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writes:Ok, here it goes; I've known this guy now for nearly 2 months and at first we're getting on well and then suddenly he turns odd. I do like him and feel he will ask me out but now he's confusing me by giving these mixed signals! It's highly frustrating and I have considered making the first move but I do value his friendship and don't want to muck that up. I don't want to know whether I should make the first move I want to know if there's any point? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. I'll try that. It's going to be difficult though. He's got loads of female friends (they're all in relationships) and they're always with him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 October 2009):
Yes, I understand that a few minutes isn't exactly long enough to explain everything. Why don't you ask him to meet you privately later when you do have the few minutes?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI realy need to try and get him alone- usually only have a matter of minutes before someone else joins us. That's not enough time to be honest! And the rest of the day i hardly see him except in lectures.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 October 2009):
I bet you'll find that he's as confused as you. Two months and neither has made a move to take it further. Perhaps he feels the same way. Maybe he wants to take it further, but doesn't have a clue how you will responsd. Guys aren't great at seeing all those subtle hints and listening to those subtle words. We need direct statements I'm afraid. There really is only one way to find out if he'd like to take it further, and that is to be very brave and talk to him. There is a point, because it would be sad if neither of you said anyting, and it turned out you both really fancied each other. So be brave and talk to him. See what happens.
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