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Archived questions from: October, 2017 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Should we end our friendship? We will never have our parent's blessing

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

31 October 2017 (M) - I like her and she likes me. We talk everyday. She checks all the boxes for wife material in my book. We are currently only friends and whenever we slip into flirting one of us pull back. We're of different religions. We will never have our ...

I suffer from social anxiety and it bothers me that he leaves me alone with his mother!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

29 October 2017 (F) - I am in the best relationship I have been in, but there is one little issue... My boyfriend is 24 (I am 22). He is German and I often travel to Germany to be with him, usually staying 1-3 months at a time. The rest of the time I travel a lot for...

Why did he say he was disappointed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

29 October 2017 (M) - I played a little joke on a sort of friend, who I deep down fancy, but haven’t told him.. On a hook up app their profile popped up so I messaged them sent them a few funny pics of people, told them I know them and that to find out who I am they hav...

How do I tell my online guy friend that I won't be able to keep talking to him every night when I move in with my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

27 October 2017 (F) - So to give you a little bit of context - I've been talking with this guy over the phone for a little over a year (we met online) - Let's call him James. He lives in the US and I am in Canada. We used to talk dirty to each other over the phone during ...

How do I end a FWB relationship and just be friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

27 October 2017 (F) - How do I end a friends with benefits thing? I'm 18 and he's 21 and we were friends for about a year and a half before we started sleeping together basically, and he took my virginity. There was a point before we had sex where I thought I had ...

I want to help my friend but how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2620 days ago

26 October 2017 (F) - I’m in a bit of a pickle, dear Aunts and Uncles! I wish I could tell a friend of mine something that very much concerns her, but I’m afraid it may really hurt her and maybe force her to do something she otherwise wouldn’t. I know that she has pro...

Was he trying to deceive me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

24 October 2017 (F) - Was he trying to deceive me? There are two aspects to an action. What was the intention behind something (the mental part) and what action was taken/not taken (the physical part). What is bugging me on an issue is what was the intention behind...

I'd like to help them save their marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

24 October 2017 (F) - Oh boy. I have two friends that have been married for ten years. The husband has been having an affair off and on for three years with a chick he refused to ever completely sever ties with. The wife has taken off with other guys during their splits ...

Her attitude is confusing. Should I cut her off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

22 October 2017 (F) - Just looking for advice regarding my friend as I'm honestly confused. I have this friend I met through university (a guy) and he has a friend we are both kind of friends with (she's a girl). Anyway my problem is sometimes this girl acts like...

The guy I'm seeing is always getting mad at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

21 October 2017 (F) - The guy I'm seeing is always getting mad at me? We have an odd relationship, we say we love each other all the time. He says he's not ready to date (we've been in a like-dating stage for 3 years). I have fallen in love with him. But I feel like I'm ...

A year after my break up I still haven't been on a date and no one has shown any real interest in me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2626 days ago

20 October 2017 (F) - I'm 22 and the only relationship I have ever been In lasted 3 years before he came out gay. It was a very complicated break up with a lot of mixed feelings and we would still spend time together and end up sleeping together for around a year ...

Why did she keep that key ring for so long?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2626 days ago

20 October 2017 (F) - I have a friend who flirts with me all the time.We used to have a great friendship until one day I heard her saying I'm annoyed.We had an argument and have each other cold shoulders.However,recently I wrote a letter to her saying that I really don't ...

My husband's coworker made some very odd comments and I'm wondering if there is something going on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - Recently on a ride home my husbands coworker needed a ride home. While we were driving his coworker begin to flirt with my husband, He repeatedly said how much he liked my husband, saying my husband was one of a kind. How he had never met anyone ...

Do mixed signals just mean he's not interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - There's a guy in my graduate program who is very handsome. I knew him previously from a class during undergrad as well. He is also a gentleman and very kind to everyone he comes by. He's naturally friendly, social, and sweet. He says and does things ...

Why would my guy friend joke about marrying me? Does it mean anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - This isn't the first time this guy has joked about us and marriage, but this just happened recently. I was over a friend's house, it was 4 of us. 2 guys and 2 girls (myself included). I said to Guy A: Heyy you need to find me a Caribbean husban...

My guy friend denies being in a relationship and lied about becoming a father

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

17 October 2017 (?) - Hi everyone, so this situation is going to sound kind of crazy. There's this guy who I've been friends with for about 2 years. At this point, we spend a lot of time together, keep in contact on a daily basis, and share a lot of personal information ...

