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anonymous
writes:Hi GuysA few months ago I confessed feelings I had for a female friend. Initially, she accepted it and was pretty cool about it. I thought our "friendship" would survive, and she reassured me I could trust her. So I did, and of course, she let me down very shortly after telling her. It hurt to have no choice in the matter - I had to walk away because she said she could no longer be a part of this. I accepted that, and if she didn't put herself first, who would, right?But the problem is I'm trying to move on and I'm struggling. I want to call her. I want to leave things on better terms. But I also see that she's obviously not worth it... She's the one who let me down... So why do I feel that I have to make amends with her?I don't know what to do. I miss her, and it really gets me down that we are no longer friends.Any advice or help would be really appreciated...Thanks you guys xx
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 October 2009):
I think it's more likely that you're still hoping she'll suddenly fall for you if you appear as if you're intersted. It's very sad that it's ended this way, but don't wait around and linger in the hope she'll get in contact. Make sure you're soclializing with friends, don't just sit by the phone all day. It will take you time to get over her, you just need to give it time, let yourself heal and when you're ready, you'll find a great woman who will love you. Give it time, and don't contact her.
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