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Archived questions from: October, 2015 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I'm dating my married step uncle...help? I need advice on what to do, please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3296 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - Ok hi. Completely new at this. So to get right to the point. I'm dating my step uncle so (my mothers step mums son) so not. Definitely not blood related. He is married (not separated) tho like typical situations (is going to get a device an...

My husband cheated and left me and now he wants to talk. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Hi, I was married for 30 years. My husband left me three years ago and went off with another woman who he met through as. He has been sober now for six months and I got the first text today from him saying he was sorry for all the hurt he caused and ...

Is my girlfriend having sex with her personal trainer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

29 October 2015 (M) - Hi guys, I've been dating someone for 6 months now and generally it's been great. She has had a personal trainer (PT) for about 8 months. I was happy she had goals and wants to achieve them. I've started becoming concerned with the chat...

Is he cheating? He changed passwords without telling me and has been gone long hours!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - My husband works as a sales rep, he went out yesterday 6am got back in 920pm at night. He rang at 5 pm to ask what me and our son wanted for tea and said he wouldn't be home until 830pm. He thought i would be ok with him when he got home ...

I want to play the player and give him a dose of his own medicine!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3302 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hello, people! I've got this common yet plaguing issue. I am currently in a long-term relationship with a guy with not-so-good past (well, I too have a horrible past). Some 2 months back, our relationship hit a low phase and for the first time eve...

Why is this happening now? Two years later? Now I'm plagued with dreams that remind me of his affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - hi everyone. Some advice would be great. Cut a long story short my partner had an affair nearly two years ago now. We had been together for four years at the time, we both weren't happy and then I found out the reason why- he had had a six week a...

Why did I cheat on the perfect husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Why did I cheat on the perfect husband? I have been married for 4 years with a man I love dearly, but I cheated on him for about 1/2 a year with a former co-worker. I only did it for the attention so I changed jobs. I love my husband and now ...

Why does my married lover remain with his wife if they've stopped sexual relations with each other?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Been with my married lover for a few years now and the other night I asked him if he was sleeping with his wife? He didn't like me asking because I have kept mentioning it, anyway he said he didn't and if he was to cuddle his wife she would be ...

Two years into a LDR and now I've cheated. What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi there this is the first time I doing this. I'm in a difficult situation right now, and I really don't know what to do. I've been in a long distant relationship for almost 2 years and I feel like things are starting to become dull between me and ...

I want to be a family but I am scarred from what my boyfriend did

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3299 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - A few weeks after I had given birth to my baby I found a load of sexting texts on my boyfriend's phone. I knew the person to be a girl he works with and when I asked him about it he said it was just flirting and that I did it all the time. Before my ...

I'm 19, he's 31. Do we have a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

26 October 2015 (F) - helo. I am inlove with a 31 year old man (im 19). He saw me passing by one time last year december and gave me his number the same day and i gave him mine. He called me later the same day unfortunately i was with my boyfriend by that time. He told ...

My boyfriend of two years has cheated on me with his estranged wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

25 October 2015 (F) - When I was barely 17, I fell into the trap of an older and more experienced man (Adam), thinking what we had was love. I was young and naive and was fooled by his compliments. No guy had ever taken interest in me before, so I was easily blinded by ...

How do I fix that I cheated on my wife and then kept lying about it?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

21 October 2015 (M) - Over 2 years ago I broke and destroyed my wife's heart by having an affair, at a time when we should have been at our happiest expecting our first child through IVF. On revelation of what happened I cowardly hid the truth in order to save our rela...

Could our marriage be fixed? We have both cheated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

21 October 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been married for two years. We have only ever been with each other and both have a very strong religious upbringing. Shortly after we were married we moved across the country and both made major career changes. We agreed to put ...

Am I being played? I've me a wonderful girl, but she's unhappily married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

21 October 2015 (M) - I met a wonderful girl at the end of june, and i have fallen so in love with her. and she said she feels the same way too. But she is married and unhappy. so now nearly 4 months in to this crazyness im feeling like im being played. we meet u...

