husband isn't attracted to me anymore and is having an affair! Is anyone like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I'm a housewife since our son was born 5 years ago. Taking meds to get preg for 2nd baby.I'm tired most of the time(due to medicines i think)I'm overweight and I know my husband is not attracted to me though we have sex twice a week. I'm scared o...

I need an unbiased opinion. There's a lack of passion in our marriage due to her illness.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - I have been married for 8 years. When we started dating (12 years ago), we had a great time. She was not as passionate or as romantic as I was but I was able to look that over because she had many other great qualities that I was attracted to. ...

In material terms I have everything I want, so why do I feel so dissatisfied with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hi All I am desperate and could really do with some advice. I am 41 year old male, married with two beautiful children aged 7 and 9. I met by partner some 20 years ago and we have now been married for 12 years. I am successful in business and ...

My wife went into the gents with another guy but claims she cant remember what happened in there!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - When a girl drinks a lot and she kisses another man and he takes her in the gents loo for some more action, will she be able to stop going all the way and will she remember everything what happened in there? she remembers what they were talking ...

I've been married 15 years and am having an affair

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I thought maybe it could have been just a one time incident, but now we have had sex three times sneaking away about once ever three weeks. I have been married for 15 years and never thought I would do this. I have always had men find me ...

Do I tell my wife I haven't really ended the affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have recently separated from my wife after I had an affair, I told my wife that I was no longer seeing the other woman, to save her any further upset, but I am still seeing her and want to be with her, my wife sends me malicious emails, texts and ...

My husband isn't intrested in a sexual relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hai, I am Mrs. V. MY husband is not interested in sexual relationship but he is a very good person He likes me very much. Out of great dfficulty I have a son ,he just comes to me very rarely, above all he is perfectly well at his health what should ...

He says he wants to be with his family but calls his mistress every chance he has!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - help me! i was with my ex husband for 37 years and during that marriage he had a mistress for 30 years . when he left me the last time i got the divore . he had left me 3 times before! i believed the words of god (only on to him) and look what ...

Great marriage so what's my problem?!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - The first time I wrote my long, drawnout alcohol-induced (couldn't sleep) description of my problem, it didn't post, so I'm going to give the Clifs Notes version now (just looking for general advice/words of wisdom): *Married, happily, for over 5 y...

My wife is cheating but I love her and don't want to lose her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hey .. my name is iyad I be married for over 3 years ... I am 26 .. my wife kerri she is 22 years .. she work 2 jobs and hard jobs she is a manger for store and scond job is delivery news pepars .. so from frist of july she change her life with me ...

Husband wants to stay in the family home while continuing his affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hi there I would really appreciate people's perspective on my situation. I'm dealing with a lot of emotional pain having learnt that my husband of nearly 21 years has been seeing another woman. Admittedly our marriage was a struggle wi...

Very complicated....Two men in my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been sleeping with my oldest child's father for the last 2 1/2 years....However I have been married for 12 1/2. My husband and I have definitely had major hurdles in our marriage and I feel very unappreciated and he takes me for granted,I had ...

I found my 40 year old husband in bed with a blonde 20 year old!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - What would you do if you found your husband who's 40 in bed with a girl between the ages of 18-21? The girl being young, blonde everything he would like, he gets paid about 4K a month and his credit card bill was higher than usual so i dont kno...