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Archived questions from: May, 2018 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Would I be a complete cow if I don't help my ex boyfriend with his drug problems?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2356 days ago

30 May 2018 (F) - My close friend has recently let me know that my ex boyfriend is going wild with drugs and alcohol and that he is worried about him. When I was with this boyfriend, I managed to convince him to only do drugs every so often and just weed, nothing ...

I cant stop thinking about my friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

26 May 2018 (M) - Friends have always been far and few between. Still, I've made a close friend, and I think I'm falling for him? I've always considered myself straight, never thinking about men. Still, I think of my friend and I feel so happy and gushy inside. Like, ...

Help! I’ve fallen for my friend, but I don’t know what to do about it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2363 days ago

25 May 2018 (M) - I was hoping if a female mind would be able to help out here because I'm in love with my best friend and I don't know if she feels the same way. I'm 23 and never had a proper relationship before so not terribly experienced! However, met thi...

Is this just a great friendship or does he have a crush?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

24 May 2018 (F) - Ok, so this is a bit complicated. We are two cross cultural couples- my husband and I are Asian while the other couple is European. We used to live in the same country but we returned to our own after a couple of years. During our time there, ...

Has anyone completely moved and drastically cut everyone off because I want to do just that

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2363 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - Has anyone felt this way in their thirties? I love in a major city in the east coast (US) and I want to so desperately leave my job my family my everything behind - I almost want to disappear and go missing - a lot of things in my life have turned ...

Can a devout Catholic male can be friends with a transgender girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

22 May 2018 (M) - I am wondering if it is possible that a devout Catholic male can be friends with a transgender girl (she was born a boy but transition to a girl)? I did not know she was transgender until after we got to know each other. I enjoy her company but...

I don't want to lead her on, but I don't want to flat out reject her as I don't want to hurt her that way either

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2363 days ago

22 May 2018 (M) - Dear all I need some advice. I met a girl online several months ago, as a language exchange. That was all I was looking for and her too i believe. We get along great and have learned a lot together. Our personalities are very similar, lots of ...

I don’t want to cut off this friend, but his behavior feels selfish and manipulative? Or is it me who is being childish and needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2369 days ago

18 May 2018 (M) - I have a friend who I used to consider a best friend. He isa very charming person but also totally hypocritical and self interested, at other times eh can be selfless. We used to spend a lot of time together. Recently, with no notice to me his ...

Should I ask for the money again or just let it go and block her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2367 days ago

18 May 2018 (F) - Hi everyone. I know this lady for few years and I can’t call her my friend but we hangout for a coffee sometimes. I find her cheap, not that she is not spending but just her attitude towards money. 2 months ago she was asking to attend an event ...

If I’ve fallen for him and my parents don’t approve of me being with someone, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2367 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - I met my friend when we were both just 10 years old. We kept in contact for years but were never close.. we just always make sure to wish each other on birthdays and chat to catch up and see how we’re both doing. But just last year in September, we ...

How do I work on this trust issue and two, should I be with someone who is a diamond in the rough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2372 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - Hi all, After years of not feeling much for the opposite sex after a long, miserable marriage, someone I met as a child courted me for a few months before I agreed to meet up. I was almost convinced I'd never fall in love again It was an instant,...

My 16 year old daughter wants to spend time with these older men! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2371 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - My 16 year old daughter has recently made some new friends. At first I let them come round to our house only. My issue is they are in their late 20's. They talk about music as my daughter plays guitar. But now she has been wanting to go see their ...

He ended our friendship because I loved him as a friend only. He sent me a message yesterday after 3 months. Do I reply?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2373 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - Me and my ex guy friend have been friends for years. He started to have feelings for me and he did confess to me that he wants to be more than friends. However, i don't see us being together and i dont share the same feelings with him. I rejected ...

How to tell my best friend I am transgender

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2376 days ago

12 May 2018 (M) - dear cupid i have to tell my best friend that i am transgender but he is not good with change and i don't know how i should tell him as not to like freak him out about this big change ...

