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writes:im friends with a guy at work and because hes new ive been helping him a lot with the paperwork etc so he calls me a lot.im probably being paranoid but the last two nights ive been on the phone to him for at least 2 hours. the weird thing is i find him very easy to talk to and he is a really nice person-however i have come out of a horrendous relationship and am very fragile right now. hes had a breakup aswell but is already dating again--this is why im worried-i have to say theres loads of electricity there when we talk and we do get on amazingly well together but im not a horrible person so dont want to cause any problems.also im concerned about a lot of the stuff he says-hes very boastful about stuff and i know that some of it is bravado but i dont let on. god what shall i do-im worried i cant trust him but i really like him and would love to have him as a good friend but i do like him aswell but will never tell him because of his situation. what would you advise ?
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reader, tjazzy  +, writes (18 December 2009):
Chill a bit. Don't go after him. If he's actually interested he'll come after you by himself.
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reader, DeadEyeDick  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 Don't dip your pen in company ink!!! Ive seen one relationship in the 20 years of working, work out! people get into relationships at work, naturally, your around someone of the opposite(or same?)sex, all day everyday, if your 2 people looking, your eventually going to find what you want in your flirtation, then the chemicals kick in, eventually your gonna hook up, then your going to feel really aykward, if one of you is management, and fellow employees catch wind, then all sorts of sht could go down, best thing to do, is either quit and date him, fire him then date him, or cut it off right now! nothing goods going to come out of this!
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