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Archived questions from: January, 2017 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I want to move and live with my partner in Colombia but afraid of losing my job

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

29 January 2017 (M) - Hey There, Perhaps this is not the right platform to ask such a question, but I am going to try I am a gay person who is planning to move to Colombia in order to live with my Colombian partner. We thought that we could get married once i arri...

LDR boyfriend is dragging his feet about us moving in together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship and have been for almost four years.My finance live 88 miles away so I see him every weekend. The problem is he is dragging his feet for us to live together and I have become extremely resentful.He says we can ...

Did my words really crush his wish to marry me? Or was he looking for an excuse to break up, and blame me, for his own reasons?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

25 January 2017 (F) - I met a guy on dating site he is from Europe and I'm from Africa. We met in person 3 times, he met my family twice and its been 19 months since we are in a relationship. Before 4 months he gave me an engagement ring and I accept we have differe...

Communication issues with LDR boyfriend. Is it normal not to talk every day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

24 January 2017 (F) - I've been having issues w/communication frequency and attention w/my bf. We met online and have met in person a couple times. He came up for almost 2 weeks almost a month ago and everything is always amazing w/us when we are physically together ...

Just found out that my LDR is happily married. Do I confront him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. We are in a LDR, but he's very caring, sweet and romantic...keeps in touch. But one thing that continually bothers me is that he never calls me at night! Two days back, I was viewing his profile on s...

My ldr partner wants to do fun time while apart but I feel extremely unconfident doing so since he watches so much porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

21 January 2017 (F) - My partner is overseas and wants me to video chat him and call him for fun time . The problem is that that he watches loads of porn and I can't help but feel self conscious that I could never be as sexy or anywhere near as good at exciting him as ...

Is there any way I can change his perceptions about me? How should or could I attract him back to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

18 January 2017 (F) - Its been 50 days. My boyfriend broke up with me.. It was all my fault. Its been 2 years. For 1 year we were together when i was working ..but from last 1 year we are in long distance. I live with my parents and i am jobless. My career is ...

Married recently. Are these marriage problems happening too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

18 January 2017 (F) - My husband and I just got married about a month ago, unfortunately we can't live together because neither of us have a job at the moment. Although we are looking. We see each once or twice a month. We text everyday and FaceTime, but now all of s...

Can two cheaters make a relationship work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

16 January 2017 (F) - I was in a serious relationship with a guy (it was long distance where we had to fly an hour to see each other). Then one day, I find out he had been texting this other girl 10 hours a day, and they were seeing each other for 3 hours a day for ...

Why do I have to hunt down my vacationing boyfriend by text before he answers?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

15 January 2017 (F) - I need your help. I need to know whether I should end a 3.5 year relationship. My boyfriend is traveling outside the country with family. He has been in touch by text because it's expensive to send texts and make phone calls. So his texts...

My LDR boyfriend hasn't wanted to video chat. Does it mean that he does not miss me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

14 January 2017 (F) - So far in my LDR, I have been the one to mostly initiate video calls, though we text throughout the day. I have asked for more vid chats, shorter times, but I usually have to ask for vid chat. It wears on me that I usually have to always hint/ask....

Being just friends makes sense but I don't know how to approach this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

13 January 2017 (M) - Hi everyone, I (23/m) met a girl (22/f) last year over the course of a job where we were both away from home. During our time there we became really good friends and it was after the time had ended (and I had broken up with a different girl) ...

Why guys appear to disappear?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

12 January 2017 (F) - I was talking to this guy for 9 months. We argued after and hurt his feelings. He did not forgive me. Then i gave it a time. I did not text him for a while. All of a sudden, he texted me as if nothing happens for 2 weeks. He lives in San Diego an...

Why do men disappear? And should I reach out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

12 January 2017 (F) - Why do men suddenly disappear? And should I reach out or let it go? Here's the situation : I met a guy a year ago. I gave him my phone number. He lives in a different city but for one year, casually kept in touch (maybe one text a month). Then i...

I've got an ex husband, an ex fiance and a new guy who all want me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

12 January 2017 (F) - I'm 39 divorced and had been dating someone for 3 years. I knew him from university.He lives in another country. We became engaged. I have gone through a lot for this long distance relationship to make it work. I applied for a fiancé visa for him ...

My previous LDR did not work. My current LDR treats me better. Based on how things are working out does this current LDR have a chance of working out for the best?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

11 January 2017 (F) - My bf came down to visit me for a little while and we talked about the future. The thing is he is younger then me and much less stable then me. I guess when I started dating him, I should have walked away, but I couldn't and we fell in love. ...

We are five hours apart. Could it be worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

11 January 2017 (F) - How do i know if it's worth the pain? Me and this guy met online, we live about 4 or 5 hours away from each other, he's just coming up to very big exams... We both really, really, like each other... infact, i think im falling for him, hard and fast...

Why would a man persist with a LDR if he was not attracted to the woman? Why even tell the woman he "loves" her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

10 January 2017 (F) - Would a man have a long distance relationship with a woman who he wasn't attracted to and even tell her he loves her? Why would he want to do that if he later admits he is not attracted to the woman? Is it loneliness ? Is this a common thing ...

Boyfriend lost his job, became depressed and now won't speak to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - I'm in a pretty bad situation. I dated a guy for 6 months long distance and were very serious- he met my family, I spoke to his, our parents talked- we were on the marriage track. 4 months into it he told me that he was unemployed. It threw me for a ...

How do I get him to last longer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - M boyfriend and I are in a Long Distance Relationship. We see each other every 4-6 weeks. I've been noticing that when we have sex, he doesn't last long... no more than maybe a minute or two at most. His explanation is that because he goes without ...

How do I make my boyfriend more comfortable with talking intimately on the phone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - My boyfriend can't talk intimately over the phone, and when I do it makes him uncomfortable. Everything's great when we're face to face together but we're in a long distance relationship and spend a couple of days each month together. We've been ...

Did I over-react when I was upset about his weak excuse for canceling his visit?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

8 January 2017 (F) - My long distance bf who lives 3 hours away was suppose to come this weekend to see me. I was really looking forward to it since its a long weekend which means we will have more time together .However he has Monday to Friday job so he is only ...

What does he mean? I want us to have a future together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

6 January 2017 (F) - i told my boyfriend that we are impossible because we live in different country and our culture is totally different. we are at on the right age and he knows that i want to have my own family at the age of 30. he didn't say anything but when i want ...

I'm looking for feedback on my decision to break up with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

5 January 2017 (F) - Hello Everyone! I am truly at a crossroads in my life. I am 20, about to turn 21, graduating an entire year early from a pretty rigorous liberal arts college. Back in October I broke up with my 3-year, mainly long distance boyfriend, whom ...

My married lover wants me to move to his country with our son

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

3 January 2017 (F) - Dear readers, I am in a really complex situation. 8 years ago, I met a man - we were both married at the time. I didn't have any children, because my then husband did not want any, despite my wanting a child desperately. The other person (OP) has ...

Can I trust this long-distance love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

3 January 2017 (F) - I have a long distance relationship and the guy is coming to visit me this weekend... I'm having doubts about our whole relationship... He's been acting strange I'm honestly unsure about where I stand. I mean he's a popular guy and he'll make ...

Why in the world can't I move on?! ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

2 January 2017 (F) - I have been through a couple of serious breakups in my life but for some reason the one that happened recently has seemingly destroyed me. I dated someone for a very short period of time albeit knowing him for over 12 years. We were only together...