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Family: Help and advice

How can I help my niece?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1269 days ago

29 May 2021 (F) - My question is a sad one and I find there are many people here from all walks of life who have good insight. My problem concerns both my niece who is 32 and also her parents. Her dad is my brother. He is no longer with my nieces mother and has r...

My sister broke up with her boyfriend for a new guy and now I don't want to talk to her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1269 days ago

28 May 2021 (F) - My sister 33 left her bf of 6 years in December. She didn't tell me they were having problems until after the breakup. Then she suddenly met someone else and was saying how happy she is. Her ex did so much for her so I stopped talking to her after ...

My father hired a private investigator and is convinced I'm gay and having an affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1271 days ago

27 May 2021 (M) - My wife told me she'd received an angry phone call from my dad at 8am yesterday accusing me of cheating and having a gay relationship, and she doesn't believe a word of it. Apparently dad had hired a private investigator to follow me because he'd ...

Does aomeone have any suggestions as to how to help my sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1270 days ago

25 May 2021 (F) - Does aomeone have any suggestions as to how to help my sister? I would appreciate it. My sister is in the process of divorce from her husband because she found out he sheeted on her for about 10 years with many differentt women They been ...

My boyfriend is 30 years old and his parents are too controlling

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1271 days ago

24 May 2021 (F) - So my boyfriend and I were going to use his family’s motor home for the weekend. His mom learned I was not getting the covid vaccine and told my boyfriends dad his dad then stated I couldn’t be in his motor home his house or his cabin. I was upset ...

Let him be a real Dad to our daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1272 days ago

24 May 2021 (F) - Hi all, I have a daughter with an ex boyfriend, our daughter was fostered by my cousin. Our daughter is eleven this month, she is fully aware of who her real parents are and speaks to us regularly. Since about six months old her foster parents have ...

Are my parents right to take such drastic action to stop me drinking underage ?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1273 days ago

23 May 2021 (F) - are my parents right to take such drastic action to stop me drinking alcohol underage ? in the past couple of weeks i have been coming home drunk ( NOT ON SCHOOL NIGHTS )my parents said they are worried and unless i stop drinking they will have to ...

I'm losing trust in my family. Everything is left up to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1274 days ago

23 May 2021 (M) - I am 55 and look after 2 disabled parents and sister. I always feel like i am not doing enough. Brothers do help but everything is organised and does not always work. Like Monday to Friday i do whatever i need too for my parents. Have no family of ...

My son received inappropriate photos from a classmate. How to proceed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1276 days ago

20 May 2021 (M) - My son, John, who's 16, told me yesterday he received two inappropriate photos from a classmate. Here in Canada, schools in our area are doing remote learning. We don't know when in-person classes will resume. My son showed me a WhatsApp he...

Wife has a day planned with her friends that I want no part of

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1279 days ago

19 May 2021 (M) - My wife is planning a big family day out in the next few weeks with all of her friends and our/their kids but I really don’t want to go. I can tell she’ll give me grief if I tell her though because it’ll be our first proper day out since the end of ...

Husband of 8 years just confessed he has a 12 year old daughter he didn't tell me about

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1278 days ago

18 May 2021 (F) - Note: I've changed names for privacy here. I've got a husband and a 7-year-old daughter. Last night my husband told me over dinner that he had a huge confession; he had a daughter, but left his girlfriend Kimberley and his daughter when ...

Covid causing problems in me being able to see my family. I don't know how to proceed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1279 days ago

18 May 2021 (F) - I split with mu husband three years ago after 20 years of marriage, i heard he had an affair with his boss, he denied this but I heard him put his hand on the bible and say God forgive me, so im unsure about that. I went back to live with my mum and ...

Is my dad really that wrong for not wanting to use Zoom and to retain an email trail for future reference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1282 days ago

16 May 2021 (F) - I've been living with my mom and dad since February 2020, when my relationship of 4 years ended due to my then-partner quitting for a job in the US. He had US citizenship from birth, I obviously couldn't move as I'm a Canadian with no dual ...

Is my husband weird or is it just me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1284 days ago

15 May 2021 (F) - Is there something (seriously) wrong with my husband or are the circumstances weird? Due to some financial difficulties my mother-in-law moved to my apartment over a decade ago. My husband and I live in another country. When she moved in, I...

My 17 year old song met up and had sex with a male prostitute. We don't know how to handle this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1285 days ago

13 May 2021 (M) - My son, Carl, is 17, and told me a few days ago he had a confession; he'd slept with a male prostitute a year ago (in February), not long after his birthday. He admitted he'd paid the guy $250 (well, technically it was two payments of $125...

My fiance expects me to help his mother financially. I don't want this to continue

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1280 days ago

13 May 2021 (F) - Hello and thanks! So my fiancee and I have been together for 4 years. He expects that I help his mom monthly. She is always needing something. bill's, food, clothes this that. I seen a recent picture of her with nice gold earrings and a t...

Three years have went by without speaking to our mother. Do we try to reconnect? Or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1285 days ago

12 May 2021 (F) - Three years ago my sister and I had a talk with our mum that has left us not speaking to her since then. She is with a partner who is emotional abusive and I suspect has the capacity to be physically abusive too. There has been instances throug...

Should I try to pressure Jack into going to prom so he won't regret it later or just let him and his friends do their thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1271 days ago

9 May 2021 (F) - My youngest son, Jack, is graduating from high school this year. He is refusing to go to prom. Instead, him and a group of friends are just meet up and do their own thing (they are talking about going bowling, than having a pool party at their ...

Blatant favoritism in my boyfriend's family and I'm fed up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1290 days ago

5 May 2021 (F) - Hey there, Thanks in advance for your responses. My boyfriend rents a space on a close family member's property. Due to some unfortunate events, the second space on the property is opening up soon for rent. It's nice, much better maintaine...

My daughter wants to go to college where all her friends are going. I'm worried she's not going there for the right reasons

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1295 days ago

1 May 2021 (F) - Hello, I’m a single mother of an 18 year old. I’ve been raising her and my younger son (her biological brother) for the past 12 years. My daughter will be starting College next year. She was accepted into several Universities, one of which is her ...