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Archived questions from: July, 2019 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How can I deal with my conservative- verbally abusive living situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1930 days ago

31 July 2019 (F) - How can I navigate my abusive living situation? Background - I grew up in a conservative home ( think our current state of the union remarks) is here my parents care about money- materials and how good their daughters looks and well educated...

A guy keeps coming back when he doesn't want a relationship.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1932 days ago

30 July 2019 (F) - My ex and met online game site 3 years and we hit it off. However, after 5 months he broke it off because he felt like we don’t live within reasonable distance to support a relationship. We live 5 hours away from each other of driving distance. We ...

Do I have to invite this person to my party?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1928 days ago

29 July 2019 (M) - I'm having a birthday party soon.I have to restrict numbers because of budget. Some of the people coming are frinds of my gf- I've been with her for 10 years. There's one particular guy I can't stand. He often makes digs at me, and although never d...

Friend inviting me on holiday and professional/personal boundaries.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1933 days ago

27 July 2019 (M) - Two situations I need help with, that involve professional/personal blurring amongst gay men: - I have this friend; he is very well connected in the art world. He is friends with a hotel owner, who has offered him a full paid up trip in Europe, ...

My husband is extremely insecure and wants to change

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1904 days ago

25 July 2019 (F) - My husband is extremely insecure. The weird thing is, I've always admired him for his confidence, humor, and many other wonderful traits. He was very direct in asking me out and always made me feel important. We've been together for three years ...

A girl I like has told me she might get back with her ex, should I tell her again, how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1936 days ago

25 July 2019 (M) - I met a girl who at that time told me that she is still not over her ex boyfriend and wanted to take it as friends for the time being if that is acceptable with me. She seemed cool and I was okay with that at that point. We started as friends and ...

Am I a creep for still feeling the same way about her that I did 2 years ago?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1937 days ago

25 July 2019 (M) - Hi all. Any advice about my situation is much appreciated. To give some context, I'm 16 years old and have recently finished GCSE's, soon to begin studying an animal management course in college. Over the course of school, me and my best friend s...

5 months into our relationship and partner is dragging his feet filing for divorce from wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1936 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - A guy I've known over the years went through a split up with his wife. He was staying at my brothers house but it was crowded there so i told him he could stay with me. I just so happened to be searching for a roommate to help out. It wasn't long ...

Its hard for me to be around my husband's friends when I don't feel accepted

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1931 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - Hello! I've been fixating on a problem lately and I was hoping to get some advice. My husband and I are very different -- which is great, and it's one of the many reasons why I fell in love with him. But because we're so different, our i...

I'm single and pregnant, despite complications with the baby the father doesn't want to know about us.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1936 days ago

21 July 2019 (F) - So I was dating a guy for 2 months, going really well then he ended the relationship due to the fact he didn't like the fact I have children, 3 weeks later I found out I was pregnant with his child, (implant broke) he said when he found out he ...

He quickly gives offers of help but wont do paid work for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1940 days ago

20 July 2019 (F) - I became friendly with a guy who did work for me. We became friends on facebook so I suppose lost the trader/customer boundary. However he has let me down a few times now but if I have posted about needing something ie a code checker for my car or ...

Emotionally abusive friendship is there a way out ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1940 days ago

19 July 2019 (F) - I'm in an emotionally abusive friendship with another girl, we have been friends for many years. Its so hard to let go because when we get along its like the best friendship ever, we connect she totally understands and supports me, and vica versa, ...

A Male Coworker/Friend is Confiding in Me About His Marital Problems. How Should I Handle This?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1942 days ago

17 July 2019 (F) - I've been at my current employer for two years. I enjoy what I do as a paralegal, but most importantly, I've collaborated with a great group of smart, distinguished professionals at my company. Everyone is helpful, friendly, brilliant. We work hard ...

Am I being taken advantage of? What is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1950 days ago

10 July 2019 (F) - I have a guy friend that I met less than a year ago. We have kissed once but never have we talked about it since (we were somewhat drunk). He didn't want to go further because he didn't want to ruin the friendship (although we haven't been friends ...

Do I tell my boyfriend about these men obsessing over me and stalking me at college?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1941 days ago

9 July 2019 (F) - I am feeling really overwhelmed because I feel like I have no one to talk to about this, not even my therapist knows what to do, so please read me, please! and give me your advice. I am in college studying art and in a long term relationship. I have ...

I'm in a slightly wobbly relationship where I do love my partner but my best friend just professed his love for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1956 days ago

4 July 2019 (F) - Hey dearcupid Community! So, I'm in a bit of a predicament. Theres my partner. Been with him for 6 years in September. God I love him, he's not in a dark place, even his parents say how far he's come from what he once was and how certain thin...

Straight friend wants to try gay sex with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1955 days ago

3 July 2019 (M) - This guy and me, we're friends from childhood, we have known each other our whole lives. I'm gay and he's straight. Recently he broke up with his girlfriend and that's when he told me he'd like to try it with a guy (it meaning sex). I told hi...

We've been involved but now he blocks me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1958 days ago

3 July 2019 (M) - We both date girls and we're both 32, . My "straight" guy friend at 14 said he "fell for me" in highschool. He said don't tell no one! We lose our virginity to each other and have sex for 2 years. 2019, I reached out, told him I've always had ...

How do I help my friend handle the grief of losing her cat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1959 days ago

1 July 2019 (F) - My friend is really traumatized and upset about her cat after 7 years that she had him, its a himalayan cat so beautiful such a gentle and sweet soul. I actually hate cats but this cat was really special it just liked to play and be cuddled at ...