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*orraine ginger
writes: i was with my fella for over 3 months and we have known each other since we were 13, we got on like a house on fire, no disagreements nothing bad, he has had 2 bad relationships and he had to do as he was told all the time and had arguements 24 7 with them , but ours was different we were spot on always laughing and there was no pressure for him at all, than out of the blue he has ended it saying he cant do it anymore cause of working a month on nights and with his headaches he has 24 7, i have told him i will wait for him as he has always said he has waited for 27 years for me. please help me sort this out as i dont know what to do, i have not spoke to him since new years eve, his family say i am the first women they have liked and are shocked at what he ahs done
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (14 January 2010):
WOW thats messed up yo, i think i kno how you feel though, 3 months down the drain, It really just makes you wonder how people can do things like that get you all caring about them then bam. I think its the devil he sent you this assasin got you all worked up and look what hes doing, i suggest praying if you do that kinda thing and move on its life i guess just the way it works. kinda sad though
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 January 2010):
To be honest, it just sounds like there is a lot going on in his head that has just left him all over the place. All you can do is try to move forward with your own life. Sometimes people have to do things that make no sense to anyone else. This is one of those times. For whatever reason, he has had to go out into the world by himself. It doesn't' reflect you at all, as his family have said it's something they never saw coming. He has to sort out his own life, and you need to move forward with yours.
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