I'm pregnant and my husband is talking to a woman. Its making me sick

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2348 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - I just found out my husband chat with his friend. He said he is a changes man now, not going to dark places anymore since he get to know a woman in the past. She adviced and changed him. I know he isnt talking about me. We have been dating for ...

My ex is hanging around me and my new boyfriend and its causing problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2374 days ago

11 May 2018 (F) - Hello there! I wanted to ask advice about the current situation I'm in. A couple of months ago, I broke up with my ex, whom I'll refer to as M. We had gone out for a while. but during the relationship, M didn't spend any time with me, always chose ...

He’s been giving me gifts and I don’t know how to deal with this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2377 days ago

9 May 2018 (F) - I have a guy who I started chatting on Instagram ( just innocent ) anyway we chatted back and forth for weeks and he asked to meet for a coffee somewhere so I did, he is a nice guy but not my type, we get on as friends, anyway after out coffee he ...

Afraid to commit

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8 May 2018 (M) - Hello all, Im not quite sure why but I had a little urge to write something about a great fear of commitment that I used to experience, in case maybe it can help someone who is going through similar or has their own story to share. This is a...

Insensitive, rude, pushy student is getting me in trouble for not wanting to be his friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2378 days ago

8 May 2018 (F) - I have a problem where something that happened in my personal life has spilled over into work-study (at college) and it's gotten me into trouble. I'm especially in trouble because I refuse to apologize and kiss the butt of the person I really don't ...

I’ve given up drinking! How do I tell my friend before his bachelor party?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2381 days ago

6 May 2018 (M) - When I was in my early 20s and mid 20s, I was a heavy drinker. I would not considered myself an alcoholic but I was a drunk. After a really bad experience about six years ago (I was lucky I did not die from alcohol poisoning), I decided that I ...

Why did our date not work out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2382 days ago

5 May 2018 (F) - A few weeks ago I went on a date with this guy. He wanted to take me out for about 3-4 years and I was always so uninterested. He grew up to be a nice gentleman. During our date he was super funny, and sweet. We had a lot in common and we talked ...

Partner of 5 years lied about a 'friendship and now I feel like I'm blowing things out of proportion

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2382 days ago

5 May 2018 (F) - Hi agony aunts and uncles. I've been a long time reader and love seeing your advice and views. I never once dreamed I'd be writing in and asking for advice. So where to begin. It's currently 2.30 am where I am and this has just happened in the ...

My friends have slowly disappeared

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2379 days ago

4 May 2018 (F) - I guess this would go under the category of friendships and mean girls? Idk but I need advice. I’ve found every so often a girlfriend (whom I actually really cared for and enjoyed) would slowly disappear. I never saw it coming either. Mostly t...

I don't want to throw 5 years down the pan but I don't know what else to do. Can you offer any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2374 days ago

3 May 2018 (F) - Hi, I'm facing a bit of a crossroads in my life and I'm hoping you guys can help me as you've helped me so many times before. I've been with my BF for 5 and a half years. On our 5 year anniversary he proposed and I said yes. We've talked abo...

Is it wrong to date someone just for fun?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2380 days ago

3 May 2018 (M) - So here’s my story. I’ve always kind of been a sap for relationships and I tend to over think things. I’m an ENFP and I’m kind of at a cross road in my life. I’ve never really liked to just jump into relationships with people or dating. I don’t feel ...

I’m 19, nearly 20, and my parents object to me dating anyone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2379 days ago

2 May 2018 (F) - Awhile ago, I posted a question and well another issue has arisen. I'm a 19 year old trying to get my parents to start letting go now as in loosening their grip on me a little. I know for a fact that I really started growing up since I was 15 y...

She sounded cold and short, should I ask her if she is married before I ask her for a date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2386 days ago

2 May 2018 (M) - Dear Cupid I would like your advice, I am a divorced man that tried to make it work with my wife but it didnt work..after so many years we seperated and divorced got finalized last year. I am ready to start dating and I found my first love on ...