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Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I get my needs met online and my husband uses porn.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - I feel justified in getting feedback online from Men about my body to get my emotional needs met . I would never meet with one but it makes me feel desired loved and attractive My husband uses porn and says that there's no harm in it as he will ne...

My wife of ten years says abusive things and then expects me to apologise. How should I respond to her accusations and her insults?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

22 December 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm really concerned. Ours has not been the best of marriages. We're 10 years in, we have two beautiful daughters. I'm the stay at home parent and I've thrown myself at the role. We've moved 3 times and I've made new friends/ a new world ea...

Am I better off dating someone within my own culture/race?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - Five years in an interracial relationship with a man fifteen years older than me. I thought I loved him but now, I'm unsure. Holiday season is depressing. I've never been invited to a family dinner or functions and I hate it. My friends are always ...

I want to feel as strongly about my boyfriend as I do about this other man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I'm in a predicament that I've brought on myself. I have a partner of 12 years. He is good to me, I love him, but not in the way that I feel I should. There was never the initial attraction. I was in a bad place at the time and he was there. Our r...

My feelings for him have changed. Possibly one reason is that he's changed his appearance. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3653 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I'm depressed lately because I just realize that my life sucks. I don't have friends to hang out, my boyfriend also live in boring life, he also feel lonely lately because he doesn't go out much. He broke up with me a few months ago, and his app...

13 months since we broke up and I still want him back. What are the chances that we could resume our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

19 December 2014 (F) - My ex and I split up last year after a five year relationship. Like every relationship it had its ups and downs, but far more ups than downs. We had just moved into a house I had bought. When he asked to split up it broke me to pieces but I had ...

I am boring my husband, how do I get the fun back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - Hi cupids, I'm after some advice on how to "re-attract" someone's attention. My husband and I have been together for 17 years, married for 5 years. We have 2 beautiful sons. The problem is that I feel like he is not interested in me anymore...

The relationship is dead --- why doesn't he let me go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - My relationship has been dead for the past year been with him for 2 years now ,problems began early on in our relationship due to his insecurities and I had some family problems so that pushed me away because he started drinking on a few occasions ...

A man stuck in an unhappy relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

15 December 2014 (M) - Hi im a 34 year old man. I have a girlfriend and we have been together for more than three years. She moved in with me right after we slept together. Everything was going smoothly but now a days my girlfriend has become very possessive. She does...

I think I may have missed my chance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - I was getting pretty close to a man in the last few months but was unsure if I wanted to just stay as close friends or go further with him which he was wanting to do. Anyway, because I was indecisive and unsure he has suddenly moved on to another ...

I want it to last forever, but not like this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

14 December 2014 (F) - When we first started dating, my boyfriend was nice, affectionate, and eager to spend time with me. Two years later... not so much. He is always making fun of me (in a joking way, but it can be a little mean), no where near as affectionate, an...

My husband of 5 years is a miserly selfish man. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - Cupids, Its been a year now and I have been trying to love my "5 years in marriage" huband again, but have failed. I lost feelings for him since I realized he's greedy, miserly person. He stated he would only fund for my food and shelter and that...

Has anyone else had second thoughts about getting married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

7 December 2014 (F) - I am 20 and my fiancé is 23. We have been dating for 4 years (so since I was 16). We are both in college and about to be finishing up. We are set to get married in 6 months. However, I'm feeling doubtful. He is the most respectful, loving, caring ...

I love him but am terrified that marriage with him might not work!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

7 December 2014 (F) - I love my boyfriend dearly. We've been dating 1.5 years. But, we have totally different personalities. I am very friendly, outgoing, love to get out and do stuff. I run and hike several times a week. I am very affectionate with him. Sometimes I...

I love him... But I feel like I want to be single again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - I'm currently in a relationship, we've been together just under 2 years and have a flat together. He's my first serious relationship and I love him to bits... However I get this feeling that I want to be single again now... He means the world to...

Is it ok to change my mind about staying with my boyfriend who cheated on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

3 December 2014 (F) - I can't get over the fact my boyfriend cheated on me , pure and simple. But I'm so worried about how people will view me leaving him when I took him back only a few months ago. So basically, my boyfriend slept with some random girl over the su...

Am I really in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3672 days ago

2 December 2014 (F) - I am in a mostly happy relationship. I am 29 and my boyfriend is a couple of years younger than me. We have known each other for a few years before becoming official. I started living with him and his Dad last year when my Mum kicked me out of...