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writes:Need advice ! I sensed a girl in my office building but different company(i have never spoken to her) was noticing me.Soon we started having regular eye contact..Inbetween she ignored me couple of days,i responded by ignoring her back and then it came to a situation where both of us have been having regular and solid eye contact for the last few days.She seems to make effort to come to the common area where i would be standing and then hold eye contact..I became so confident that i approached her with a "Hi" but she didn't look up and kept walking without flinching with surprise at my approach.She just coolly kept walking.I am confused.I cant believe she wasn't interested as the eye contacts were intense and she was the one who started it all...Whats happening here ? We are both 30+ years old. Reply to this Question
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reader, AwesomeButAwkward  +, writes (26 February 2018):
This is a really late reply to your question but it's such a coincidence that I have to respond.
I'm practically the girl in your situation.
I have been experiencing intense eye contact with a guy from work, same office, different department, etc.
It's tough to say because it's happening in the workplace but I feel really shy around him. Maybe she feels the same way I do. I wouldn't continue making eye contact if I wasn't interested. I can imagine if she isn't interested and is turned off by the eye contact that she would try to avoid it. Maybe you should try to talk to her again! Shy girls like me would like that.
Good luck, and if you have any updates, please respond!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2017): Stop staring at her. You said hello, and got ignored. I guess it means she wasn't interested and notices you staring at her.
Why should she avoid "common areas," because you might be there staring at her? Common areas are open to the public; and she doesn't seem to reciprocate any interest in spite of your staring matches. So if you see her there from now on, go about your business. If you make her uncomfortable, she can report it to her company Human Resources; who may in-turn contact yours!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 October 2017):
 Could be she was looking at you trying to figure out why you were staring at her. You might have thought she looked out of interest, she might have, she might NOT have.
Since you are 30, not 15 I think the best approach is TALKING to someone.
You tried by saying hello and she TOTALLY ignored you. Which means, she probably isn't interested which means... you leave her be. Just go back to ignoring her. IF she IS interested she will try and get your attention by either talking to you or some other means. If she is not interested she will probably be relieved.
Eye contact doesn't always equate to interest. Sometimes it's curiosity and other times it's just passing the time. Could also be, that one of her coworkers had mentioned you, so she was checking you out.
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