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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

The sex in our FWB relationship is bad! How do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - So my best friend and I are close. But neither of us want a relationship, but we do want an aspect of a relationship. Sex. So we have sex and because as individuals we're just the same. People probably think we date because of how much we hang out ...

He's my ex. I still love him. Why does he keep me as his FWB? How do I heal myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hello, I will make this brief. I am a 23 year old female, who just got out of a relationship with a 22 year old male. We'll call him K. He and I had a lot happen between us that was mainly my doing, I was not ready for a relationship since I had ...

What exactly goes through a women's head when they allow me to keep treating them like trash?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - I am in awe at the way women let me treat them and I just don't get it. Ill see a girl I like and treat her like complete garabage but she still chases after me so I continue to do it because it works every time but I've had enough, I just don'...

Are all FWB relationships like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone I am in a fwb arrangement with a man of 10 months we didn't arrange it it just happened anyway I was just wondering are all fwbs like this one I see him once a month maybe twice if I'm lucky lol we live very close to one another I text ...

Should a FWB be persistent?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Is it normal for a guy who wants fwb to be persistent ?. He says he thinks i am really good looking, but i don't think i am that attractive, to be honest. I'm also a shy person, so i don't understand why he doesn't want an fwb who is more outgoing. ...

Is it normal for a guy who wants fwb to say he misses chatting with you ? Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - I'm confused about this guy. He told me that he wants to be friends with benefits, but he also said that he is happy being just friends ( without the benefits ) if that's what i want, and he said he didn't mind either way which one i wanted, as he ...

I fell in love with my best friend, but he is after another girl. What else to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - My best friend (male) was dumped almost a year ago by his GF. He was and I believe still is crushed about it and I been with him over all of it. Unfortunately, for me I fell in love with him and now I feel devastated that he is telling me he is ...

We have sex a few times a week. He wants to be friends. So why does he want to keep all this secret?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - I met this guy who just moved here and we started talking. after one month we hooked up and had sex.i asked him if we're just friends an he replied saying obviously we are more than that...but he doesn't want people to know so I tried my best to hide...

How do I get over the depression that sleeping with my ex has caused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I need to know how I can get over my ex and get out of the depression that he has put me in. We dated for over five years and broke up for good a year ago. We've slept once since then, and then again last night. He has really messed a lot of thing...

Just found out he has another FWB. Should I break up or continue with the little comfort he provides?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I just found out my friend with benefits, over 1.5 years now, has another fwb for a year going. It hurt and i felt used because i thought what we had was special. I am 40 and dont feel there are many options for me, and have settled for less. no...

Is my verbally abusive Bf cheating? Should I leave him? How do I stand up for myself better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I recently had twins a boy and girl and I feel my boy friend doesnt love me no more ! I DO everything for him I cook, clean, give him sex when he wants it , i take care of the twins i told him 'if you want to help me with the twin...

Why do some men have relationships when they are younger, but only feel like being single or having flings as they age?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Does anyone know why some men have relationships when they are younger, but only feel like being single or having flings, etc, when they are older ?. Is it because they have been on their own for a long time, and they get set in their ways ?. I've...

How do I help my FWB forget about his ex and make him see that I am not like her and will not hurt him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone a bit of a complicated situation here I have been in a fwb for nine months now I have told him how I feel about him (I would like to be with him properly) he says he likes me to he was very badly hurt by his ex with who he was with for ...

FWB said I love you, then took it back?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - Today I was talking to my fwb when towards the end of the phone call he said "I love you". I immediately replied with "what" since it was such a shock and he repeated it. I said "no you don't" and said bye and hung up. A few minutes later he...