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Archived questions from: October, 2013 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

I've become extremely needy and emotional, since I'm used to have her around my finger.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

31 October 2013 (M) - Hey, I recently dumped my girlfriend of 4 years. I did it because I haven't lived my life and I was feeling that I wanted to meet other people. My girlfriend was wonderful but we wasn't on the same level, she was very responsible and ...

FWB wants to meet up but hes dating someone. Is it moral?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - my fwb just asked me to meet up even though I thought it was over because he apparently had a girlfriend, he then explained that she wasn't his girlfriend and it wouldn't be cheating because they haven't defined the relationship. is it moral to ...

Do you think I should have to tell him everything about my life when now hes a friend with benefits ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - Does a guy I see once a week have any right asking questions about where I go and what I do? ive been seeing someone for a year and it turned very serious very quickly. He moved in within four months but it turned sour pretty quick.I chucked him ...

Male friend has changed behaviour since we hooked up. What's his problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4035 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - Ok so I have a friend who is quite flirty and anyway we hooked up once a couple weeks but we don't like each other or anything. So anyway we used to talk like all the time but all of a sudden he just stopped replying to my messages and starts ...

I'm expecting my ex boyfriend's child and I don't know if I should tell him and break his current girlfriend's heart.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - I'm expecting my ex boyfriend's child and I don't know if I should tell him and break his current girlfriend's heart. Basically, when we broke up, we made a stupid agreement to still have sex from time to time. I ended things because I got sick of ...

My period is due when I've arranged to see my fwb

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - I'm supposed to be going round to my fwb's place this weekend but I'm due my period within the next few days. If it hasn't arrived when I go round should I warn him I'm due on or not mention anything and just hope it doesn't? What do the guys ...

Does FWB never lead to a relationship?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

24 October 2013 (F) - If a man only wants friends with benefits, does that mean he will never want a relationship? I was wondering if it's possible for a man to change his mind and want a relationship with you?. I know a man who wanted friends with benefits with me...

I don't want to ruin our friendship over sex. Should I just come out and say it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

24 October 2013 (M) - There is a woman I used to work with that became a good friend, though we rarely see each other. We're both in our early 50's. I did some repair work on her home a few times. I am separated from my cheating liar wife, she is married. About a year ...

Confused by my FWB

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

23 October 2013 (F) - So guys I need your opinion on something I previously gotten into this friends with benefits relationship and I'm Soo confused.. He comes down every other weekend and we have a great time and then when we talk he always says we need to stop Bc he's ...

A FWB and I think he is too involved. What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

22 October 2013 (F) - I recently started having sex with one of my friends but I feel like he might think of it as something more than I do, and I really can't bear the thought of hurting him. We were drunk the other week and we ended up having sex. It was weird...

I think that fact that I want to stray is telling me something about my current relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

18 October 2013 (M) - I'm in a bit of a dilemma here and not sure what to do? I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years now and I thought that everything was great. But, recently my ex girlfriend got in touch with me. Me and my ex dated nearly 6 years ago for ...

New girlfriend is friends with recent lovers. Feels bad to me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

18 October 2013 (M) - New relationship-about 5 weeks. We are both in our 40s. Recently, she went out with an ex-BF who she briefly dated, but didn't work out, but continued sleeping with, most recently a few weeks before she and I met. She told me after the fact t...

FWB guys says that I'm not intellectually compatible with him. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

17 October 2013 (F) - I am currently in FWB with my best friend for a year. We know each other for long and i love him a lot, he does too. But he is not making our relationship official as he says he is not into relationship stuff. He is not seeing anyone i.e. not ...

I feel like there's competition and I'll never be good enough for my boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a mutual friend who is really slim, pretty and fun. I've known her all my life and my boyfriend met her through high school. Last week I was in an awful mood and all I wanted was for him to come and see me so I text him...

Are we going somewhere or is this just casual sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

10 October 2013 (F) - i dated a guy for a few months and than things got complicated and we broke up , but i miss him and he says he wants to be good friends that that is better than strangers but we've been hanging out again and we just can't resist each other we ...

Is he after a relationship or is he alright being friendzoned with benefits

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

9 October 2013 (F) - I met a guy online with the promise of sex without a relationship. That's great, because I'm a college student that really doesn't need a boyfriend but wants a good time now and then. He lives alone. His girlfriend moved out and he seems pretty ...

My FWB guy has dropped off the radar. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

7 October 2013 (F) - I had a fwb for the past 2 months. We've gotten together about 3 times and the sex was great, he also said he enjoyed it very much. I even began liking this guy a lot, possibly falling in love. Now all of a sudden, he wont respond to my calls or ...

Reliable and no passion, or risky and passionate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - I'm currently very confused. I was dating a guy for nearly 10 months but we broke up when I went to uni because it didn't feel the same. We still talk and its almost as if we are still together. But there's also another guy from back home who I talk ...

I love my boyfriend for his personality but the FWB for the way he makes me feel attractive!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

3 October 2013 (F) - Hi there, My boyfriend threatened to leave because of several issues, im not sure what to do, i dont want to upset anyone. I was building a relationship with a guy for a little while and then he said that he cheated several times in previou...

Do women really want on FWB relationships?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

3 October 2013 (F) - someone just told me the new "in" thing was fwb. The lady i was talking to said even women wanted this now. Why? is because men were I think she meant men were not that nice. I know per my recent post I think I have become that..but i do not ...

Former FWB situation--am I just too available for him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

1 October 2013 (F) - I am love with my best friend. I lived with him for a year and helped him through some tough health issues including cancer. We were friends with benefits and had a great time, playing, laughing, teasing. Then a girl came back from his past and was ...