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Archived questions from: October, 2017 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I love my long term partner but feel a spark for a coworker!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

31 October 2017 (F) - Hi, i'm in a situation i never thought i'd be and i need advice, because i can't talk about it with anyone..I'm in a longterm relationship (7 years). I love my partner, although i can't deny that our relationship is much of a rutine now. We live ...

How can I stop thinking about this teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2569 days ago

31 October 2017 (F) - How do I get over thinking about a former teacher. I’m 21 years old and ten years ago, I had a huge crush on my teacher. Whenever I felt I needed to talk to someone he was always there. He was also the reason I became so close with my best friend ...

Why did he say he was disappointed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

29 October 2017 (M) - I played a little joke on a sort of friend, who I deep down fancy, but haven’t told him.. On a hook up app their profile popped up so I messaged them sent them a few funny pics of people, told them I know them and that to find out who I am they hav...

A guy keeps sending me mixed signals.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2572 days ago

28 October 2017 (F) - Last month I met a guy, he's a friend's(F1) friend's(F2) friend.. We were a few girls and him. We had dinner and drank alcohol so we were all kinda drunk. F1 would continuously tell me that she feels like this guy is coming on to me really strongly ...

I want a relationship with her! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2574 days ago

25 October 2017 (M) - Help! I've been asked by a lady friend to join her to a play this Saturday. I like her and my gut tells me the feeling is mutual. I want a relationship with this woman. What must I do to make my intentions clear? Do I take her to dinner after th...

Just a kiss but what should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

24 October 2017 (F) - Hi, So I've recently been partying a lot more, fairly common for someone my age. Anyway, last night, I got very very drunk and ended up kissing a boy. Now this may seem like a really silly question but my issue is that I can't stop thinking...

Is my crush inappropriate?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

24 October 2017 (F) - Hey all! I have a big, fat, unavoidable crush on a good friend of mine and I am not sure I should, nor am I sure whether I should talk with her about it. My friend is about 9 years older than I am, and I hesitate to bring anything up because she i...

Should I tell my long distance crush my feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2576 days ago

23 October 2017 (F) - Hello, I've got a friend who I've been having crush on over a year and he had crush on me (he told me)... when we've been out few times, we made out (only kissing etc) and I've developed feelings for him...Unfortunately, he wanted just fun and no r...

Why am I hopelessly infatuated with this man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2426 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - Hi, I was just wondering if someone could give me advice I'm with my husband for 16 years married 6 and have two wonderful children we had out up's and down's over the years I've been in and out of counselling due to child abuse and suffer with ...

Do mixed signals just mean he's not interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2580 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - There's a guy in my graduate program who is very handsome. I knew him previously from a class during undergrad as well. He is also a gentleman and very kind to everyone he comes by. He's naturally friendly, social, and sweet. He says and does things ...

Why would my guy friend joke about marrying me? Does it mean anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2581 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - This isn't the first time this guy has joked about us and marriage, but this just happened recently. I was over a friend's house, it was 4 of us. 2 guys and 2 girls (myself included). I said to Guy A: Heyy you need to find me a Caribbean husban...

How can I gauge how much he loves me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2583 days ago

16 October 2017 (F) - Guys help please.. What does it mean when he says he thinks of me sometimes all day? I am trying to figure out how he feels i guess... I know i am in love with him pretty much and i think of him everyday all day see.... Now that would mean that well ...

My friend was in town and didn't tell me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2582 days ago

15 October 2017 (F) - A few months after a bad breakup, I reached out to my high school prom date who I'd always had a crush on. I suspected it may be mutual. We began talking and flirting regularly. He visited me once and I visited him once, as we live several hou...

I just cannot get over him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2583 days ago

14 October 2017 (M) - Why can’t I get over this crush? This guy I’ve fancied for 3 years now, his done my head in. I’ve never had such deep feelings for someone before, this guy matches me banter wise, future hope, likes and he just feels right! We’ve spoke on ...

