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Archived questions from: January, 2016 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

My wife of 22 years has no remorse over her cheating. Should we divorce, or do what we want?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

30 January 2016 (M) - I just found out that my wife cheated on me and not the first time and she does not even feel remorse. We have been married for 22 years, both in our 40s. She looks amazing for her age. Men always liked her. we have a grown child and empty nesters....

How would you label this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

29 January 2016 (M) - I've got a general question I'd love some feedback on. Friends with benefits? F*ck buddies? Dating? Friends? What are we? So I am friends with this girl and have been for some time now. That I do know. We do things together and talk about all s...

Why was the sex so different between my ex and this man and which one is normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - A little while ago, I had sex with someone. I'd only ever has sex with one other person before this. My first "lover" was my ex. During the act, we did not really kiss or look at each other. Or talk much. Even when I lost my virginity to him...

I used to want a relationship and romance but all the girls wanted was to be romance with no sex. now that I've tried sex only, the girls get all crazy and want a relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3212 days ago

26 January 2016 (M) - I always manage to get the girl that want the opposite of what I want. I've tried meeting them at places where we have something in common like club or events and half the time they're okay with talking to me and I take them out to dinner and what I ...

I've developed a crush on my former FWB but he's moved on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - I was having a friends with benefits relationship with a guy in my first term at university and when we went home for Christmas we were texting all holidays saying that we couldn't wait to get back and carry it on. It was over the holidays i realis...

I don't know if I want to date, be friends or FWB with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

24 January 2016 (M) - How should I go about my attraction to my close friend? I am currently 21, and I have been friends with this girl since High school. We recently started to get closer to each other due to how often we see each other now, so my attraction for h...

Is NSA the same as FWB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm sort of dating a person for past 2 months and today after sex he told me he wants to do NSA and he doesn't attach emotionally to anyone (which he does to protect himself) and won't commit. Though its NSA he won't be seeing anyone el...

Did how I act merit her emotional outburst?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - Hey guys. I posted on here a few days ago and got some really good responses. I'd like to maybe get a new perspective after these past few days because now I feel a bit crazy. I had a regular friends with benefits and I thought things were goin...

My FWB partner didn't seem right so I stopped the sex but then she was angry! Didn't I do the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

19 January 2016 (F) - Hey guys, I am utterly shocked at the moment and need someone to help me clarify what happened. I have been in a friends with benefits relationship with another woman (both girls) for a few months now. Things have been amazing!! Sex was intensel...

Tired of being the other woman but...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

18 January 2016 (F) - Hi everyone, Am struggling following the break-up of a sexual relationship with a married man. We started as friends, which evolved into a FWB. We would hang out if I made plans for movies etc. Even though he always said how much he would like to ...

Can we be friends or am I fooling myself?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3221 days ago

18 January 2016 (F) - Please explain what is going on here: This guy and I had been friends for a while. One day he said he found me attractive and I said that I had hots for him too. We ended up having sex for a few months, hanging out, texting, calling, etc. One day h...

Why does he cuddle but no kisses?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3224 days ago

14 January 2016 (F) - Hi I've spoken to you previously about man who was fwb but then seemed to want more then disappeared. Anyhow I am confused , have been seeing him lots , last six nights in row. He initiated was lovely , cuddled , spooned ,he was nude . thing is ...

Am I an idiot to keep responding to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

13 January 2016 (F) - Met a guy from a dating site 2 years ago. Met him on and off throughout and we just meet for sex. last time i saw him was about two months ago. I would of liked him to of wanted more then sex but i know he doesn't. The sex is alright but i know he ...

Sex is good but he's gone cold

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3227 days ago

11 January 2016 (F) - I met a guy at uni a few months ago and i guess we sort of became fuck buddies having mostly drunken sex. It hasn't been constant but before Christmas it was happening regularly and it turned into a more friends with benefits as we spent more time ...

If there's a decent chance, how do I bring up the possibility of a FWB with my neighbour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3228 days ago

10 January 2016 (M) - For the last few years, I have been living next door to a single mother and two adolescent children. For a long time, our relationship was strictly neighborly. We talked on occasion and got along great. Sometime around the start of the year, we ...

I love/hate him and feel I am going nowhere.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

7 January 2016 (F) - The blush is beginning to fade from the rose. Met a guy in Nov. 2014 at a French speaking club. He pursued me from the get-go. I had gotten out of a long-term relationship (my first one) earlier that year. So, when he came along, I was ambivalent...

Is there any way to make this work and make everyone see I won't screw this up again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

6 January 2016 (M) - when I was in my early 20s I did a lot of dumb stuff, I got into drugs, drank way to much and partying became my only concern. I dropped out of university and bounce from one dead end job to another but I was happy with the partying life style. I ...

Has my former fwb put me in the friendzone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3234 days ago

4 January 2016 (F) - Hi I was wondering if anyone could give me any help as to what is going on . A while ago we were fwb and I said didn't want that so didn't see him again . then last June he asked to see me and we hung out as friends realising we got on really we...

Not sure if this FWB is turning in to more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

2 January 2016 (F) - Hey guys. I have a question about a fwb. First off, I'm a gay female. I have been friends with this girl off and on for years, but have never hooked up until recently. We used to work together and I always thought she was sexy as hell, and we kin...