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writes:I have a friend in my sociology class who I just recently started talking to, I really like talking to her and I like her a lot but more than just a good friend. I have feelings for her but haven't said anything. I am a junior and she is a senior, I don't know if she has a boyfriend.I have a little trouble starting a conversation like after class before the bell she may just be sitting there and I don't know how to start talking if she says something to me I'm fine and we could talk all class, I really think she is amazing and would like to say something about how I feel but I'm worried she will see my intentions differently than before I said something.I feel like I need more detail so I will be glad to answer specific questions about the situation.
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reader, huggs +, writes (1 January 2010):
huggs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so update
this got really far from the beginning of the question over our winter break we went to a restaurant for lunch she picked me up and we talked for about three hours in the restaurant and she drove me home we talked about all kinds of stuff from our holidays ,Christmas and such to religion to her stance on relationships she isn't dating anyone right now but doesn't plan to she said she wanted to get some things in he life straightened out first she didn't seem terribly inclined to share them so i didn't press. don't get me wring though i was very happy just to be there with her i kind of hinted at my feelings but i don't know is she caught it because it was kind far fetched great confidence boost though she said one of the main reasons she agreed to see me outside of school was my sheer guts in asking her outright to see her outside of school
so really all i'm saying here is how well it worked out thanks to the wonderful advice given but i'm not sure what all this means but i think it is better suited for another question
thanks again Gian ?
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reader, huggs +, writes (9 December 2009):
huggs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok i did something like what you suggested but i'm pretty sure it didn't come out how i intended it nor was it interpreted as intendedthat same day i got an H1N1 vaccination and I'm afraid of needles so that wasn't fun i wasn't eager to leave class so she said just think of me and smiled real big so i left and they gave me the nasal vaccine then i got assigned to read an essay I'm also not keen on public speaking so i figured i would go for broke and ask her out that day so as she was leaving she gave me a high five as she does alot and so i grabbed her hand and beckoned her back i said i would like to get to know her outside of school that doesn't necessarily mean a date she said she would like to do something over winter break and would give me her number next class the semester ends in a about 2 weeks and thus so does this class so it will be nice to figure this out soon if i have her number i suppose i can ask her later but I'm new to all this so I'm kinda nervousalso something else how do i ask her out to somewhere if i can't drive without a licensed driver in the car over 21 there is a mall i can walk to it has a movie theater and restaurantsso i don't really know how this effects my situation but advice would be welcomed also Ginalolabridga thanks again she said yes to seeing me outside of school so everything has worked so far
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reader, huggs +, writes (30 November 2009):
huggs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so she is single i have been talking to her for a while how do i let her know how i feel or ask her out or should i even say anything yet if so how also should i ask this as a separate question? basically what do i do from here
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reader, huggs +, writes (29 October 2009):
huggs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very much Gina
i have talked to her some she wants to travel has plans to go to Australia but is afraid to plan to much and pass up a trip to Africa. she is more of an English and social studies person likes good literature well good by my standards very good at writing she works at a bakery but i can't recall the name i don't know that many personal details though and i think your right for now she doesn't need to hear my feelings just yet
though the problem isn't knowing what to say it might be just having the courage to start saying something because she is much more mature then many many of my peers and is fun to talk to and gets literary humor like puns
anyway thanks again and sorry for the wordy response
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