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writes: Two of my good friends are going out. I have known him for 6 or more years, and I've known her for 4 years. She's 15 and in my year at school, he is 18 and is in his last year. Well she has been spending all of her time with him and not our little group. She lies to us and ditches us for him. She wouldn't know him if it wasn't for me and she has never onced thanked me. I really don't know what to do. I have tried to tell her before but se always cries so that has stopped me from talking to her about.Please help me, I really don't know what to doThanks. Xx.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 January 2010):
Same thing. She's still on cloud nine. Have patience with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not really looking for her to thank me. I think the title was far from what I ment. I just want her to spend time with our group and stop lieing to us
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 January 2010):
Don't look for a thank you. You won't get one. She's on cloud nine with this guy, and I'm afraid sometimes this happens. Just be a good friend to her, and don't take it personally, because I don't think she means it.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (14 January 2010):
She's just caught up in the moment of it all and I'm sure she is thankful or will be when she stops to think about it. It would be best to not expect a thank you, just know that you did a good thing. One day she could be telling stories of how they met with you starting them off otherwise try to just be happy for them and proud of yourself so nothing has to be said.
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