We exchanged numbers but now I'm turned off by him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2583 days ago

13 October 2017 (F) - I haven't been out in the dating world for a long time. Recently I have been chatting here and there with a guy doing construction at my place of work, seemed like a nice guy, cute, I felt comfortable talking with him. So he asked me for my phone...

He has kept in touch, but I thought he only wanted sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2587 days ago

12 October 2017 (F) - Hi there! So i went on a date a few months ago with a lovely giy who i knew from primary school who just happens to now have his own tv series. We went out for a drink, had a lovely time. Then the next week he drove 3 hours to see his father (...

It was going great and now she has stopped responding ... I guess its over!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2569 days ago

11 October 2017 (M) - Hello everyone! A few months ago I started exchanging Facebook messages with a girl I knew in high school about ten years ago. I'm 30 and she's 29. Things went really well and she agreed to meet up as soon as we could (she was moving back to h...

Am I falling for the wrong guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2587 days ago

11 October 2017 (F) - I liked my brother's friend for 1 year.I never seen him or talk to him before.But I developed feelings for him when my brother tell about him.I started to talk to him a few days ago without telling my brother.I told him that I like him.He said he ...

He cannot communicate and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2590 days ago

10 October 2017 (F) - I've recently started dating a guy. We've known each other for 4 years in total and we've helped each other through a lot in those 4 years. He ended up adding me from a whatsapp group that we were both in 4 years ago and we started chatting...

Is it possible he wants more than sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2591 days ago

10 October 2017 (F) - About a month ago, I downloaded the app Tinder out of pure boredom. I wasn't looking for a relationship because my previous one really messed me up and ever since then I've had a really hard time developing feelings for guys. I was in a place where ...

How soon is too soon to ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2590 days ago

9 October 2017 (M) - Ok I use to give this girl a lift to work and we got on really well and have so much in common. 2 weeks ago she split up with her boyfriend and has moved so I longer have to give her a lift. At work we have been speaking a lot more since she has ...

I have been helplessley in love with someone for too long, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2590 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - I am in love with someone. I have known him for years now. When I fell in love with im, it was slow, and so pure. He was my first love. I love him with all of my heart. Around the time I fell for him he had a girlfriend. And that hurt my heart, b...

Why am I having thought about having passionate sex with my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - I think somethings wrong. I am in college, and one of my classmates, I have known since high school turns me on. Every time we talk and see each other (which is all the time, because we have the same major and minor) I have thoughts and fantasies ...

Is he into me, I like him a lot!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2591 days ago

8 October 2017 (F) - Is he into me or not ? I really like a guy but I’m not sure about his actions. We have never had a conversation and I don’t even know his name. I wanted to initiate but he rarely shows up at the class so I stopped thinking about it but one of my...

We'd been having intense eye contact but then she just ignored me! What happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

6 October 2017 (M) - Need advice ! I sensed a girl in my office building but different company(i have never spoken to her) was noticing me.Soon we started having regular eye contact..Inbetween she ignored me couple of days,i responded by ignoring her back and then it ...

Is my married boss hoping I will ask her out. ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2594 days ago

6 October 2017 (M) - Hi this only happens at work lm a guy and really like 2 women 1 is married and find it hard to ask her out for a coffee and chat l feel she's still interested but she wants me to approach her and ask her out l don't think it will happen also cause ...

Engaged to be married and have a crush on another woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2594 days ago

6 October 2017 (M) - So to start off I have been with my fiancé for 11 years since we were both 18. In that time we have both been through a lot, however I have never in the last 11 years had a crush on another woman. She has always been the only women who i had any ...

This married man is only interested when his family are out of town

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2594 days ago

5 October 2017 (F) - Hello here, the thing is I met this married guy around august 2015,though he didn't tell me he was married until almost a month and then I was already in love with him I don't know why but I remember all I could say to him was know problem and don't ...