My husband has cheated on me and I'm not sure if I should have children or even stay in this marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

21 October 2015 (F) - My husband and I got married 5 years ago. We rushed into marriage after a year of LDR, during which I found out he had a 3 year old kid with somebody else. I believed him telling me he had no relationship with the mother of his child (Ana). A couple ...

Are my suspicions reasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

18 October 2015 (F) - Hi, Something is playing on my mind and I need some advice please. I'm too embarrassed to confide in any of my friends or family and I feel sick thinking about this. My husband and I have been together for 14 years and married for 3. I'...

My boyfriend's ex is sending me screenshots about him cheating! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

18 October 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years now. He has a kid with another girl. I love him so much and thought he was the one until tonight whenI got a bunch of screenshots of texts from his kid's mom about them hooking up. Apparently they ...

Why he does not stop taking to this girl who is married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years and we have a child together. He recently turn 30 and it was very hard for him. I am a year younger than him. He recently met this girl who was not married when he met her she was engaged and was ...

Is he thinking of her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

14 October 2015 (F) - During sex my boyfriend has always made it important to look in each others eyes. Now after he has cheated when hes on me he looks up or down or above my head. I believe hes thinking of her.am I right?...

I'm heartbroken over my married man!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - I have been having an affair with a married coworker for two years...the feelings are strong and even though we knew it was wrong we always kept going back to each other. I found out last month from a mutual friend that his plan to adopt a baby ...

Is my husband remorseful for what he did?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

12 October 2015 (F) - My husband had an affair 3 yrs ago, it's been a very difficult recovery process for me since- I offered forgiveness and he lied and continued communication with her for 3 months after discovery-told many other lies and till this day hasn't given me ...

Is sexting ok when you are in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

12 October 2015 (F) - It was a two month relationship. I found him sexting other women and I lost it,cried the whole night etc,didn't let him sleep but the lies he told the other woman was devastating. I have learnt my lesson to leave if anything like this happens ...

How can I be in love with a monster?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

10 October 2015 (F) - Please help me aunts and uncles. I'm stuck in love with an absolute monster who stepped out on me at the beginning of the year, and has been gone since. We were so great together, we planned for a baby, we had it all. Fast forward, I move in with ...

I just found out my girlfriend of almost two years is MARRIED! Now what?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

8 October 2015 (M) - Hey Aunts! I have been dating this wonderful younger woman for almost two years now. She is smart, ambitious, and beautiful and she is 10 years my junior. Our sex life has been amazing, but it was troubling in one way. She always pushed for o...

She cheated. At what point will I know I can get past this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

7 October 2015 (M) - Hi guys. I could do with some help. My Girlfriend cheated on me 15 months ago, and i found out around 6 months ago. IT's a pretty unique situation so I'll try to explain, We've been together 8 years, and she's been best friends with this guy ...

I'm frustrated, hopeful and yearning for more! Help? Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

6 October 2015 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 46 year old gay male. I've developed a relationship with a 20 year old straight male (friends only) that lives across the street,that seems to be heading into a more than friends relationship. I've had a huge crush on him from the...

Question for men: is it really difficult to leave your wife if you've been having an affair? Or am I right - is he just offering me excuses?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - I have done the unthinkable for the last 8 years of my life. Please don't hammer me. I have been dating married man. No kids. He's much older than me and at first I was just having fun but it turned into love. He's taken me on many trips an...

I really do love her but I am troubled by something that happened four months ago. Is this a reason to break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

3 October 2015 (M) - So I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months and I found about 2 months in she cheated with another guy and had sex. She was very drunk and doesn't remember a thing. I've talked to people that were with her that night and they all say it wasn'...

I Cheated on my boyfriend but now he's harassing me. How should I respond?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

3 October 2015 (F) - I know cheating is a horrible thing but I cheated on my boyfriend. He of course was very upset and broke up with me. Now he is harassing me and getting his friends to contact me and harass me. He put that I cheated on him on Facebook and also po...