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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

Never had a girlfriend, unsure of her orientation, but really want to start a conversation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Hi there! This post isn’t about a problem, I’m just asking for general advice. I’m a twenty year-old college student whom recently ‘came out’ as gay. I’ve never had a girlfriend. That didn’t bother me too much because there was no one in particular ...

I have a problem dealing with my girlfriend having had a lesbian relationship in the past!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

23 January 2014 (M) - Hello there. I'm 31 years old and I have a girlfriend for almost 2 years now. She's really special and she's the kind of person that I want to spend the rest of my time with. When we were talking about her past (like almost a year ago) she t...

Should I go for a threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

23 January 2014 (M) - So, Uni drama again. Bloody Uni eh? So someone I met in first year, liked him for ages, tried to get with him for ages, we had a sexual thing but other than that we never really went anywhere, he pretty much friendzoned me soon as he could, then w...

I want to marry a female and have children but I am a gay male.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

19 January 2014 (M) - I want to marry a female and have children but I am a gay male. Please help. ...

I just can't deal with falling for a friend who is incapable of ever feeling the same way about me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

16 January 2014 (M) - I suppose I'll jump right in. I'm a 23 year old, gay, college student. I've been interested in one of my friends for a while who is in the same major as me. His name is Chris. Last spring I asked him out because I knew I liked him and I wasn't 100% ...

Is there any way to learn to separate myself from her bad days in a healthy manner? One where I'm not abandoning her yet I'm still looking out for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3992 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - I don't always know how to deal with my girlfriends depression. Some days, she's really happy and easy to be around, while other days, she gets in this deep depression and I don't know how to deal with it. She's on antidepressants ...

I'd like to meet and start dating someone but my circumstances make it difficult!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - I'm 28, from the North Midlands in the United Kingdom, disabled (but not physically) and bisexual, don't mention it to many people, it doesnt define me, it's not obvious to most people. (for both things, disability and bisexual). I'm mainly ...

Are they just playing with me, how can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

13 January 2014 (M) - Hi I need advice. I am gay, and I have a guy friend who I hang out with. I noticed he was gay. He used to look at me in a certain way, and I began to have feelings for him. He sent me flirty sms. I didn't know how to respond. He met another guy. ...

Girlfriend's family is disrespectful of me and I'm not sure how to deal with it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

10 January 2014 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year and a half now, and this has largely been a very happy period of my life. I was conscious when entering into a same-sex relationship that difficulties may arise, and was both surprised and ...

My girlfriend acts like she doesn't even care about something that is important to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

10 January 2014 (F) - So Sunday will be me and my gf's one year together. We talked about it in advance and agreed we wanted to do something special on that day to celebrate. I requested off of work and everything. Well tonight, I mention that it feels like forev...

I have feelings for my friend, now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3997 days ago

9 January 2014 (F) - I am in 25yrs and bio all my friends know about this and some of them are lesbians and gays others are strait now I have this friend I meet usual we enjoy our friendship my problem about her I have morethan feeling a friendship with her I do have ...

Need help dealing with a crush

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

8 January 2014 (M) - Hey I really need some help. I'm gay and one of my best friends is bi. We had a mutual crush on eachother, he told me about his but I didn't tell him about mine because he had a girlfriend at the time and I didn't want to be a home wrecker. This ...

Feel so lonely at school. Want someone special in my life. What are my options?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

7 January 2014 (F) - I am an open lesbian, and have been single for over a month and tired of seeing people so happy with others. I really want to find someone who won't make highschool so lonely. I'm really love sick, and I walked into high school with no best frie...

Should I move across the country with someone I used to date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

7 January 2014 (F) - So I recently started talking again with an ex I dated briefly. We only went out for a few months and then broke up because she was too busy for a relationship with her job and also being a single mom. A couple months passed without speaking and ...

I can't get over my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

7 January 2014 (F) - Hello readers, I am having trouble getting over my ex girlfriend. We have been together for 2yrs and over that time we have had our ups and downs. Ultimately though I have been happy but she said she hasn't been. Since our break up I have been s...

She gets upset when I point out I provide most of the money.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

6 January 2014 (F) - Ive been with my girlfriend for a year and I really love her. But I think I pushed her away. We've been fighting alot. Mainly because of me throwing everything up in her face. I work and pay for all the bills. She works in a day care but isnt ...

How can I rock my girlfriend's world?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

6 January 2014 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for a good few months now blissfully in a gay relationship...at first sex was amazing and I never had issues - now however, I dont seem to be able to do much to her. She says she loves it and I really turn her on, we ...

Is my husband gay? Or is this an outlet for his bisexuality?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

6 January 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 7 years married for 3 and I have always known he is bisexual which has never been an issue for me until recently. I recently discovered that he has another Facebook profile that I am blocked on which...

Is she doing this because she is proud of me or is she just too talkative?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4005 days ago

2 January 2014 (F) - My girlfriend and I only been together two months. I've met her whole immediate family. We go out often. And she knows I'm a quiet reserved person. It just put me outside my comfort zone when she does that thing. The thing is she quickly tell ...

Why are women so judgemental about guys who want to or have experimented with other guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

1 January 2014 (M) - Why is it seen as such a HUGE deal BY WOMEN if a guy wants to experiment with another guy? Girls can already agree that that most, if not many guys LIE and CHEAT, is it so hard to believe that they can fuse those two together and TRY, just TRY an...