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Archived questions from: 20 May, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

No one is ever truly happy in a marriage... is this true?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. As my screen name suggests I feel like im ready to make a choice but I need some real strong non-hateful advice. I have never used a service like this so I hope it will make me see things more clearly. I really need help. anyway here ...

My wife or the love of my life? How do I choose?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - hello everyone. as my screen name suggests I feel like im ready to make a choice but I need some real strong non- hateful advice. I have never used a service like this so I hope it will make me see things more clearly. I really need help. anyway ...

Please don't judge me for taking another woman's husband

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I've got myself into a relationship that will wreck so many lives, but i can't stop seeing my boyfriend. I love him too much. Im 19 and my BF is 25. He's my brothers best friend and i've known him all my life. He got married about 3 years ago beca...

We're both married, were once married to each other..feelings still there

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - In 1973 I was 17 and my boyfriend was 18 we married in 1975 and divorced in 1980. we both grew up in the same small town so our parents keept us informed through out the years. we both have remarried and have long marriages mine 25 his 23 both with ...

Paranoid that my boyfriend will cheat on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Can anyone please help me with this fear i have that my boyfriend will cheat on me when he goes out with his mates. He doesnt handle drink well and doesnt know when to stop and ends up acting a right knob and not remembering what he gets up to. He ...

My affair ended and my husband forgave me....but the guy I cheated with wont leave me alone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Ok, this is my story I have been working for a great company for 2 years now have a wonderful marriage well lets say we have our ups and downs but who doesnt. I started training this man that came to work in my department, well I started flirting he ...

Planning on marrying my fiancee but my other girlfriend is pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - morning, i'm a young guy of 33years old. i have a problem with my girl freind.the probleme is this.i have a fiancee in my own town,but i came in this small town for work almost 8 month now and i find another girl freind.before we started...

Is it a good idea to stay with her even though she cheats or should I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - i have a question,,i have a girl friend who ive known for 11 months and i found out she had been doing any guy she could get her mouth on ..or in her vigina.. this was before me..is it a good idea to stay with her, or let her go.. she is a n...

Soulmate vs the good guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Two years ago I met a man who absolutely blew me away. He was perfect for me in every way and whenever I saw him, I felt elated, happy beyond words. If there is such a thing as soulmates, he would be mine. Complications arose and I acted ...

Why does he continue to flirt with other girls online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - for a while now I've been logging on to my boyfriend's bebo and facebook(I know his password) and looking at his phone.and i've been finding flirty messages, like he told one girl he thought she was fit on bebo and is often asking for girls' ...

Am I being paranoid or is she actually cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - Im not sure if its my gut or im reading into it too much, but is she cheating on me? I read into things way too much. I feel like shes cheating on me, or seeing other guys. The reasons for me thinking this way: She texts me way less than before....

I think I am in love with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - i met this guy 6 month ago. when i met him i told him i had a boyfriend that lives in africa. he accepted it and continued to see me. at the begining i hung out with him for fun but now i started to fall for him what do i do please help....

How do we get our daughter to realise her boyfriend's a loser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Ok... here's my problem... my daughter is 19, and has been dating this guy for 2 1/2 years. We've always had our reservations about him, but to keep her happy, we've welcomed into our house, treating him like one of the family. He's repeatedly hurt ...

I'm having second thoughts about moving in together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - i dated a girl for over two years, and recently we broke up on trust issues due to events in the past. For the first year of the relationship i took it as a free ride and cheated on her twice while away at uni. I admitted both of this two her and we ...

Am I stupid for wanting to stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Okay here it goes. My hubby wants to separate cause he met a girl on internet. He says it means nothing, but I don't know if he has met her or not. About 8 years ago this happened. Am I stupid for wanting to stay?...