He's getting back together with his ex but doesn't want to lose my friendship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

17 October 2017 (F) - I met a guy on-line. We dated for about 3 months and became intimate. He recently announced that he has been talking to his ex girlfriend and they have decided to try it again but he does not want to lose my friendship. He wants to meet with me....

Is it a good sign that he told her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

15 October 2017 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I wanted to know what your opinion was on this. My new boyfriend of a month has a huge circle of friends and he's pretty well loved by people as the "nice" guy/good guy. Yesterday he told me he spoke to this girl and told her...

My friend was in town and didn't tell me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

15 October 2017 (F) - A few months after a bad breakup, I reached out to my high school prom date who I'd always had a crush on. I suspected it may be mutual. We began talking and flirting regularly. He visited me once and I visited him once, as we live several hou...

My 'best friend' isn't much of a friend at all

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

14 October 2017 (F) - I have had a friend for about 30 years. We met as small children and have been "best friends" since. She has actually been fake and shady toward me since childhood. She would treat me differently depending on who was around. I was not strong ...

He has kept in touch, but I thought he only wanted sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2635 days ago

12 October 2017 (F) - Hi there! So i went on a date a few months ago with a lovely giy who i knew from primary school who just happens to now have his own tv series. We went out for a drink, had a lovely time. Then the next week he drove 3 hours to see his father (...

It was going great and now she has stopped responding ... I guess its over!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

11 October 2017 (M) - Hello everyone! A few months ago I started exchanging Facebook messages with a girl I knew in high school about ten years ago. I'm 30 and she's 29. Things went really well and she agreed to meet up as soon as we could (she was moving back to h...

Do any girls here go to bars alone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

11 October 2017 (F) - I have been on my own for a long time now. It has been bothering me for a while but it has only become a problem recently. I don't have particularly great coping skills and the feelings of loneliness have become overwhelming. I really need to make ...

I think my straight friends has feelings for me. What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

10 October 2017 (M) - my straight friend is giving weired signals and i am really confused regarding 6 months back i went to a shop where i met this guy for the 1st time and almost on my 2nd or 3rd visit we became friends. In another 1 months we became good frie...

I feel like I was second servings!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2637 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - Okay i really dont know what to do in this situation. So my freind is friends with this guy and they are just friends nothing more. So one day he spent the night at our apartment and I ended up having sex with him. I felt weird about sleeping with ...

How soon is too soon to ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2638 days ago

9 October 2017 (M) - Ok I use to give this girl a lift to work and we got on really well and have so much in common. 2 weeks ago she split up with her boyfriend and has moved so I longer have to give her a lift. At work we have been speaking a lot more since she has ...

Its bothering me that my g/f shows more interest in my friend than me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2635 days ago

8 October 2017 (M) - Something is really bugging me. My gf has been really stressed over last few days over little things and it can lead to argument. This isn’t serious because we both know it’s no ones fault. For example if we are going out she is throwing clothes, ...

A years long troubled friendship has turned into a family obligatory relationship. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2634 days ago

8 October 2017 (F) - Hi! I'd very much appreciate some perspective on a friendship I've had since childhood. Is it really a friendship, or an inherited relationship? Am I overreacting after 30 years, or have I been to patient and accommodating? Our parents were bes...

Is he into me, I like him a lot!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

8 October 2017 (F) - Is he into me or not ? I really like a guy but I’m not sure about his actions. We have never had a conversation and I don’t even know his name. I wanted to initiate but he rarely shows up at the class so I stopped thinking about it but one of my...

How do you treat a friend who doesn't act like one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

7 October 2017 (M) - Since last year May I started hanging out with two new friends, Jennifer and Jackie. I knew Jackie since late-high school but we virtually never spoke. At the time, I was good friends with her best friend, Nancy, and they're still best friends ...

Should I suggest to my ex she seek professional help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

6 October 2017 (M) - I recently went through a bad breakup with a woman I thought was the one. Even though she did it in a cold hearted way I still care deeply for her and have been told that she loves me just not like I love her. The relationship is in the past so I'm ...

My boyfriend keeps asking to meet my former best friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

2 October 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 16 months. We met through a social group in which we both joined around the same time, and that group is my main circle of friends. I do not keep in touch regularly with anyone else. I have friends whom I call ...

What's with his constant stares?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

1 October 2017 (F) - My husbands friend will always glance and stare at me and I know it doesn't always mean attraction or something just because someone stares but I'm just getting some kind of weird vibe. He always looks straight into my eyes, even when we aren't t...