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anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid I would like your advice, I am a divorced man that tried to make it work with my wife but it didnt work..after so many years we seperated and divorced got finalized last year. I am ready to start dating and I found my first love on facebook I scrolled through her pictures and find her so beautiful that my heart beat for her I felt excited to see how beautiful she has grown to be....I didnt see if she was married or not so I found the courage and waved at her...she didnt reply so I said Hey...she finanly replied with a Yes....I asked her if she remembers me...she said yes and asked me why i was messaging her....I didnt have the cpurage to ask her personal questions...I froze and just said I just wanted to say hi and see how is she doing....now hete is my question...she sounded cold and shirt on the message...should I just ask her her relationship status and see if she is single maybe we can go out on a date...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2018): Um, short and curt responses mean people don't want to be bothered. She even asked you why you contacted her; to let you know that she doesn't have a reason to want to hear from you.
Leave her alone. Get a hold on your emotions. Don't idolize or place women up on a pedestal based on their beauty. Flowery speeches, sweet-talk, and pouring on the charm will not make any difference. It will only annoy her, and embarrass you.
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reader, N91  +, writes (2 May 2018):
 I think if she was happy to receive your message you would of received a much warmer response.
I don’t think she’s interested.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 May 2018):
 I think you should just leave her alone, OP
She isn't interested.
If you want to look for women to date, trolling through old flames may not be the smartest move.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2018): I suggest you move on and look around maybe someone new is a better suite sounds as she is not interested in you any more
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (2 May 2018):
 I think the fact she asked why you were messaging her, and that she was cold and short suggests that she isn't open to having conversations with you, let alone a date.
She's not interested, and I suggest you move on by.
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