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Archived questions from: December, 2021 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Is my brother in law using my sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1090 days ago

27 December 2021 (F) - Am I crazy to think my brother in law is using my sister? She helped him obtain residency papers, start a new career which led to a 50 percent salary increase yet he didn’t get her anything for Christmas? She was so upset. I didn’t know what to say ...

Guilt over avoiding depressed people

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1090 days ago

24 December 2021 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts/uncles, forgive me if I seem judgemental. I grew up with a depressed mother and a father who was avoidant and often would ignore my mother's contacts and according to her had some affairs. This would make her an anxious mess. We as ...

Why would someone make a deep fake of my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1094 days ago

18 December 2021 (F) - My cousin sent me a link to a Facebook group she visits a lot, about things in the local area in her town, which is about 40 minutes drive from us. The link she sent me was a video of my husband cuddling another woman, who was wearing a bright...

How do I handle my controlling sister in law without damaging relationships?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1097 days ago

17 December 2021 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost seven years and together for almost 11. I've always had a good relationship with my in-laws...BUT. I have also always felt like I've had to tiptoe around his only sibling (a sister who is a year older ...

My mother ruined my wedding day

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1097 days ago

16 December 2021 (F) - I have a controlling mother- she’s always been like it and ive just spent my whole life accepting it. She has no boundaries and interferes all the time. I got married 3 years ago and did so many things that upset me and like an idiot I...

My sister is getting married. Should I move out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1102 days ago

14 December 2021 (F) - Should I move out or not? I tried moving out twice this year but cancelled because I was too terrified. The reason why I wanted to move out both times is because I felt extremely stressed at home all the time. All I wanted was some peace. ...

My husband has just left me for another woman, and insists our kids meet her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1102 days ago

13 December 2021 (F) - I'm 38, been married to my husband, 39 for 12 years, we've been together for 14 years as a couple. We have two 11-year-old girls, Katie and Angie, identical twins. I (well, it was we a month ago until my husband moved out) live in Adams Morgan,...

I feel used by my mother

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1101 days ago

13 December 2021 (F) - I left an abusive relationship a few years ago. I had to return my car because I couldn’t afford it. My mother gave away my dog while I was at work starting a new job. She claimed the dog tried to bite her. I had the dog for 6 years and she never ...

I am in love with my sister

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1100 days ago

12 December 2021 (M) - Hi, please can I get advise, first no I’m not a troll, I’m genuinely after advise so if your not going to take me serious then don’t comment! I’m 33yo and I’m in love with my 38yo sister and have been for about 18 years, I’ve had serious relation...

Should I go to husbands family for Xmas after racial incident?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1104 days ago

11 December 2021 (F) - My husband's family makes a huge deal out of christmas, huge dinner, tons of gifts, etc. Whenever we are there, we do all the dishes for a family of 6, and when guests come over we do all the dishes for a family of 15. Also, I clean up after all the ...

I am worried about my sister having an affair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1105 days ago

10 December 2021 (F) - I have a sister who's 28, she lives alone in a flat, legally she's classified as a vulnerable adult due to having autism spectrum disorder, and has a support worker (not sure if she still does due to the pandemic). She's lived alone for 4 years now, ...

Is it normal to cry over not being able to do your routine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1094 days ago

10 December 2021 (M) - Is it normal to cry over not being able to do my routine? Very unusual for me, I live with parents but I have a very busy schedule with work etc. I specially took a day off so I could sort my room and myself which means extra time spent on me...

Husband won't let me forget that I cheated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1104 days ago

10 December 2021 (F) - I need advice. I have been in a relationship for 17 years, married for 8. I got pregnant a year after dating and moved in with him at 5 months pregnant. He was always the one to go out with friends, get drunk and stay out late. I stayed home while ...

How would you deal with this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1109 days ago

5 December 2021 (M) - I have been engaged to my fiance since August 2019 and our wedding's delayed due to COVID-19. Been together since 2014. My dad normally hasn't had a problem with him, but now he's had a problem with both me and him, and claims my fiance is mental...

My father in law is a narcissist and my husband doesn't see it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1102 days ago

4 December 2021 (F) - I've been in a relationship for about 6 years. We have 4 kids together. We're not married. I've decided I'm never going to marry him. I'd never take his name. So our relationship has its ups and downs, but for the last year it was going well. ...