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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

How to fix my trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - hey I have a problem and I don't know how to fix it. I don't trust anyone, not my friends, not my reatives... like, I wouldn't put it past anyone to sell me out or anything. Any time I like a guy and it's going well I tend to sabotage it beor...

Does he act like he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I like this guy at school. We are both in the band. I like him alot. My friends say he likes me to but idk. He stares at me ALL the time. At a football game about a month ago he told me i was pretty, but he has NEVER talked 2 me since. When he sees ...

Is there any point...???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Ok, here it goes; I've known this guy now for nearly 2 months and at first we're getting on well and then suddenly he turns odd. I do like him and feel he will ask me out but now he's confusing me by giving these mixed signals! It's highly ...

Help! Why did he change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I am a 21 year old woman and have worked with a man who is the same age as me for around a year and recently we have become good friends. Around 4 months ago we shared a kiss but because we were both drunk I put it mostly down to the alcohol. ...

I really like her but have trouble starting a conversation with her... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - I have a friend in my sociology class who I just recently started talking to, I really like talking to her and I like her a lot but more than just a good friend. I have feelings for her but haven't said anything. I am a junior and she is a senior, ...

How can I get rid of these lack of trust and anxiety issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hi guys :) I've been going out with this great guy for over two months and I really really like him. I've been in horrible relationships prior to this and unfortunately these have left me with bad trust issues and anxiety. I can't seem to enjoy th...

Torn on the inside...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Okay, I don't know, I'm just confused... the guy i like has a girlfriend - that doesn't bother me because he goes through a lot of girls really quickly... I like him even though I should not because the relationship would only be a disaster. I tend ...

Do you think he is just taking things slow or is he seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I met this guy about a lil over a month ago we have hung out eight times overnight at his house. He is a very busy guy with work mon thru fri and is training for mma fighter. He has a set routine all week and on the weekends is when he sees his ...

She let ME down... so why do I feel I have to make amends with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hi Guys A few months ago I confessed feelings I had for a female friend. Initially, she accepted it and was pretty cool about it. I thought our "friendship" would survive, and she reassured me I could trust her. So I did, and of course, she let ...

What to do?? I am I being too possesive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hello, Am i being too posessive? i was with my boyfriend and he got a text of this random number, that hadn't been saved on his phone. when i asked who it was, he replied, " i don't know it's been texting me all week".so i started to text the number ...

Is there anything I can do to win her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - Three months ago I took a trip to my hometown of Palm Springs California. I moved away four years ago and I had to leave in my senior year in high-school and moved to Bakersfield California finishing my senior year at Liberty High School. Back when ...

What do I do to get it into his head that I do not want to get into a relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - theres this guy, call him David, i had got to know him during this camp thing from our school which was for 11 days in june last year. we had got pretty close and after we got back, he asked me out sometime near end of august. after eight days i had ...

Does she think she is not worthy of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - my ex gf cheated on me and then broke up with me the next day. She didnt tell me til about a month later and said that was the reason she broke up with me. She said she felt guilty. I forgave her and we remained friends. We even discussed hangin out ...

Is being a close friend a turnoff?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I dont understand people sometimes they say they wont go out with someone because they see them as a close friend. But people usually say to have a good relationship friendship should be there. I dont understand why being a close friend is a turn ...

My boyfriend's friends make fun of me for my beliefs and he always takes their side!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - My bf's friends put me down for my Christian values and beliefs. They always make fun of me and put me down. My bf doesnt say anything to them. He lets them get away with it. In fact, he basically defends them and takes their side!!! He says ...

Is it normal to have feelings for a same sex friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - i am a girl and i have had feelings towards my bestfriend for about a year, she is also a girl, i told my other friend who told her about my feelings, now it is awqward and she is really against lesbians, i feel sickened with my self at it and im ...

Now I am single my married friends have cooled on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I am in my forties and have gone through a divorce. I have female friends both married and single. Since I am newly single some of my married friends have cooled on me. Not sure why. Any thoughts?...

I only want friendship. Am I doomed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - ARGH!! Hi Aunts, Why is it (nearly?) impossible to have JUST a friendly relationship with someone of the opposite sex!? I've been hanging out heaps with my best mate, playing video games and just chilling out, and just the other night he kissed ...

...but should I stay with him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - ok so ive been dating this guy for like a month and a couple days now and i think i really like him but like im not sure and usually wen i go over to his house his best friend is over there and me and my boyfriend got into an argument because ...

How can I tell my friend of 7 years that I like him as more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hello! I just recently got out of a relationship that lasted for 2 years and we lived together, so pretty serious, but it didn't work out for us. We mutually decided to break up although I was the one who brought it up because I started to like one ...