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writes: I fallin in love with my boyfriend's mate. I cant stop thinking about him. the relationship is new and am his first girlfriend. I need help like badly. what should a do? dump my boyfriend for his mate or forever dream about his mate? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 January 2010):
You stand to lose them both. But maybe that's for the best. I think if you're feeling this way, it's best to end it now with your boyfriend and move on from both guys. Chances are his best friend will stand by his friend rather than go out with you. Move on from both guys.
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reader, confusedlady182 +, writes (15 January 2010):
You wont forever dream about him it will be ok in a while either way! If you really want to go for it you should leave your boyfriend and then call him or whichever but he might stand by his friend anyway and not want to go for it. I would work out though if you want to be with the guy you are with anyway. Plus crushes are more powerful when the guy is a bit unobtainable you find out more things as a girlfriend and that is more real.
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