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Archived questions from: November, 2017 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I'm obsessed with the man I had a little bit of fun with, 16 years ago!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - This is really weird. So, some 16 years ago, I had a one night stand with this acquaintance - we traveled together to a new city with a group of friends and stayed in the same house. I was relatively sexually inexperienced and socially inept. The ...

Should the other woman tell his wife about the affair?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

28 November 2017 (F) - Should the other woman tell his wife about the affair? I know many would use harsh and negative remarks on such question. I did no Contact and he reached out and I caved in. I am thinking of telling his wife so that I can move on for good forever...

I have these gut feelings she's cheating so how do I figure out what I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

27 November 2017 (F) - I'm a female in a relationship with another female. I have trust issues due to previous infidelities in past relationships. I know that it's unfair for me to question her when she's done nothing wrong, but, honest to god, I can't help it. I feel ...

Should I tell my son that his girlfriend is cheating on him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

25 November 2017 (F) - My sons girlfriend is cheating on him??? Both she and my son are 25 and have been together for just over 9 years. I received an e-mail from someone who has sent me evidence that she has been cheating on him for the past 5 years with his BFF. I ...

I want to sleep with my wifes cousin.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

24 November 2017 (M) - So my wife has a really attractive cousin who I only see on holidays and up until now she’s been in a relationship. Well she’s newly single and I noticed she seems to be interested in me as well and has given vibes that she’s feeling it too. I sat ...

I flirted with another man but I never meant to hurt my boyfriend. How do I convince him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2538 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Hello, I am looking for advice. Before I get into it, I take full responsibility for my own actions, and do not shift any of the blame onto my partner. I am merely stating what got me to the point of my betrayal. Me and my (Ex) boyfriend have b...

I feel that my boyfriend's ex wife was living my dream life and I'll never match up to her

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am off for the next week due to holidays and as my boyfriend is working, I offered to work on clearing out his storage. Now he has an ex wife of 10 years(divorced in 2009) and I brought home a ton of boxes that were never unpacked. ...

I've never cheated but my husband is accusing me off it because he says I am "loose"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

20 November 2017 (F) - am a young woman of 25yrs I have two children all through c section,av never slept with any other man for the past six years.my spouse is accusing me of cheating because my vagaina is loose he had started an affair outside..am shattered what can be ...

I have been having an affair with a woman for 7 years and I am content. Is this strange?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

20 November 2017 (M) - I have been the male equivalent of a mistress for the past 7 years. Is it strange that I don't mind? I havent dated or even tried to date because I am just fine with having her a few times a month. I am 42 years old and never been married, but I ...

My world has come crashing down because my wife just told me that the daughter we've been raising is not mine but from her affair after the marriage!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

19 November 2017 (M) - My wife and i have been married for 3 years, 6 months ago she told me something that rocked my core. the daughter i have been raising is not mine. she had an affair 2 years ago. the reason she cheated was that she was a virgin when we got married ...

We still sext even though he has a girlfriend, how do I move on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2541 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - For the past two years ive been sort of sexting/sending the odd nude to this guy. Recently though he's gotten into a relationship, however we have still continued sexting etc. We've never slept together its strictly 'cyber'. A few weeks ago (I ...

My sister's boyfriend kissed me and now we've been making out behind her back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - My sisters boyfriend kissed me what should I do?? I’m 15 years old and my sisters boyfriend is 19 they’ve been dating for about a year I’ve known him as long as she has known him. This all started about 3 months ago when he started grabbing...

I love someone more than my boyfriend. And I cheated on him with the other person.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - So i recently cheated on my boyfriend. This is actually quite a long story but I’ll try to sum it up as much as possible. Early this summer I started talking to this guy, let’s call him James, we’ll james and I hit it off. He was perfect beyond ...

I'm sorry I took her back ... should I end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - SHould i end wid her? she and i came in relation even if she had a boyfriend back then. i somehow convinced her to come in relation. cuz i loved her. but she was kinda confused between him and me. been in relation for 2 months. i had to leave the...

Its a year of no contact with married man, I suspect his friends are contacting me on facebook.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2537 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - Hello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read my question. It's a messed up situation but I've been coming here off and on over the situation for a few years now. Several years ago and crush turned into a long term affair with a married ...

How can a wife cheat for 3 years and act like everything is ok?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

10 November 2017 (M) - After I found out that my wife was having a three year affair with another man, I gave her an ultimatum and she ended it....she eventually told me that she made a big mistake, and didnt know what she was thinking the past three years...I found out ...

Is online cheating okay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

8 November 2017 (F) - OK! I found out that my boyfriend of 8 years has been going on adult dating sites looking for women to hook up he'd say he hopes they can come over see I'd stay at my daughters sometimes and baby sit. is cheating OK if there's no actual contact ...

There is no intimacy in our marriage .... is my wife having an affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

7 November 2017 (M) - I have been married for 15 years. Beginning of marriage the sex life was great. Then all of sudden I had to wear a condom didn't want me to orgasm inside her. The kissing stopped was only just a peck on the cheek or lips. Once a month she has dinner ...

I'm in a mess I cant walk away from

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

7 November 2017 (F) - Urgh, what a mess. An old colleague messaged me to ask how I was getting on. We never really interacted at work. The messages very quickly became flirty. We are both married. But we met for coffee and there was definitely sexual chemistry....

I'm (21M) receiving ridiculously mixed signals from my best friend (18F)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

7 November 2017 (M) - I met this girl during the summer when she was single and 2 months fresh after her breakup with her 3-year relationship and after two months of just getting to know her, I confessed how I felt but at the time she rejected me because she wasn't ...

I cyber cheated, my fiancé doesn’t want anything to do with me, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

6 November 2017 (M) - Recently my then fiancé found out that I had been having an explicit conversation with an old friend on social media. She found out and we spoke about it and we agreed to move past it and better ourselves because there was a disconnect. Basically ...

How do I find a man who won't cheat on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

4 November 2017 (F) - Thing is, I was cheated by two man before both I have child. Both men are the same age like 6 years older than me. First man, he made other woman pregnant that’s why I separated. Second man did not tell me he is married. Both man I did not get ...

He had affairs while buying my IVF

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

3 November 2017 (F) - My ex and I planned a pregnancy. I was having fertility issues and so we decided to proceed with an IVF. It was his idea and he has even funded the entire procedure. I am about to get pregnant and I found out that he has had numerous affairs ...

He cheated. Should I?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

2 November 2017 (F) - I’m married 20 yrs to my 1st love. We have 3 kids (14, 10 and 6). I found out 5 yrs ago my husband was cheating on me for a few years. I confronted him with evidence found in his emails and texts, pics of escorts and hotel records. He confessed ...

Do you ever get trust back in a relationship and if it’s possible how on earth do you get it back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

2 November 2017 (F) - I have been with my partner for just over four years now. We have had a rocky relationship, many hurdles along the way but overcome each and every one of them. I have trust issues, I don’t partially trust people and find it difficult to ope...